Marrying a man twice your age in Nigeria

the question is,can one marry a man twice ones age like 15,16 or 17 years older than oneself,hope one would be treated right?is it a mistake or what?

Posted: at 24-09-2009 05:21 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

Nothing wrong with it, as long as the girl is within the right age to make the decision herself or consent to it knowingly and willingly.

Problem mostly comes when that generation vaccume isn't maturedly handled. U can imagine what a 40year old man will feel like when his 20year old wife greets him with a "how far" in the morning; and what a 20 year old wife would feel like when her husband doesn't understand why they have o go out for ice cream, dinner and movies when they can just have them at home.

Posted: at 25-09-2009 07:21 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

Its not a mistake, its just love.

besides there are so many things that can blind love

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Posted: at 25-09-2009 01:22 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Maybe not in all cases - Ok lets check a reverse case.

Checkout mama Madona with her boyfriend/Son Jesus its just love and its blind

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Posted: at 25-09-2009 01:26 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Modonna = 51
Jesus = 21




Nigeria/worldwide - isnt it same principle?

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Posted: at 25-09-2009 01:32 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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Posted: at 25-09-2009 01:36 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

it depends but me... nah

Posted: at 25-09-2009 01:47 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

in 9ja hope the guy won't push one around n what of parents aw will they react to this

Posted: at 26-09-2009 03:10 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

love

maybe choice

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Posted: at 26-09-2009 03:25 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Women dey Marry Men 4 times Older than them since for dis Life, na now yu dey Ask

Every Girl get her Reasons for Getting into a Relationship, it's not really about Age for most Women

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Posted: at 27-09-2009 12:24 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero