She asked for our opinion/advice/encouragement, not to be ridiculed, she has alot of pain that she has to deal with, we don't need to add to her pain by, leaving negative comments. I say if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it, you know words are so powerfull, and that's what leads people to sucide! Think about it! Whatever happend in the past has happend, nobody can go back to the past, and change it. Learn from your past , and find healthy ways to move forward in life.
Now concerning your issue, I can only encourage you to stay positive, seek a psyhcologist that can help you with tools to deal with the situation, before, and after birth, if you choose to keep the baby, the decision is all up to you, cause I can never advice someone to abort or not. Also see a pastor that is willing to help you along the way, just suround yourself with people that will help you get through this, and most importantly stay away from negative people that will only ridicue u! Good Luck! " And in no way,I'm I promoting incest" This girl and the uncle made a mistake, if it the uncle raped her, then it will be the uncles fault, but since it's not the case, and both of them are held responsible, then the best, we as society can do now, is help her get through this, not riducule her! Nobody can change the past! You can only learn, and move forward!
Posted: at 4-12-2009 02:37 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie |
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