there are other work a woman can do to take care of her family,though d salary or pay maybe small but atleast she can leave home at 7am and get back home by 6pm and ave saturday and sunday to fully spent wit her family. i dnt support d ideal of been a full house wife in dis present country dat notin is stable. | Posted: at 18-11-2009 12:44 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Well...family comes first, but doesnt mean a wife has to be housewife doing nothg. | Posted: at 18-11-2009 01:03 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "RosemaryI") RosemaryI at 18-11-2009 01:26 PM (14 years ago)  (f) There's no way I would just sit at home all day just to 'please' my husband. The mere fact that your at home ALL day lookin tired and frustrated after caring for the kids day in day out is enuf grounds for the guy to start cheating on u.
All you need now is to nag him about how tired ure feeling and he'll be out marrying a second wife!..
I know this is extreme but its true, men secretly respect a woman who is independent and has her own thing going on..
If i were in this situation, the only compromise i would be giving wud be working from home
i don't think her husband will want her to stay home all day, it will sure be boring. get something doing and just make sure whatever it is will not demand the time you're supose to spend for your family. believe me if you have an interesting family, you'll want to be with them cos you'll be missing them each step while you're away. | Posted: at 18-11-2009 01:26 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "chiada") chiada at 18-11-2009 02:42 PM (14 years ago) (f) Please is not now that a woman will depend only on the husband,at least when the man is working and the woman too is working thing will be moving forward, Anytime dat the other did not have the other will help out, So please my advice is that you should find work else where, where you can leave home after preparing the children to school before you leave for work and to be back around 5pm,and where you will have off on Saturday to take care of them. | Posted: at 18-11-2009 02:42 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "SexcBatty") SexcBatty at 18-11-2009 02:54 PM (14 years ago) (f) Career-Home, am weighing it and neither one it tipping the scale, i know for a fact there's no way am burning all this money for lawschool if ammo end up a house wife. There has to be a middle ground, like maybe cutting back on work hours/parttime. Having a career isnt just about the money, its about passion too, some people can be fulfilled staying home with the kids but some of us need something more, a challenge and once you start getting bored, like they say."idle mind=devils workshop." I would cutback on work hours, no way i fully quit my job.
U took it out ma mouth girl. | Posted: at 18-11-2009 02:54 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Akpan01") Akpan01 at 18-11-2009 03:37 PM (14 years ago) (f) i did this sha...but i regret it after...
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION" | Posted: at 18-11-2009 03:37 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "obelia") obelia at 18-11-2009 04:16 PM (14 years ago) (m) ANYTHING for my family 
The height which great-men reach and kept is not by sudden flight! YOU NEED MORE FIRE!!! | Posted: at 18-11-2009 04:16 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "fa4rite") fa4rite at 18-11-2009 04:29 PM (14 years ago) (f) its good to have time for your family,but stop working or not having anything doing is wrong.if asked a man to marry a gal who is not educated he will refuse.they all run to educated women after marriage wants her the stop working and forgo her job.meanwhile her 9yrs of primary,6yrs of secondary,and 5yrs in the university (BSC).not mentioning MASTER or PHD.altogether 20yrs of education a wested years.never not me. except establish a business for me to do. FINE!!! | Posted: at 18-11-2009 04:29 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "philnel") philnel at 18-11-2009 04:39 PM (14 years ago) (m) Am very happy for the kind of people that are sugesting in this issue,not the rubish kind I do see before.Pls pals keep it up. As for the sugestiion,well home cannot be compared to your job,but men has to be fully ready to asist the women in such a situation by coming home ealier and shower her with more gift than before as soon as your wife drop her job.If must to be sincer,is not easy for one to drop something she surfered so much to get,though the love and peace of your family is more important than any level of education or job. | Posted: at 18-11-2009 04:39 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Sheenor") Sheenor at 18-11-2009 04:43 PM (14 years ago) (m) for where...
I hav jst 3 things to teach: simplicity, patience, compassion. These three are yourgreatest treasure | Posted: at 18-11-2009 04:43 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "ezecyyyy") ezecyyyy at 18-11-2009 05:50 PM (14 years ago) (m) For a wife to quit her job to care for the family is not bad hence the husband can afford to cater for the family,besides is not parmanent is just for some years or months. | Posted: at 18-11-2009 05:50 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "RosemaryI") RosemaryI at 18-11-2009 06:01 PM (14 years ago) (f) i refuse!!! | Posted: at 18-11-2009 06:01 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Abakyari") Abakyari at 18-11-2009 06:05 PM (14 years ago) (m) there are jobs that are not worthdoing at all when you are married, wheter husband or wife, Please choose to sacrifice the job or the family, mariage is not contratual, you dont need and Angel to tell you to quit a job or not. No job can be compare with your husband or children, God that joined you with your husband and also provide the children for you will also open doors to feed them. if you luv job dont get married, unmarried is not a sin. | Posted: at 18-11-2009 06:05 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "wizdum") wizdum at 18-11-2009 08:37 PM (14 years ago) (m) Yes!! to avoid turning into a housemaid at the end of d day!
The greatest need of a man is direction;where their is no direction,you dont have a drive. | Posted: at 18-11-2009 08:37 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "wizdum") wizdum at 18-11-2009 08:39 PM (14 years ago) (m) You have to obey bcos he is the head of d family.
The greatest need of a man is direction;where their is no direction,you dont have a drive. | Posted: at 18-11-2009 08:39 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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she has no option than to quit the job because the job cannot produce children for her | Posted: at 18-11-2009 08:43 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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family first . Job second. The money made from that job cannot be turned into children | Posted: at 18-11-2009 08:45 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "pepigambit") pepigambit at 18-11-2009 08:54 PM (14 years ago) (m) family first.....elsisssssssss? | Posted: at 18-11-2009 08:54 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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you again...I have just 1 word 4 u KOLO | Posted: at 18-11-2009 08:57 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "kenyawest") kenyawest at 18-11-2009 11:44 PM (14 years ago) (f) Quitting the job is not an option. Negotiating with her employer for part-time work or reduced hours is a good idea, and then resume full time after a few years when the children can take better care of themselves. Call a professional nanny agency and get a qualified nanny for the children that will live in the home with them. The work is not always about money but the joy and satisfaction especially if you like your job. Working does not mean that you do not care for your family. You need your mind to be healthy as well so you can take better care of your husband and children. | Posted: at 18-11-2009 11:44 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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