Can u date a guy that smokes heavy and drinks? (Page 2)

Quote from: yemmight on 14-07-2008 11:25 AM

Quote from: vivaappah on 14-07-2008 09:47 AM

Quote from: honeychick on 11-07-2008 05:11 PM

well it all depends...... if i love da person why not? i can date him..i can only help him to quit smoking and drinking heavily......

honeychick u be GOd?lol.. my dear dnt try to play GOds role. only him can change a man....lol

I have to disagree with you on this.  Are you saying you can not impact positively on your partner?

she's right in a sense cos in tis case no one can do anytin cos he's already an addict to it

Posted: at 14-07-2008 12:57 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 There's no need trying to change anyone. if a real man knows he got a good woman in his life, that alone will make him turn the page in a different direction, if not, you, the female needs to kick that bwoi to the curb ASAP. Cos one morning he'll be so high that he'll beat the crap outta you while you're in your sleep. but anywayz.. i have never smoked nor drank alcohol, well except for the Holy communion wine.

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Posted: at 16-07-2008 04:10 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

u have a point there but its holy communion wine an alcohol? then some friends say dat any guy who doesn't drink alcohol or smoke,its a womanizer. its dis notion real

Posted: at 18-07-2008 08:08 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

never say never

Posted: at 18-07-2008 10:14 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac

i couldnt,... with my kid  I have a responsibility - and someone who is drinking,... isnt responsible at all so no way

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Posted: at 18-07-2008 11:18 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming

  ???how will i date someone dat smokes, i can still date someone dat drinks but not smoke even if i dont get to know,but ones i catch him dats d end.i luv wit my head n not my heart wen necessary.

Posted: at 18-07-2008 01:00 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie

see we all no d truth n no point shying away 4rm it..offcourse a gurl can change a man but not a smoker!!!!! haba!!     its is almost impossible

Posted: at 18-07-2008 02:13 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie

You can't just dash out of a relationship if you are already in luv.  All u can do is to ensure he leaves it. At least we have living witnesses of this.  It all depend on the lady's strength.

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Posted: at 18-07-2008 02:21 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming

it depends,cos if its a guy i really love,then i'll try my best to change him before goin out with him but if he refuses to change then i'l av to let go cos i can never date a drunk n a heavy smoker! nah!!!

Posted: at 18-07-2008 09:55 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie

if i'm a lady this the two words i got 4 u.......its depends if hes cute.....

Posted: at 19-07-2008 12:18 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie