After Picking a Wedding Date and Friends Already Bought Aso Ebi, Pastor Says He is not My Husband

Published 4 years ago by: Giwa bayo
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at 11:11 AM, 2/07/2015 (4 years ago)

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Just got this from a gistmanian and I thought I should put it on here so you guys can share your thoughts on this:
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My wedding is scheduled for September 5th only for my pastor to tell me during a deliverance service this past Sunday that the man I'm engaged to is not my husband. He said if I marry him, not only will the marriage not last, but that evil will befall me. He said the man was not destined for me and if I go ahead I would wish I had not. My parents are scared and are taking the revelation seriously. They are advising me not to marry him but some of my friends have already bought my aso-ebi. It's not like I can't leave the guy but how do I explain it to people and especially my friends? What would you do if you were in my shoes?

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kejguv at 11:18 AM, 2/07/2015 (4 years ago)
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see serious matter, still thinking about it, will reply shortly

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donslmnstvn at 11:19 AM, 2/07/2015 (4 years ago)
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Go with ur instinct, It is about you and not what d pastor said, what do u really want ? We have had alot of issues where pastors misled intending couples just for their own selfish interest so be wise.
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royalsam450 at 11:21 AM, 2/07/2015 (4 years ago)
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See change
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Marson at 11:45 AM, 2/07/2015 (4 years ago)
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you doubting the truthfulness or worthiness of your partner goes a long way to show YOU HAVEN'T TAKEN TIME TO KNOW HIM AS HE IS.... because if you've experienced with him then trust and confidence will be built..... my take is forget what your pastor has said HE IS BUT A MAN.   be opened in your Heart and GOD ALMIGHTY WILL SPEAK TO YOU DIRECTLY .. through your spirit.... always wish to hear from GOD with your intuition and not your pastor who is merely seeking relevance
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beneno at 12:07 PM, 2/07/2015 (4 years ago)
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ooooooooooh
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millershaq at 12:11 PM, 2/07/2015 (4 years ago)
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Permit me to ask you the following?
Do you know how many times Pastors have made prophecies and they turned out to be false?
Did he then tell you who or where your husband is?
If you were to be in a different country, would your rightful husband be present there too?
Did he tell you when and how you'll meet him?
Do you many wonderful relationships sayings like these have disrupted?
My candid advice, you don't love that guy, cos if you did, what would such a saying have to do with it?
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Mobbysmartins at 12:13 PM, 2/07/2015 (4 years ago)
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The man that wants to marry you have not settled your pastor,just tell him to put some money in the envelop and pay your pastor a visit,you will see the vision of the pastor will change and he will be confirmed as your husband.Foolish useless pastors,always creating problems where there is none,if at all what your pastor is saying is correct and if he is a real man of God,he will tell both of you to pray and fast for God to take control in your marriage.There is nothing impossible before God.
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Ken1230 at 12:17 PM, 2/07/2015 (4 years ago)
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And did he later told you your rightly man? Pastor, Pastor, Pastor, you biko. Next.
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zeigbo at 12:22 PM, 2/07/2015 (4 years ago)
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first do u consult the pastor b4 the proposal if not pray for the will of God to take control of the whole situation

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PoliticxGuru at 12:31 PM, 2/07/2015 (4 years ago)
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wasted generation
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uchejoel26 at 01:00 PM, 2/07/2015 (4 years ago)
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Marry that pastor
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Osatiem at 01:53 PM, 2/07/2015 (4 years ago)
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U need to pray and wait on God for guidance so as not to make mistakes.  You can still seek other advice from serious minded christians.
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lexyclasy at 02:02 PM, 2/07/2015 (4 years ago)
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For those of you that blasphem pastors.......pastors dont prophesy they teaches the word....prophet prophesied......the bible says study to show yourself approved a workman that need not be ashamed of the gospel rightly dividing the word of truth.....so if you gave your life to christ you will have a spirit of discernment that will order your steps and direct your parts..there are fake prophets/pastors and there are genuine prophets/pastors as well the bible says greater things shall ye do even more than what he did......for those of you still doubting prophesy you need to be reexamined...because the girl says the prophetic ministration came during deliverance service it is only her that knows if she was possess or not...if she was and finally got delivered now left for her to know if the prophesy resembles her or not based on the factors she has stated...i have listen to one poster here saying that the bible says he that findeth a wife findeth a good thing not pastor......it is really laughable if you don't respect your father in the lord who have the unction to set you even free from family curse....stop misleading for God sake ...study and know the truth the bible have various translation to suit your needs...get use to it....most of the failed marriage you witnessed today is as a result of choosing the right partner.....not all that glitters are gold.....you can be nobody to day but in future you can overtake the richest person you use to read about.....finally i leave the doubting Thomas with this version that says.....believe the lord thy God and ye shall establish........believe thy prophet and ye shall prosper.....God bless you as i join my faith with yours to make the right decision that will play a major role in your future
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babafero at 02:36 PM, 2/07/2015 (4 years ago)
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first answer me this foolish question before i tell you what to do, DO YOU SOMETIMES SLEEP WITH THE PASTOR?
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osarobo62 at 03:30 PM, 2/07/2015 (4 years ago)
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Quote from: Mobbysmartins on 12:13 PM,  2/07/2015
The man that wants to marry you have not settled your pastor,just tell him to put some money in the envelop and pay your pastor a visit,you will see the vision of the pastor will change and he will be confirmed as your husband.Foolish useless pastors,always creating problems where there is none,if at all what your pastor is saying is correct and if he is a real man of God,he will tell both of you to pray and fast for God to take control in your marriage.There is nothing impossible before God.
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justloveme at 05:04 PM, 2/07/2015 (4 years ago)
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I hate people putting deir lives in the hands of deir pastors. take charge of ur lives by going down on ur kneels.
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malamy at 08:26 PM, 2/07/2015 (4 years ago)
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lie lie pastor why him no c am wen una start!
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echeeche at 08:33 PM, 2/07/2015 (4 years ago)
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nawao oh
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kingcalors at 09:09 PM, 2/07/2015 (4 years ago)
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if I were in ur shoes,,I'll pull iff my shoes and take odf
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