What Must I, A Non Nigerian Do To Woo A Lagos Lady.

Date: 24-09-2009 7:58 pm (12 years ago) | Author: Horace
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- at 24-09-2009 07:58 PM (12 years ago)
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  Hi everybody!  I dare say that I am new to this site and also that I am a Liberian guy who passionately loves Nigerians and their culture. I cannot explain it nor can I escape it; maybe it is spiritual or psychical.  This passion is so strong that I made a decision long ago that the mother of my childrem must be a Nigerian.  Serious, isn't it??
    Here is my situation coming from my emotional register: I Met this intelligent, educated, and beautiful lady from Lagos who was visiting Richmond, Virginia.    Ten minutes spent with her after we were introduced made me want to see her again; she made an impact upon me.   We became close acquaintances over a three-week time frame. Upon her return to Nigeria, we kept in touch.  I am seriously working on travel arrangements to spend the Christmas holidays in Lagos.  I intend to give a surprise call after I settle down.  Here is my question though:   What must I, a non Nigerian guy do to woo this lady?  Are there cultural-specific considerations I need to accommodate?   I need your candid suggestions.   

Thanks

Equipper 

Posted: at 24-09-2009 07:58 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
- onchedu at 24-09-2009 08:14 PM (12 years ago)
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Hold money & get sweet mouth. Wait o, Lagos babe? Dem get diff grade. The made in Japan dey and the made in China dey. Depend on what U want but generally if U have a sweet mouth and have the means to create lots of fun and know how to have fun.. GBAM!
Posted: at 24-09-2009 08:14 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 24-09-2009 08:18 PM (12 years ago)
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Oh... I've read thru Ur story now... There's a specific babe Ur interested in... Hmmm... I can't help U more than to tell U most Naija babes like honesty and courtesy without U looking like a woose; so that's a starting point. Myt help U out.

All the best.
Posted: at 24-09-2009 08:18 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Equipper at 24-09-2009 08:21 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 24-09-2009 08:14 PM
Hold money & get sweet mouth. Wait o, Lagos babe? Dem get diff grade. The made in Japan dey and the made in China dey. Depend on what U want but generally if U have a sweet mouth and have the means to create lots of fun and know how to have fun.. GBAM!

So Hold money + Sweet mouth + have fun = building a relationship?Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? ehnnnnnnn???
Posted: at 24-09-2009 08:21 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- Equipper at 24-09-2009 08:24 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 24-09-2009 08:18 PM
Oh... I've read thru Ur story now... There's a specific babe Ur interested in... Hmmm... I can't help U more than to tell U most Naija babes like honesty and courtesy without U looking like a woose; so that's a starting point. Myt help U out.
All the best.

I'm glad that you read my story. Thanks
Posted: at 24-09-2009 08:24 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- onchedu at 24-09-2009 08:26 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Equipper on 24-09-2009 08:21 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 24-09-2009 08:14 PM
Hold money & get sweet mouth. Wait o, Lagos babe? Dem get diff grade. The made in Japan dey and the made in China dey. Depend on what U want but generally if U have a sweet mouth and have the means to create lots of fun and know how to have fun.. GBAM!

So Hold money + Sweet mouth + have fun = building a relationship?Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? ehnnnnnnn???

Even those are a start and necessary requirements for building a relationship with ladies. Abi U no know say na when U dey play wth woman she dey wan serious with U?
Posted: at 24-09-2009 08:26 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Equipper at 24-09-2009 08:37 PM (12 years ago)
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I don't want to create the wrong impression.  The issue of money should feature prominently when considering marriage. After all I will be responsible for my wife in every sense of the word.  Right now I am concerned about getting to know her and cultivating companionship. 
Posted: at 24-09-2009 08:37 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- onchedu at 24-09-2009 08:41 PM (12 years ago)
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Guy, U know what U want... oming to confuse us here will only help confuse U. Looks like Ur not certain what U want from her yet? That's stranfge to me o. I presented U with runs U threw it out... I prested U with something more tangile and Ur trying to remove moeny out of it? Ok o.
Posted: at 24-09-2009 08:41 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sandie at 24-09-2009 08:44 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 24-09-2009 08:14 PM
Hold money & get sweet mouth. Wait o, Lagos babe? Dem get diff grade. The made in Japan dey and the made in China dey. Depend on what U want but generally if U have a sweet mouth and have the means to create lots of fun and know how to have fun.. GBAM!

 Grin Grin Grin

U're not serious Grin
I guess ur babe is made in Belgium Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: at 24-09-2009 08:44 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Equipper at 24-09-2009 08:47 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 24-09-2009 08:41 PM
Guy, U know what U want... oming to confuse us here will only help confuse U. Looks like Ur not certain what U want from her yet? That's stranfge to me o. I presented U with runs U threw it out... I prested U with something more tangile and Ur trying to remove moeny out of it? Ok o.

Your reading me the wrong way>  I am not throwing anything out; I want you to streamline your suggestions and avoid generalities dats all ... u follow Huh?
Posted: at 24-09-2009 08:47 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- Equipper at 24-09-2009 08:50 PM (12 years ago)
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What happened to all the ladies in the House?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?
Posted: at 24-09-2009 08:50 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- sandie at 24-09-2009 08:54 PM (12 years ago)
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Their boyfriends are wooing them

Posted: at 24-09-2009 08:54 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 24-09-2009 08:56 PM (12 years ago)
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THis guy never confess... So na from lady U wan learn how to catch lady? U wan carry last.
Posted: at 24-09-2009 08:56 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Equipper at 24-09-2009 08:57 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sandie on 24-09-2009 08:54 PM
Their boyfriends are wooing them

Lucky guys ehn.. (LOL)  Naija ladies are so special
Posted: at 24-09-2009 08:57 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- erikaakpan at 24-09-2009 09:01 PM (12 years ago)
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poster, i can only give it to u from what i think. learn what she likes and dislikes. take time out to learn about what her culture is and waht her values are. i think the more u would want to learn about her and her culture it will give you a heads up on how you can build a relationship with her

Posted: at 24-09-2009 09:01 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Equipper at 24-09-2009 09:02 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 24-09-2009 08:56 PM
THis guy never confess... So na from lady U wan learn how to catch lady? U wan carry last.

A woman's psychology is diffr from the man; btw a woman's opinion is such matters is as important as a man if not more important.
Posted: at 24-09-2009 09:02 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- Beauti4 at 24-09-2009 09:03 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 24-09-2009 08:14 PM
Hold money & get sweet mouth. Wait o, Lagos babe? Dem get diff grade. The made in Japan dey and the made in China dey. Depend on what U want but generally if U have a sweet mouth and have the means to create lots of fun and know how to have fun.. GBAM!

u no serious bro.

@poster, u dont need to travel down right now. atleast u need to get to knw her more. and pray over this. u dont necessary need anything to date naiaja babes, but all u need is honesty and gentleness. Ku luck!
Posted: at 24-09-2009 09:03 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Equipper at 24-09-2009 09:05 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: erikaakpan on 24-09-2009 09:01 PM
poster, i can only give it to u from what i think. learn what she likes and dislikes. take time out to learn about what her culture is and waht her values are. i think the more u would want to learn about her and her culture it will give you a heads up on how you can build a relationship with her

That was gold!! thanks......onchedu do you now see the value of a woman's perspective? Huh? Huh? Huh?
Posted: at 24-09-2009 09:05 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- Equipper at 24-09-2009 09:14 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Beauti4 on 24-09-2009 09:03 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 24-09-2009 08:14 PM
Hold money & get sweet mouth. Wait o, Lagos babe? Dem get diff grade. The made in Japan dey and the made in China dey. Depend on what U want but generally if U have a sweet mouth and have the means to create lots of fun and know how to have fun.. GBAM!

u no serious bro.

@poster, u dont need to travel down right now. atleast u need to get to knw her more. and pray over this. u dont necessary need anything to date naiaja babes, but all u need is honesty and gentleness. Ku luck!

Beauti4 8 so happens that my trip is not primarily to c her, but is coincidental.  U mention prayer; I believe dat is a life line you just give to me.  Invaluable piece of advice. Bles you
Posted: at 24-09-2009 09:14 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- sandie at 24-09-2009 09:18 PM (12 years ago)
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A"MEN".... Pray...Pray... No comment for now.

Guys are still wooing >>>>>>>>>>>

Posted: at 24-09-2009 09:18 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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