19-yr-old, who Tested HIV-Positive after She was Gang-Raped in Lagos, Seeks Just

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at 10:26 PM, 31/05/2014 (5 years ago)

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Helen Like any lady of her age, Helen, 19, dreamt of a bright future. That dream brought her from her hometown in Benue State, to Bariga, Lagos State, where she stayed with her sister. But in her quest for a better life, her dream was shattered last January when she was gang-raped. The incident dramatically altered her life.

Helen, who is now living with the Human Immuno-deficiency Virus (HIV), is seeking justice against those who violated her. She tells her story to Senior TheNation Correspondent, EVELYN OSAGIE.
HELEN (surname withheld) will be 20 years on October 10. But she now bears a burden that is too heavy for her age. She was gang-raped in January this year and was diagnosed with HIV last month. 
After secondary school in 2008, Helen wanted to further her education, but being the fifth of 11 children comes with its own challenge. However, determined that she would return to school some day, she began working as a cleaner in a big firm at Lekki, Lagos,
from where she hoped to save for school. She had worked there for almost a year before the tragic episode that altered her life dramatically took place. It was with a deep emotion that she recounted her ordeal. 
All was quiet and the street lonely early that Tuesday morning when the unsuspecting lady set out from her Bariga home to resume her morning shift at work. It was at exactly 5:05am, the same time she often left home everyday to board a bus some streets away to Lagos Island. 
But that morning, something was not right. She noticed five young men lurking about as she got out of her street’s gate. On seeing their fearsome appearance, her heart skipped a beat. Consumed by fear, her first instinct was to turn and run back into the street, but it was too late. She had been spotted. 
“They blocked and grabbed me. They pointed a gun at me and told me to be quiet and do everything they said I should do, or else they would harm me,” Helen said before she was overcome by emotion. 
After a short silence that seemed ages, she added: “I tried to shout but when I looked around and did not see anybody except those guys, I was so afraid and did as they said… They, then, carried me to one corner by the side of the street… (She bowed her head). They asked me to lie down.” 
Helen went silent again with head still bowed, to hold back tears. She said: “I begged them to release me, that I was on my way to work and that I didn’t have anything to offer them. They told me to shut up, saying they would waste me, if I didn’t like my life. I begged them to spare my life.” Her plea touched a member of the gang; he said she should be freed. But his statement fell on deaf ears, for Helen’s other attackers were determined to carry out their task to the letter. 
Fighting back tears, she continued: “The others said he could leave if he wanted to; they then collected my handbag, my purse and the N5,000 inside with my two phones – one was in my hand. I used its torchlight; the other was in my Jeans pocket. They removed the phone, pulled off my trousers and started violating me (Silence)…They asked me to pull off my clothes. I begged them.”
Her face became contorted as the agony of the incident swelled her being. Helen became silent again. One could see she was fighting to hide several conflicting emotions as she recounted. “But was there no way you could have shouted for help?” the reporter asked in an attempt to douse the tension. “There was no way I could have shouted because there were five of them against only me… I was so scared. So, I just kept begging them to release me.” 
As her attackers were beginning to enjoy their violent act, they spotted another young man and lady walking towards them. Helen’s attackers also pounced on the couple, robbing them of their valuables at gunpoint. Two of them also raped the second lady. By that time, Helen’s eyes were already swollen, from her trauma and obvious helplessness in the hands of the crooks. The two men raped the girl while the other three continued molesting me,” she said in a subdued voice. 
On how she felt when her violators had their turns, Helen, in tears, said: “I swallowed my scream, felt very bad and closed my eyes as each of them…(Silence). For my mind e be like say make I get knife take kill them, because it was a very painful thing to experience. Before they started, I had asked if they had condoms but they said ‘No’. ‘’After they finished, all I could think of was running to the hospital and getting some drugs or treatment that could wash everything away from my whole being: my physical body, heart, soul and all. (Again, she lapsed into another silence). I felt very bad and, somehow, dirty.” 
After the incident, She ran back home to her sister. Both ladies cried in silence; they felt ashamed to share with neighbours what had happened. As if that was not enough, while nursing the psychological trauma of the assault she got, another shocker happened to her on the same day. Helen discovered that her violators were her neighbours. 
“I recognised them: two of them live opposite my house. Before that time, I did not notice them. I see them every day and cringe; I’m always in fear each time I see them,” she said. 
Three months after:
 Besides the traumatic rape, Helen has fallen into a worrisome medical condition. Last month, she was diagnosed with HIV at the General Hospital where she was rushed to after she was raped. Before then, Helen said she had been “negative”, adding that she knew through a test she did some time back. “When I went there when it first happened, they asked me some questions, gave me some drugs and told me to come back after three months for more tests. 
The three-month period lapsed last month. The hospital did the followup test and found that I have become HIV-’positive’. ‘’I felt bad, very bad; and I cried. In fact, the doctor tried to calm my mind; but I kept on crying that ‘I’m finished’. I wanted to take my life because I never expected this to happen to me. They told me life still goes on and that I can still live my life to the fullest. They say people with HIV are can be healthier than those who are negative with the help of drugs. Before I left the hospital, I cried and begged them to help me because I did not plan to live on drugs for rest of my life,” she said. 
With tears dripping freely and looking straight at the reporter as if to find answers on her face, she continued: “What kind of life can one live now? I feel so bad; I feel so weak and I am asking myself: what did I do wrong in this life to deserve this? What will happen to my dream of going to school? I have not been able to save for school, and I now am treating HIV.” 
The news of her status has added more sadness to her family who were still recovering from the shock of her violation.
“When my parents heard the news, they were very sad and they all cried,” Helen said amid tears. The 20-year-old has since turned an advocate, seeking justice against her attackers. 
After living in fear for months, the dread of the rapists forced her and her sister to relocate last weekend. The move has emboldened to seek for justice, feeling she is beyond their reach. “I want justice. I need help. I want those men to go to jail for what they did to me and perhaps many other ladies in the area. These people cannot be allowed to go free. Everybody knows them as thieves in the area; they do not go to work or school but just hang around all day doing nothing. Still nobody has done anything about it. It is almost as if they are using charms. Their father is a very aggressive landlord. I see them always and I’m always in fear; that’s why we packed out of the house last weekend. You won’t believe that till we packed, my attackers are still using my phone,” she said. 
Helen’s sister, Stella, who was also in her 20s, said the whole incident has left the family heart-broken. Stella, who lent a comforting hand to her sister, said: “We felt so weak and very unhappy, but there is nothing else we can do but to support her and pray that those crooks would be made to pay and suffer for what they did to my sister.”


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ken10000 at 10:57 PM, 31/05/2014 (5 years ago)
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Sad so pinfull,,
okilo101 at 11:10 PM, 31/05/2014 (5 years ago)
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Short of words.
bitterpenis at 11:27 PM, 31/05/2014 (5 years ago)
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Too bad, but if she knew who are molesters are, why didn't she go report to the police? Why didn't take a medical report from general hospital as proof that she was raped to get the dudes arrested? Get her phone back, why did she have to wait 3 months before she began seeking for justice?
schmit at 12:03 AM, 1/06/2014 (5 years ago)
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Pls justice must prevail,poor little girl
beneno at 12:41 AM, 1/06/2014 (5 years ago)
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Eyaaaaaaaaaa  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes
dollar22 at 01:50 AM, 1/06/2014 (5 years ago)
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Tears on my eyes. 
dondada4040 at 04:13 AM, 1/06/2014 (5 years ago)
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Pls do not let your dream shatter, HIV is manageable and you can live as long as a normal person, it is not as deadly as people think, malaria kills more people than HIV but justice must be leveled against the people that molested you.
EMMYBOSS at 04:50 AM, 1/06/2014 (5 years ago)
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This is quite unfortunate.  Nevertheless, you can still be HIV negative again (considering the circumstances surrounding you HIV status), if you go to God in prayer and ask for MIRACLE OF MERCY, I assure you, He will cure you in Jesus Name, Amen.  There is HOPE for you in Christ Jesus.
SugarBB at 05:46 AM, 1/06/2014 (5 years ago)
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My heart goes out to the poor innocent girl, don't kill yourself cuz that man up there is watching.

This is why i don't stop cursing this ppl, dey use honeypot swear for them, God forbid bad thing, very useless tribe!

Wysetots at 06:14 AM, 1/06/2014 (5 years ago)
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Sorry o
daveobahon at 06:59 AM, 1/06/2014 (5 years ago)
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Eish so sorry buh y waistin time?u ve medical reports,u ve proof na y ve u not gone 2 d police?u see ur molesters everyday  mehn,now u ve parkd outta d area well God dey besides being HIV positive is not d end of d world if u want to,u can still live ur dreams. it is well
osamabinladin at 07:39 AM, 1/06/2014 (5 years ago)
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 Sad Sad
queenbabe at 07:55 AM, 1/06/2014 (5 years ago)
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God hv mercy on d poor gal
Larry28 at 09:01 AM, 1/06/2014 (5 years ago)
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Sad story, sorry dear
dareper at 09:40 AM, 1/06/2014 (5 years ago)
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Am touched, please u can still make a case if u re sure they are still using your phone.  I don't know why bad things always happen to good people. Take heart dear
solexgoody at 09:51 AM, 1/06/2014 (5 years ago)
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very painful and sorrowful story, God will intervene for you.
winace at 10:01 AM, 1/06/2014 (5 years ago)
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Am so short of words.
Judeana at 10:27 AM, 1/06/2014 (5 years ago)
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very sad..but there's hope in Christ Jesus  he can cure u.As 4 the attackers they will never have peace God will arrest them.Justice wil be served.
DrSoba at 12:53 PM, 1/06/2014 (5 years ago)
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This story touches my inner heart  Huh?
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