Causes of break ups in a relationship

WHAT DO YOU THINK CAUSE BREAKUP IN RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE IN THE SOCIETY AND ONE OF THE EUROPEAN  HAS THE LARGEST DIVORCE COUPLE IN WORLD   

Posted: at 28-10-2009 09:28 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

but between the two partners who is used it being cheating on the other

Posted: at 28-10-2009 11:51 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

in a marriage, is only three things that causes a divorce..for my own view
1..is sex

2...communication.
3...money.

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Posted: at 28-10-2009 12:51 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

LIFE AND THE LIFE COST OF SYTUATIONS GAVE A  LOT OF PROBLEMS WHICH DEY NO FIT HANDLE SOMETIMES...DEY MISS COMMUNICATE...A LOT COS SEPERATEIN...IS INDIVIDUAL

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Posted: at 28-10-2009 01:11 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

From my own perspective, I think most couples arent open to their partners during courtship.....People pretend to be angels, god-sent, when dating, they cover up a lot of their faults which they later exhibit after marriage........I dont blame such people though, becos today's people are looking for people without faults (not available)......Until we learn to recognise the fact dat there is no perfection human being anywhere, we will keep having problems in our relationships........

On a 2nd note I agree with the first commentator dat Trust is very important in relationships, without it, a relationship dies a natural death...........

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Posted: at 28-10-2009 01:41 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

To me, the breakage of every marriag or relationship can be couse by the following;   Adultery, lack of trust, money, sex, communication, gossip and above all is outside talk e.g them say them say, i here say who say?        Today many marriages are no more becouse they fail to discover their wick point. My advise is that, in every marriage u find your self, lean how to keep your mouth and everything that apens around you. Na so i see am.

Posted: at 29-10-2009 01:50 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

so simple...!   pretense, lack of understanding, trust, being unfaithful, etc. until we realize all dis, we will keep having problem in our relationships.

Posted: at 29-10-2009 02:33 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

are truth to your guy

Posted: at 30-10-2009 10:58 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Every relationship is bound to break up if it is not founded on Jesus Christ, even if there is love and all there has been stated here, if there is no presence of Jesus christ in the relationhip . it might just still break up cos the partners might just do something that is displeasin . So the best way to ensure a lasting marriage or relationship is handing it over to Jesus Christ..by of course having a relationship with him , and allowing Christ to be the center and focus of the relationship.

Posted: at 30-10-2009 12:40 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

different things for different ppl

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Posted: at 30-10-2009 03:57 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero