Hi everybody! I dare say that I am new to this site and also that I am a Liberian guy who passionately loves Nigerians and their culture. I cannot explain it nor can I escape it; maybe it is spiritual or psychical. This passion is so strong that I made a decision long ago that the mother of my childrem must be a Nigerian. Serious, isn't it?? Here is my situation coming from my emotional register: I Met this intelligent, educated, and beautiful lady from Lagos who was visiting Richmond, Virginia. Ten minutes spent with her after we were introduced made me want to see her again; she made an impact upon me. We became close acquaintances over a three-week time frame. Upon her return to Nigeria, we kept in touch. I am seriously working on travel arrangements to spend the Christmas holidays in Lagos. I intend to give a surprise call after I settle down. Here is my question though: What must I, a non Nigerian guy do to woo this lady? Are there cultural-specific considerations I need to accommodate? I need your candid suggestions.
Thanks
Equipper
Posted: at 24-09-2009 07:58 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
Hold money & get sweet mouth. Wait o, Lagos babe? Dem get diff grade. The made in Japan dey and the made in China dey. Depend on what U want but generally if U have a sweet mouth and have the means to create lots of fun and know how to have fun.. GBAM!
Posted: at 24-09-2009 08:14 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Oh... I've read thru Ur story now... There's a specific babe Ur interested in... Hmmm... I can't help U more than to tell U most Naija babes like honesty and courtesy without U looking like a woose; so that's a starting point. Myt help U out.
All the best.
Posted: at 24-09-2009 08:18 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Equipper at 24-09-2009 08:21 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: onchedu on 24-09-2009 08:14 PM
Hold money & get sweet mouth. Wait o, Lagos babe? Dem get diff grade. The made in Japan dey and the made in China dey. Depend on what U want but generally if U have a sweet mouth and have the means to create lots of fun and know how to have fun.. GBAM!
So Hold money + Sweet mouth + have fun = building a relationship? ehnnnnnnn???
Posted: at 24-09-2009 08:21 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
Equipper at 24-09-2009 08:24 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: onchedu on 24-09-2009 08:18 PM
Oh... I've read thru Ur story now... There's a specific babe Ur interested in... Hmmm... I can't help U more than to tell U most Naija babes like honesty and courtesy without U looking like a woose; so that's a starting point. Myt help U out. All the best.
I'm glad that you read my story. Thanks
Posted: at 24-09-2009 08:24 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
Hold money & get sweet mouth. Wait o, Lagos babe? Dem get diff grade. The made in Japan dey and the made in China dey. Depend on what U want but generally if U have a sweet mouth and have the means to create lots of fun and know how to have fun.. GBAM!
So Hold money + Sweet mouth + have fun = building a relationship? ehnnnnnnn???
Even those are a start and necessary requirements for building a relationship with ladies. Abi U no know say na when U dey play wth woman she dey wan serious with U?
Posted: at 24-09-2009 08:26 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Equipper at 24-09-2009 08:37 PM (14 years ago) (m)
I don't want to create the wrong impression. The issue of money should feature prominently when considering marriage. After all I will be responsible for my wife in every sense of the word. Right now I am concerned about getting to know her and cultivating companionship.
Posted: at 24-09-2009 08:37 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
Guy, U know what U want... oming to confuse us here will only help confuse U. Looks like Ur not certain what U want from her yet? That's stranfge to me o. I presented U with runs U threw it out... I prested U with something more tangile and Ur trying to remove moeny out of it? Ok o.
Posted: at 24-09-2009 08:41 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Hold money & get sweet mouth. Wait o, Lagos babe? Dem get diff grade. The made in Japan dey and the made in China dey. Depend on what U want but generally if U have a sweet mouth and have the means to create lots of fun and know how to have fun.. GBAM!
U're not serious I guess ur babe is made in Belgium
Naturally lifted, naturally gifted.
Posted: at 24-09-2009 08:44 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Equipper at 24-09-2009 08:47 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: onchedu on 24-09-2009 08:41 PM
Guy, U know what U want... oming to confuse us here will only help confuse U. Looks like Ur not certain what U want from her yet? That's stranfge to me o. I presented U with runs U threw it out... I prested U with something more tangile and Ur trying to remove moeny out of it? Ok o.
Your reading me the wrong way> I am not throwing anything out; I want you to streamline your suggestions and avoid generalities dats all ... u follow
Posted: at 24-09-2009 08:47 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
erikaakpan at 24-09-2009 09:01 PM (14 years ago) (f)
poster, i can only give it to u from what i think. learn what she likes and dislikes. take time out to learn about what her culture is and waht her values are. i think the more u would want to learn about her and her culture it will give you a heads up on how you can build a relationship with her
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Posted: at 24-09-2009 09:01 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Hold money & get sweet mouth. Wait o, Lagos babe? Dem get diff grade. The made in Japan dey and the made in China dey. Depend on what U want but generally if U have a sweet mouth and have the means to create lots of fun and know how to have fun.. GBAM!
u no serious bro.
@poster, u dont need to travel down right now. atleast u need to get to knw her more. and pray over this. u dont necessary need anything to date naiaja babes, but all u need is honesty and gentleness. Ku luck!
Posted: at 24-09-2009 09:03 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Equipper at 24-09-2009 09:05 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: erikaakpan on 24-09-2009 09:01 PM
poster, i can only give it to u from what i think. learn what she likes and dislikes. take time out to learn about what her culture is and waht her values are. i think the more u would want to learn about her and her culture it will give you a heads up on how you can build a relationship with her
That was gold!! thanks......onchedu do you now see the value of a woman's perspective?
Posted: at 24-09-2009 09:05 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
Equipper at 24-09-2009 09:14 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Beauti4 on 24-09-2009 09:03 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 24-09-2009 08:14 PM
Hold money & get sweet mouth. Wait o, Lagos babe? Dem get diff grade. The made in Japan dey and the made in China dey. Depend on what U want but generally if U have a sweet mouth and have the means to create lots of fun and know how to have fun.. GBAM!
u no serious bro.
@poster, u dont need to travel down right now. atleast u need to get to knw her more. and pray over this. u dont necessary need anything to date naiaja babes, but all u need is honesty and gentleness. Ku luck!
Beauti4 8 so happens that my trip is not primarily to c her, but is coincidental. U mention prayer; I believe dat is a life line you just give to me. Invaluable piece of advice. Bles you
Posted: at 24-09-2009 09:14 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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