What Must I, A Non Nigerian Do To Woo A Lagos Lady. (Page 6)

Date: 24-09-2009 7:58 pm (12 years ago) | Author: Horace
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- Onelove77 at 27-09-2009 03:02 PM (12 years ago)
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why lots of nigerian ladies are fearless GOLD DIGGERS ,FORTUNE HUNTERS and full of deceits?Huh?Huh? are there still nice ladies and wife materials?Huh??
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- favourtee at 27-09-2009 10:45 PM (12 years ago)
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yeah! lots of them are still wife materials, look  out weelll and check for the kind of environment you reside...
Posted: at 27-09-2009 10:45 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- akins8500 at 27-09-2009 11:08 PM (12 years ago)
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just be honest, be funny, n be urself.......besides that, hope her friends n family like u.lol
Posted: at 27-09-2009 11:08 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Equipper at 27-09-2009 11:09 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Onelove77 on 27-09-2009 03:02 PM
why lots of nigerian ladies are fearless GOLD DIGGERS ,FORTUNE HUNTERS and full of deceits?Huh?Huh? are there still nice ladies and wife materials?Huh??

In every society there are the good and the bad. I sincerely believe there are very decent Nigerian ladies out who are the real deal; the bad ones notwithstanding.
Posted: at 27-09-2009 11:09 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- Equipper at 27-09-2009 11:15 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: akins8500 on 27-09-2009 11:08 PM
just be honest, be funny, n be urself.......besides that, hope her friends n family like u.lol

Are you saying that "her friends" have a say in who she goes out with?  I can understand the family part but friends?Huh?Huh?Huh?  I will not fool around a woman whose friends determine what she accepts or rejects; that smacks of "immaturity".  Who wants an immature woman any way.
Posted: at 27-09-2009 11:15 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- akins8500 at 27-09-2009 11:23 PM (12 years ago)
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just that some girls have really close friends (BFF's) n what thier friends think of u could sway her one way or another.
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- Equipper at 28-09-2009 01:48 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: akins8500 on 27-09-2009 11:23 PM
just that some girls have really close friends (BFF's) n what thier friends think of u could sway her one way or another.

akins8500 that is precisely the point; if she can be swayed by what her friends think of a potential spouse then she doesn't have a mind of her own.  But again you are right because there are some girls out there who live up to the expectation of their little group.  Its true.  I just will not be bothered with such as soon as I discern that.
Posted: at 28-09-2009 01:48 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- sandie at 29-09-2009 08:48 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: ceejay58 on 25-09-2009 01:02 AM
Quote from: Equipper on 24-09-2009 07:58 PM
  Hi everybody!  I dare say that I am new to this site and also that I am a Liberian guy who passionately loves Nigerians and their culture. I cannot explain it nor can I escape it; maybe it is spiritual or psychical.  This passion is so strong that I made a decision long ago that the mother of my childrem must be a Nigerian.  Serious, isn't it??
    Here is my situation coming from my emotional register: I Met this intelligent, educated, and beautiful lady from Lagos who was visiting Richmond, Virginia.    Ten minutes spent with her after we were introduced made me want to see her again; she made an impact upon me.   We became close acquaintances over a three-week time frame. Upon her return to Nigeria, we kept in touch.  I am seriously working on travel arrangements to spend the Christmas holidays in Lagos.  I intend to give a surprise call after I settle down.  Here is my question though:   What must I, a non Nigerian guy do to woo this lady?  Are there cultural-specific considerations I need to accommodate?   I need your candid suggestions.   

Thanks

Equipper 

brother it's so very easy. first u have to be strai8 4ward and an intelligent hard-working guy. infact u know wat? just send me her phone number and about 5000 dollars for contigencies. then just allow me 2 do the job 4 u.  if u can do just that  then worry no more. just concentrate on whateva u re doing at the moment and come down here  by december and ur wifey is waiting.  am very serious.   me too i love Liberians alot.

Kolo guy!!! Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: at 29-09-2009 08:48 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sandie at 29-09-2009 08:50 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: chrissiebee on 25-09-2009 05:15 AM
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Ahhhhhhh Shocked Shocked Shocked
See this babe... Where did u jump out from? Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: at 29-09-2009 08:50 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Hearthrob at 29-09-2009 12:02 PM (12 years ago)
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Onchedu, u no serious at all o, which one b china? which one b japan? which one ur girl b? Thank you Erikaakpan, u're right. Get to know her, know her likes and dislikes and i tell you, you're good to go, money is not every thing. Good luck.
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- bali4real at 29-09-2009 08:07 PM (12 years ago)
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@poster u ve got to becareful cos lagos ain't  water man!most  are dangerous. i share erickakpan's sentiment.u just get to know her n wish u d best man!
Posted: at 29-09-2009 08:07 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Equipper at 29-09-2009 09:57 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: bali4real on 29-09-2009 08:07 PM
@poster u ve got to becareful cos lagos ain't  water man!most  are dangerous. i share erickakpan's sentiment.u just get to know her n wish u d best man!

Thanks !!!!!!!!
Posted: at 29-09-2009 09:57 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- uzofine1 at 30-09-2009 05:10 PM (12 years ago)
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do u have money then God will take care of others
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- Equipper at 30-09-2009 05:29 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: uzofine1 on 30-09-2009 05:10 PM
do u have money then God will take care of others

hahahahahahahahahahahahhhhaha!!!Money plus God equals solution.  I hear you bros.
Posted: at 30-09-2009 05:29 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- melikam4love at 1-10-2009 06:56 PM (12 years ago)
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Hello Dear
How are you today,I just saw your profile and I decide to write. please I will like you to tell me more about yourself ,I am a Nigerian guy ,living in abuja
I will like to know you more,please write back ,I'm chigozie by name from eastern part of Nigeria ,if possible give me your phone number ,so that I can call you. am online now maybe we can chat here is my ID;[email protected],or you can send me your ID now.here is my number;+2347066122497
Please write back asap ,yours
melikam



Posted: at 1-10-2009 06:56 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- cecilia1 at 1-10-2009 09:07 PM (12 years ago)
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Yes, i agree wit the last girl's advice.
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- Equipper at 1-10-2009 09:27 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: cecilia1 on  1-10-2009 09:07 PM
Yes, i agree wit the last girl's advice.

Cecilia1 it is interesting to me that most of the guys seem to think that money is all that is required to woo a woman.  After all a woman may be persuaded by money but in my opinion, money can never buy true love.  Money can and does come into play within some social contexts but it is not and shoudl never be the basis for gaining a woman's love.  Such a relationship based upon money does not have a solid foundation.  What do u think?
Posted: at 1-10-2009 09:27 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- padrino at 1-10-2009 09:44 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Equipper on  1-10-2009 09:27 PM
Quote from: cecilia1 on  1-10-2009 09:07 PM
Yes, i agree wit the last girl's advice.

Cecilia1 it is interesting to me that most of the guys seem to think that money is all that is required to woo a woman.  After all a woman may be persuaded by money but in my opinion, money can never buy true love.  Money can and does come into play within some social contexts but it is not and shoudl never be the basis for gaining a woman's love.  Such a relationship based upon money does not have a solid foundation.  What do u think?
it's true money can't buy true love but d girls in question turned to make money their main priorities wit that love is been misinterpreted 4 money.
Posted: at 1-10-2009 09:44 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Uzzy at 1-10-2009 10:01 PM (12 years ago)
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It aint abt the money if the gal admires ur way then she wud fall for u~!!

Posted: at 1-10-2009 10:01 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Equipper at 1-10-2009 10:25 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Uzzy on  1-10-2009 10:01 PM
It aint abt the money if the gal admires ur way then she wud fall for u~!!


Precisely Uzzy, Thank u for pointing this out/
Posted: at 1-10-2009 10:25 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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