How do you raise your children so that they will have healthy relationships?

Date: 02-12-2009 6:52 pm (15 years ago) | Author: Succeed
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- at 2-12-2009 06:52 PM (15 years ago)
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Posted: at 2-12-2009 06:52 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
- oyez at 2-12-2009 06:54 PM (15 years ago)
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Posted: at 2-12-2009 06:54 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 3-12-2009 02:12 AM (15 years ago)
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Wat?


Posted: at 3-12-2009 02:12 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Beauti4 at 3-12-2009 02:15 AM (15 years ago)
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Posted: at 3-12-2009 02:15 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Toks-E at 3-12-2009 11:51 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: umide on  2-12-2009 06:52 PM
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i plan to be a really great dad to my kids

Posted: at 3-12-2009 11:51 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- soft1023 at 4-12-2009 12:48 AM (15 years ago)
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Make sure you have a happy and a healthy home. make sure you and your wife
never quarrel in their presence and make sure you give gift to your wife in their
presence as well
Show love to your wife by kisses and praises while they are there and make sure
they are not left out in the I love you kids arena. Never raise your hand against
your wife or course either. If you are angry at them, tell them why, correct their mistake
instead of beating them. Make sure Education is a must.
So when they grow up in environment like this, they will carry it over to their relationships
and they will also know the right partner for them by example from home.
Tradition is transmitted from parents to children and up bringing is a tradition watch and learned by kids.

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Posted: at 4-12-2009 12:48 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- xter at 4-12-2009 12:52 AM (15 years ago)
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poster if u gat nuffin to post close the lid of ur laptop and stop asking a bach like me how u gonna raise a stake or kid

Posted: at 4-12-2009 12:52 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ebony_cutie at 4-12-2009 12:53 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Toks-E on  3-12-2009 11:51 AM
Quote from: umide on  2-12-2009 06:52 PM
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i plan to be a really great dad to my kids

very good!!

Poster simply by being a good example 2 them,they learn from wot you do rather than wot you say
Posted: at 4-12-2009 12:53 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xter at 4-12-2009 12:56 AM (15 years ago)
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na lie jooor......research shows it dat good parents produce the bad boys

Posted: at 4-12-2009 12:56 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ebony_cutie at 4-12-2009 01:01 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: xter on  4-12-2009 12:56 AM
na lie jooor......research shows it dat good parents produce the bad boys

na lie too, i beg to differ....kids learn more frm wot they see
Posted: at 4-12-2009 01:01 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xter at 4-12-2009 01:06 AM (15 years ago)
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what if they see things mos time from the street like me....i was raised by the street cos my pa & ma are always outta town....making money has really cut dat bridge....

what will be will surely be irrespective of how good the parents are

Posted: at 4-12-2009 01:06 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ebony_cutie at 4-12-2009 01:11 AM (15 years ago)
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True......but im sure some good traits u saw rubbed off on you
Posted: at 4-12-2009 01:11 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xter at 4-12-2009 01:16 AM (15 years ago)
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yeah but still.....it doesn't mean a thing.........if u're an ex-student of any higher institution in 9ja sef,u 4get everything about moral....

when i was in skl i had a gfriend whom we did so many terriblr things 2geda but getting to their house...meeenn she's the most gentle gal on earth

Posted: at 4-12-2009 01:16 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ebony_cutie at 4-12-2009 01:20 AM (15 years ago)
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lol, well i'll say in her case she allowed peer pressure influence her,if she cld change when she got home,means she still has those good morals she got from home but throws it away each time she leaves home
Posted: at 4-12-2009 01:20 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xter at 4-12-2009 01:34 AM (15 years ago)
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welll...dats ur assessment ....but its only a GOD that builds a good family not by manner or anything

Posted: at 4-12-2009 01:34 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ebony_cutie at 4-12-2009 01:37 AM (15 years ago)
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Ofcos, thats my point...wit God the parents live a lifestyle that the kids can learn and grow with
Posted: at 4-12-2009 01:37 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xter at 4-12-2009 02:06 AM (15 years ago)
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ok....i hope so .....but i dont need to bother about  wht i cant control cos i'm not a father yet

Posted: at 4-12-2009 02:06 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ebony_cutie at 4-12-2009 02:08 AM (15 years ago)
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You prepare 4 the future.....so when the time is right,everythg fits in
Posted: at 4-12-2009 02:08 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xter at 4-12-2009 02:14 AM (15 years ago)
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how am i gonna prepare?  i shld start acting like saint now abi? and then loose all the benefits of being a bachelor

i dont wanna make the kinda mistake michael jackson made....he lost his childhood to money and fame which really affected him

i wont loose all the fun of being single to prepare for the time i start having kids ...there is time for everything

when the time is right everything will fit in to its right place and then i'll also be very gentle

Posted: at 4-12-2009 02:14 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ebony_cutie at 4-12-2009 02:18 AM (15 years ago)
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you got it wrong there,having kids doesnt make you loose virtue/vibes of being young...
which benefit sef??wetin again dey new wey u never enjoy?
Posted: at 4-12-2009 02:18 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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