Help me : He wants sex

Date: 09-09-2009 3:03 pm (14 years ago) | Author: amaka ezenwa
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- at 9-09-2009 03:03 PM (14 years ago)
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i met dis guy a month now our friendship is going will untill 1day he invite me to his house,then i go bcos i luv him.i didn't knw it was all about sex when he as me to have sex with him than i refuse,dat is where our problem start.i told him dat is too early hve sex with him he said dat if i truly luv him as he luv me dat i will do dat. i told him dat sex is not everything,he said dat is num one thing in relationship.dat if i'm not ready to hve sex dat i will be ready to loose him.And i love dis guy,should i do it or not bcos i think if i do it i will look too cheap.           AND HE said dat he love me. did he really luv me

Posted: at 9-09-2009 03:03 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
- pope12 at 9-09-2009 03:08 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: eamakagee on  9-09-2009 03:03 PM
i met dis guy a month now our friendship is going will untill 1day he invite me to his house,then i go bcos i luv him.i didn't knw it was all about sex when he as me to have sex with him than i refuse,dat is where our problem start.i told him dat is too early hve sex with him he said dat if i truly luv him as he luv me dat i will do dat. i told him dat sex is not everything,he said dat is num one thing in relationship.dat if i'm not ready to hve sex dat i will be ready to loose him.And i love dis guy,should i do it or not bcos i think if i do it i will look too cheap.           AND HE said dat he love me. did he really luv me

follow ur heart  Grin Grin
Posted: at 9-09-2009 03:08 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- waco at 9-09-2009 03:18 PM (14 years ago)
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first, you have to imrove ur grammer
secod, are you a male or female bcos ur pic is F and ur logo shows M.
third, It depends on what you and the guy want from this relationship.
 try study the guy and see if he is only interested in having u or he really loves you.


Posted: at 9-09-2009 03:18 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- pepigambit at 9-09-2009 03:19 PM (14 years ago)
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hm dats some real help
Posted: at 9-09-2009 03:19 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- presciousoluchi at 9-09-2009 03:25 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: eamakagee on  9-09-2009 03:03 PM
i met dis guy a month now our friendship is going will untill 1day he invite me to his house,then i go bcos i luv him.i didn't knw it was all about sex when he as me to have sex with him than i refuse,dat is where our problem start.i told him dat is too early hve sex with him he said dat if i truly luv him as he luv me dat i will do dat. i told him dat sex is not everything,he said dat is num one thing in relationship.dat if i'm not ready to hve sex dat i will be ready to loose him.And i love dis guy,should i do it or not bcos i think if i do it i will look too cheap.           AND HE said dat he love me. did he really luv me


i said don't have sex with him,,,,,,,,,,,if he truly love u he will come after u wen u say no

Posted: at 9-09-2009 03:25 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- pepigambit at 9-09-2009 03:27 PM (14 years ago)
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y do gals always say cos a man does not ask for sex dat means he lovs dem ...pls
Posted: at 9-09-2009 03:27 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- around_d_corner at 9-09-2009 03:35 PM (14 years ago)
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don't do that sex isn't all abt relationship.......if he's out , that means hei s not 4 u..........
Posted: at 9-09-2009 03:35 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- emmyG at 9-09-2009 03:38 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: eamakagee on  9-09-2009 03:03 PM
i met dis guy a month now our friendship is going will untill 1day he invite me to his house,then i go bcos i luv him.i didn't knw it was all about sex when he as me to have sex with him than i refuse,dat is where our problem start.i told him dat is too early hve sex with him he said dat if i truly luv him as he luv me dat i will do dat. i told him dat sex is not everything,he said dat is num one thing in relationship.dat if i'm not ready to hve sex dat i will be ready to loose him.And i love dis guy,should i do it or not bcos i think if i do it i will look too cheap.           AND HE said dat he love me. did he really luv me
is ur thing na ... if u feel like giving him .. give oo .. but if dont then dont give
Posted: at 9-09-2009 03:38 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Resi at 9-09-2009 03:49 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: eamakagee on  9-09-2009 03:03 PM
i met dis guy a month now our friendship is going will untill 1day he invite me to his house,then i go bcos i luv him.i didn't knw it was all about sex when he as me to have sex with him than i refuse,dat is where our problem start.i told him dat is too early hve sex with him he said dat if i truly luv him as he luv me dat i will do dat. i told him dat sex is not everything,he said dat is num one thing in relationship.dat if i'm not ready to hve sex dat i will be ready to loose him.And i love dis guy,should i do it or not bcos i think if i do it i will look too cheap.           AND HE said dat he love me. did he really luv me
I'm certainly sure that you dont know what relationship entails,if you do,then no one will tell you that sex is the pry. issue in a relationship. Secondly,do you have to ask a public site if you should do it or not... The brain is not for fancy,kindly utilize it properly.

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- around_d_corner at 9-09-2009 03:55 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: emmyG on  9-09-2009 03:38 PM
Quote from: eamakagee on  9-09-2009 03:03 PM
i met dis guy a month now our friendship is going will untill 1day he invite me to his house,then i go bcos i luv him.i didn't knw it was all about sex when he as me to have sex with him than i refuse,dat is where our problem start.i told him dat is too early hve sex with him he said dat if i truly luv him as he luv me dat i will do dat. i told him dat sex is not everything,he said dat is num one thing in relationship.dat if i'm not ready to hve sex dat i will be ready to loose him.And i love dis guy,should i do it or not bcos i think if i do it i will look too cheap.           AND HE said dat he love me. did he really luv me
is ur thing na ... if u feel like giving him .. give oo .. but if dont then dont give
bad advice
Posted: at 9-09-2009 03:55 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- emmyG at 9-09-2009 03:59 PM (14 years ago)
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how is it a bad advice?
Posted: at 9-09-2009 03:59 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 9-09-2009 04:07 PM (14 years ago)
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I dont think he loved U. He could have too and then his testosterone got in the way. In any case if he did and thats the case then his love is weaker than his testosterone, in which case it's not worth it.

U even told him "it's too early." Meaning if he had just heard U and choose to be patient, he'd have hit it. hmmm...
Posted: at 9-09-2009 04:07 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Dguy at 9-09-2009 04:25 PM (14 years ago)
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One word - RUN.
If possible take a flight. Guy's just looking for someone to sex....

If you dont believe me  - go and find out from Robert Kelly

Posted: at 9-09-2009 04:25 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- around_d_corner at 9-09-2009 04:28 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: emmyG on  9-09-2009 03:59 PM
how is it a bad advice?
coz sex is all abt relationship......not mata of is ur thing or not..
Posted: at 9-09-2009 04:28 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- teeco at 9-09-2009 04:32 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: waco on  9-09-2009 03:18 PM
first, you have to imrove ur grammer
secod, are you a male or female bcos ur pic is F and ur logo shows M.
third, It depends on what you and the guy want from this relationship.
 try study the guy and see if he is only interested in having u or he really loves you.



 Cool Cool Cool

Posted: at 9-09-2009 04:32 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- olame4 at 9-09-2009 04:51 PM (14 years ago)
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i said don't have sex with him,,,,,,,,,,,if he truly love u he will come after u wen u say no



don't have it now until he come back to u or u shoul 4get him if he did not come back to u
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- around_d_corner at 9-09-2009 05:01 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: teeco on  9-09-2009 04:32 PM
Quote from: waco on  9-09-2009 03:18 PM
first, you have to imrove ur grammer
secod, are you a male or female bcos ur pic is F and ur logo shows M.
third, It depends on what you and the guy want from this relationship.
 try study the guy and see if he is only interested in having u or he really loves you.



 Cool Cool Cool
why?
Posted: at 9-09-2009 05:01 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- cleakoms at 9-09-2009 05:02 PM (14 years ago)
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honestly, can we actually remove sex from relationship??

anyway, she met this guy and he started asking for sex within a month.. that guy is definitely not for real.

but sincerely, can u truly love someone , date him or her for 3-6 years.. spend a lot of time together..
cook his mean and do all sorts of stuffs for this years without actually having sex??

it's almost impossible.

My advice is, make sure you're ready before you get involved in any relationship and also,

ask for youself, can i spend the rest of my life with him or her??..

is he or she truly a wife or husband material....

Then, if you're convinced, you can go ahead to dating.. and if the love is real.. you will survive without sex.. but

am sure you'll definitely do all other parts.. i mean part 1, part 2 and part3.. but do stay away from the final part na Only by God's grace ooo
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- around_d_corner at 9-09-2009 05:17 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: cleakoms on  9-09-2009 05:02 PM
honestly, can we actually remove sex from relationship??

anyway, she met this guy and he started asking for sex within a month.. that guy is definitely not for real.

but sincerely, can u truly love someone , date him or her for 3-6 years.. spend a lot of time together..
cook his mean and do all sorts of stuffs for this years without actually having sex??

it's almost impossible.

My advice is, make sure you're ready before you get involved in any relationship and also,

ask for youself, can i spend the rest of my life with him or her??..

is he or she truly a wife or husband material....

Then, if you're convinced, you can go ahead to dating.. and if the love is real.. you will survive without sex.. but

am sure you'll definitely do all other parts.. i mean part 1, part 2 and part3.. but do stay away from the final part na Only by God's grace ooo
omg lenghty enof.....
Posted: at 9-09-2009 05:17 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- cleakoms at 9-09-2009 05:24 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: around_d_corner on  9-09-2009 05:17 PM
Quote from: cleakoms on  9-09-2009 05:02 PM
honestly, can we actually remove sex from relationship??

anyway, she met this guy and he started asking for sex within a month.. that guy is definitely not for real.

but sincerely, can u truly love someone , date him or her for 3-6 years.. spend a lot of time together..
cook his mean and do all sorts of stuffs for this years without actually having sex??

it's almost impossible.

My advice is, make sure you're ready before you get involved in any relationship and also,

ask for youself, can i spend the rest of my life with him or her??..

is he or she truly a wife or husband material....

Then, if you're convinced, you can go ahead to dating.. and if the love is real.. you will survive without sex.. but

am sure you'll definitely do all other parts.. i mean part 1, part 2 and part3.. but do stay away from the final part na Only by God's grace ooo
omg lenghty enof.....

This u name self, u're everly around the corner
Posted: at 9-09-2009 05:24 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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