??? very complicatet

Date: 27-07-2008 5:45 pm (16 years ago) | Author: Ivonne
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- at 27-07-2008 05:45 PM (16 years ago)
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so im datin a guy since 6 month now - nothing serious at all but we see each other nearly everyday,... from both sides the feelings are not that emocional - but we still see that often
i knew its just a matter of time when that "relationship" s gonna end but we didnt break up Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh?

So what ll u do if u find out that hes dating other girls in ur back ? imean if he told me i would have known ...
Im not jeallous or maybe i am , im not angry or maybe iam? ,.. dissapointed a bit maybe
should i break up immediately or should i do as if i dunno anything, or how should i react
I dont even wanna confront him (hihi when he read that post he will surely know) bec its his life he should do what he want - if he think thats a good way to be - then he should do it
oh im confused need just sum serious postings


Posted: at 27-07-2008 05:45 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
- chikamama at 27-07-2008 05:54 PM (16 years ago)
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gurl u talk there is no feelings but u still trouble urself cause of that it is komisch(one kind)
just talk to him i mean what can he tell u?Huh??
Posted: at 27-07-2008 05:54 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Cdiva at 27-07-2008 05:56 PM (16 years ago)
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Your just feeling a little jealous n angry.... If your sure that you don't have strong feelings for him and he dosen't have deep feeling 4 you  
end the relationship
Posted: at 27-07-2008 05:56 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Pimpinella at 27-07-2008 05:57 PM (16 years ago)
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i think im just worried bec he wounded my ego with doin that , if i confront him he ll think im jeallous

Posted: at 27-07-2008 05:57 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- LayifaKpe at 27-07-2008 05:59 PM (16 years ago)
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In the first place, what brought you two together?Was it just some kind of segxwal relationship? I meant at the start.

Posted: at 27-07-2008 05:59 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- chikamama at 27-07-2008 06:03 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Pimpinella on 27-07-2008 05:57 PM
i think im just worried bec he wounded my ego with doin that , if i confront him he ll think im jeallous


ego!!!!!!
Stand about it and finish it. I mean u will find fast an other game partner if u want.
Posted: at 27-07-2008 06:03 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Pimpinella at 27-07-2008 06:04 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: LayifaKpe on 27-07-2008 05:59 PM
In the first place, what brought you two together?Was it just some kind of segxwal relationship? I meant at the start.
actually at the beginning i thought hes marriage material but that didnt last long

Posted: at 27-07-2008 06:04 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- philomena87 at 27-07-2008 06:23 PM (16 years ago)
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@pimp... im so sorry about tat .. really dont know wat to say.. but if ure sure ther's no feelins .. let go and move on wit ur life dont confront him cos he will think ure jealous..... hope the pals can help u out.. better..
Posted: at 27-07-2008 06:23 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- LayifaKpe at 27-07-2008 06:24 PM (16 years ago)
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Be patient and show some love to him...cos probably he feels that you are suspecting him of certain things, like dating others girls, or he is just sleeping with u everyday without any effort ur relationship. Make him realize that u don't have anything wrong in your mind for him. I mean think positively and see his reactions

Posted: at 27-07-2008 06:24 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Pimpinella at 27-07-2008 06:30 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: philomena87 on 27-07-2008 06:23 PM
@pimp... im so sorry about tat .. really dont know wat to say.. but if ure sure ther's no feelins .. let go and move on wit ur life dont confront him cos he will think ure jealous..... hope the pals can help u out.. better..
jeap i think so too if i confront him hes gonna feel big that im caring about what hes doing,...

@layifaKpe thats another opinion but i think the likeness has gone so its better to concentrate of other things than on him,...
im not even intressted on his reactions bec the trust is away so no way to get back to him

Posted: at 27-07-2008 06:30 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- lucychizzy at 27-07-2008 07:24 PM (16 years ago)
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its time to say bye bye
Posted: at 27-07-2008 07:24 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- darkocean002 at 28-07-2008 04:41 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Pimpinella on 27-07-2008 05:45 PM
so im datin a guy since 6 month now - nothing serious at all but we see each other nearly everyday,... from both sides the feelings are not that emocional - but we still see that often
i knew its just a matter of time when that "relationship" s gonna end but we didnt break up Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh?

So what ll u do if u find out that hes dating other girls in ur back ? imean if he told me i would have known ...
Im not jeallous or maybe i am , im not angry or maybe iam? ,.. dissapointed a bit maybe
should i break up immediately or should i do as if i dunno anything, or how should i react
I dont even wanna confront him (hihi when he read that post he will surely know) bec its his life he should do what he want - if he think thats a good way to be - then he should do it
oh im confused need just sum serious postings


The basic truth is you just jealous and angry. if the relationship is not of intimacy and u even looking forward for it to end someday, maybe this is just an oppurtunity to hop out, other way round, just confront him, after all, u cant be jealous if you dont have a strong feelings for him. dont hide behind a finger
Posted: at 28-07-2008 04:41 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- myragonza at 28-07-2008 08:39 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Pimpinella on 27-07-2008 05:45 PM
so im datin a guy since 6 month now - nothing serious at all but we see each other nearly everyday,... from both sides the feelings are not that emocional - but we still see that often
i knew its just a matter of time when that "relationship" s gonna end but we didnt break up Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh?

So what ll u do if u find out that hes dating other girls in ur back ? imean if he told me i would have known ...
Im not jeallous or maybe i am , im not angry or maybe iam? ,.. dissapointed a bit maybe
should i break up immediately or should i do as if i dunno anything, or how should i react
I dont even wanna confront him (hihi when he read that post he will surely know) bec its his life he should do what he want - if he think thats a good way to be - then he should do it
oh im confused need just sum serious postings



u need to confront him about the status of the relationship.....

Posted: at 28-07-2008 08:39 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- LayifaKpe at 28-07-2008 08:42 AM (16 years ago)
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Like they used to say, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. So, it is better you tell him and if he is considerate enough to stay, let him stay and if he can’t, he should leave and let another man come rather than pretending and showing his real self when it will be too late to get another man to marry.

Posted: at 28-07-2008 08:42 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Pimpinella at 28-07-2008 08:04 PM (16 years ago)
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oh no ,... i decided to not do anything about it i think its better than to invest another energy in that case bye bye

Posted: at 28-07-2008 08:04 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- darkocean002 at 29-07-2008 02:15 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Pimpinella on 28-07-2008 08:04 PM
oh no ,... i decided to not do anything about it i think its better than to invest another energy in that case bye bye

Okies..............
Posted: at 29-07-2008 02:15 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- myragonza at 29-07-2008 09:06 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Pimpinella on 28-07-2008 08:04 PM
oh no ,... i decided to not do anything about it i think its better than to invest another energy in that case bye bye



so u mean,u are willing to see him date other woman....

Posted: at 29-07-2008 09:06 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Pimpinella at 29-07-2008 11:30 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: myragonza on 29-07-2008 09:06 AM
Quote from: Pimpinella on 28-07-2008 08:04 PM
oh no ,... i decided to not do anything about it i think its better than to invest another energy in that case bye bye

no i quit - without any comments - just simple, like he didnt told me anything while dating the others
oh i really felt good doin it  Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy


so u mean,u are willing to see him date other woman....

Posted: at 29-07-2008 11:30 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- darkocean002 at 30-07-2008 02:51 AM (16 years ago)
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Posted: at 30-07-2008 02:51 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- myragonza at 30-07-2008 10:47 AM (16 years ago)
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i wonder oooooooooooo........

Posted: at 30-07-2008 10:47 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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