Relationships sparks

Date: 20-12-2009 7:35 am (15 years ago) | Author: John F Kennedy
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- at 20-12-2009 07:35 AM (15 years ago)
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At times in a relationship, U find out that the one u love, adore and  cherrisch is no longer giving U the attention, apparently U did nothing that was oblivious to U. How do u get back

Perhaps U start to experience diminishing  attention given to each other in a genuine relationship that was full of romances! what do U think could be the sort of sparks required to bring it back? Plz  I need u'r suggestion to help my friend bring back his relationship to track.











Posted: at 20-12-2009 07:35 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- PreetyInstinct at 20-12-2009 07:49 AM (15 years ago)
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The sparks have died naw. . . Cheesy


I have been meaning 2 ask u the pic on ur profile is that u? Undecided

Posted: at 20-12-2009 07:49 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- humblej at 20-12-2009 07:55 AM (15 years ago)
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Na who kill am? I guess it still alive only that pple do not recognize the power of sparks in making a dying realationship work like a fresh one Smiley

Posted: at 20-12-2009 07:55 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- OB3ICE at 20-12-2009 08:19 AM (15 years ago)
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Personally, what I do is to walk away before I get heartbroken. But your friend should talk things over. I hear communication helps.

Posted: at 20-12-2009 08:19 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- vivian07 at 20-12-2009 08:51 AM (15 years ago)
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yea..shit happens...bt u dont need to back out with out a fight ..bt thats if u truly love ur partner..
u guys shld change environment..change the way u eat, sleep,make love nd lots more..
Posted: at 20-12-2009 08:51 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- humblej at 20-12-2009 09:18 AM (15 years ago)
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@ Vivian in exception of u'r opinion given in the suggestion,  it could be that both are busy with work, i mean busy pursuing their career cos both of them are employed with a multi-task job... and hardly think of these ideas.

Posted: at 20-12-2009 09:18 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- OB3ICE at 20-12-2009 12:01 PM (15 years ago)
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So let them forget it since their jobs are more important. Building a relationship is no part time job.

Posted: at 20-12-2009 12:01 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- oyez at 20-12-2009 02:23 PM (15 years ago)
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it means no more butterflies in ur belly...eat some caterpillars

Posted: at 20-12-2009 02:23 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- vivian07 at 20-12-2009 07:30 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: humblej on 20-12-2009 09:18 AM
@ Vivian in exception of u'r opinion given in the suggestion,  it could be that both are busy with work, i mean busy pursuing their career cos both of them are employed with a multi-task job... and hardly think of these ideas.
it means they re in love with their jobs...so why bother ?
Posted: at 20-12-2009 07:30 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- ebony_cutie at 20-12-2009 08:12 PM (15 years ago)
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All they need do is rekindle their love,take time off their busy schedule to spend together, they just have to if they truely love and want the rship to grow
Posted: at 20-12-2009 08:12 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- oyez at 20-12-2009 08:15 PM (15 years ago)
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nah..i sugeest they have some break in the relationship..not to break-up..just some break from seeing each other..."the heart gets fonder when it is absent"

Posted: at 20-12-2009 08:15 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- humblej at 20-12-2009 08:47 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: oyez on 20-12-2009 08:15 PM
nah..i sugeest they have some break in the relationship..not to break-up..just some break from seeing each other..."the heart gets fonder when it is absent"
Yeah U are right, on the contrary, giving a short break to each other could somehow  be misinterpreted and sometimes mar the entire relationship, or what do think?

Posted: at 20-12-2009 08:47 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Autumnraine at 20-12-2009 09:05 PM (15 years ago)
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You attend to that which the heart desires, so if attetion has been diverted what has it gone to, there in you will find the answer to what has happened. Then you must determine if it is a relationship worth fighting for. if it is work and careers, then one must make all the time they have quality time. You have to remember you love each other and if you have plans to be together ,then you want to make that time as enjoyable as possible. Winding down from a long days work with good food, drinks, music, bathing, or just quietly resting with each other, let's not  forget how refreshing it is to worship together and pray together. It is a delight to see the one you love praising God.
Posted: at 20-12-2009 09:05 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- Toks-E at 20-12-2009 09:22 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: humblej on 20-12-2009 07:35 AM
At times in a relationship, U find out that the one u love, adore and  cherrisch is no longer giving U the attention, apparently U did nothing that was oblivious to U. How do u get back

Perhaps U start to experience diminishing  attention given to each other in a genuine relationship that was full of romances! what do U think could be the sort of sparks required to bring it back? Plz  I need u'r suggestion to help my friend bring back his relationship to track.




u or ur friend?..no dey lie oo Grin Grin

Posted: at 20-12-2009 09:22 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- humblej at 20-12-2009 09:23 PM (15 years ago)
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Thank U for adding the prayer part of it which is very important aspect that could make the sparks achieve it's aim..

Posted: at 20-12-2009 09:23 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Beauti4 at 20-12-2009 09:35 PM (15 years ago)
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take a 3days vacation. things can go off and on sometimes, but they need to share time with each other.
Posted: at 20-12-2009 09:35 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Toks-E at 20-12-2009 10:28 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: humblej on 20-12-2009 07:35 AM
At times in a relationship, U find out that the one u love, adore and  cherrisch is no longer giving U the attention, apparently U did nothing that was oblivious to U. How do u get back

Perhaps U start to experience diminishing  attention given to each other in a genuine relationship that was full of romances! what do U think could be the sort of sparks required to bring it back? Plz  I need u'r suggestion to help my friend bring back his relationship to track.

gordons spark, spark up ur life! Grin

Posted: at 20-12-2009 10:28 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ceejay58 at 20-12-2009 10:50 PM (15 years ago)
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communications matters a lot in r/ships........ but like someone has already said here, it helps to have a break at times so u can clear ur mind and reappraise.
Posted: at 20-12-2009 10:50 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- ceejay58 at 20-12-2009 10:54 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: humblej on 20-12-2009 07:35 AM
At times in a relationship, U find out that the one u love, adore and  cherrisch is no longer giving U the attention, apparently U did nothing that was oblivious to U. How do u get back

Perhaps U start to experience diminishing  attention given to each other in a genuine relationship that was full of romances! what do U think could be the sort of sparks required to bring it back? Plz  I need u'r suggestion to help my friend bring back his relationship to track.


make dem begin drink gordons spark............  Shocked Lips Sealed








Posted: at 20-12-2009 10:54 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- humblej at 20-12-2009 11:14 PM (15 years ago)
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gordons spark, spark up ur life! Grin
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@ u'r question Me or My friend? it's my friend!
I guess gordons spark would have helped them a lot, but funny enough the brand is no where to be found at the lovebird couple location Cool

Posted: at 20-12-2009 11:14 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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