This has been an interesting topic since I have started dating again.. I am always amazed how women try to send "hints" to us men, automatically thinking we will pick up on them.
For example: Playing with your hair, putting on lipstick, telling us something that does not quite make sense... (yet we are supposed to know EXACTLY what it means).
I am often amazed at how many "hints" I missed when I finally start dating a women. We'll talk about when we first met, then laugh about it. But seriously girls.. Men DO NOT think like women, and most of us CANNOT understand your "hints" or "language" when it comes to letting us know you are interested.
Guys have their own code, but it is VERY simple. A grunt or a look here or there and we get it. Just because your girlfriends get these "hints" does not mean men will!
I have to wonder, how many women miss out on meeting great guys because they "expected them" to "pick up" on their subtle "female language" hints that they were interested??
My point is.. don't get discouraged if a guy "does not seem interested in you". Ever consider that he just does not get the hints and silly little games you are playing?
Just be very direct, yet innocent and the same time. Tell him in a cheerful way, "I like you, you are a nice guy!" or, "You are handsome"
You would be very surprised how many guys you like didn't even have a clue you were interested in them. I can usually tell if a woman is interested in me on a first date by two things: She is very "touchy feely", and she is always leaning forwards, towards me. (Or close to me) Other than that, you better get out the crayons and paper.. lol
Just food for thought. I never realize how many "hints" I missed until I start dating the woman and she says "Oh I practically had to drag you over to my house!" or things like that. haha.. I'm sure this has happened to a few of you. Both men and women.
My question is... why don't you just tell a guy you like him in a nice way, rather than go through all the trouble of trying to impress him and throw hundreds of "hints" his way (most of which he probably won't get)..
Posted: at 3-09-2009 09:07 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
erikaakpan at 3-09-2009 09:52 AM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: around_d_corner on 3-09-2009 09:36 AM
Quote from: erikaakpan on 3-09-2009 09:30 AM
im always straight to the point
as in what dear.....
well for one...i dnt play with my hair... two..i dnt wear makeup three...being direct is the most honest way to communicate with someone. hiding your true values will get u nowhere
Flirtation: Attention without intention.
Posted: at 3-09-2009 09:52 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
well for one...i dnt play with my hair... two..i dnt wear makeup three...being direct is the most honest way to communicate with someone. hiding your true values will get u nowhere
gud to know
Posted: at 3-09-2009 09:56 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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