Why do many gurls who are involved in any genuine relationship expect it to metamorphose into marriage? Plz can someone who knows why tell me. To guys have u been asked this qustion by any gurl, "what is the future of our relationship"
Loving, humble and humorous to sane & reasonable people
Posted: at 24-12-2009 09:46 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
If i have dated 10 times in my life, the quetion , "what is the future of our realtionship or where is this r /L leading us to" has been asked 10 times as well, i'm asking if it is alright!
Loving, humble and humorous to sane & reasonable people
Posted: at 24-12-2009 09:53 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
in your words...u called it "genuine". What else should we expect from something genuine? A genuine relationship should lead into genuine marriage. Unless both parties have agreed from the start what they want from the relationship. However, Courtship/Dating are meant for couples to be together for a while in order to know if they can live happily when married.
I've given only one answer to that question : "where is a parked vehicle heading to?" I cant imagine any of my previous relationships leading to marriage. Damn, that will be carrying fire with bare hands
Hey, I didnt mean to say that......slip of tongue
Posted: at 24-12-2009 10:09 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
in your words...u called it "genuine". What else should we expect from something genuine? A genuine relationship should lead into genuine marriage. Unless both parties have agreed from the start what they want from the relationship. However, Courtship/Dating are meant for couples to be together for a while in order to know if they can live happily when married.
Yeah I mean genuine coz not all relationships are real, some ppl enter into it for different reasons while some aim to achieve a certain goal...
Loving, humble and humorous to sane & reasonable people
Posted: at 24-12-2009 10:36 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Ideally it should if the reason for entering the relation is pure. Most often it doesnt cos people ave evolved to enter and exit relationships based on trivial and sometimes mudane reasons.
Posted: at 24-12-2009 11:11 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
Why do many gurls who are involved in any genuine relationship expect it to metamorphose into marriage? Plz can someone who knows why tell me. To guys have u been asked this qustion by any gurl, "what is the future of our relationship"
I don't expect that.
Posted: at 24-12-2009 11:40 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
princess4life at 26-12-2009 10:10 AM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: humblej on 24-12-2009 09:53 AM
If i have dated 10 times in my life, the quetion , "what is the future of our realtionship or where is this r /L leading us to" has been asked 10 times as well, i'm asking if it is alright!
its wat u tel dem dat makes dem want a future wit u?dont u think so?pls stop deceivng ladies wit ur sweet talk nd i luv u sturf
Posted: at 26-12-2009 10:10 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
brightossy at 26-12-2009 10:11 AM (15 years ago) (m)
E dey happen 2 me steady. cos me, i no dey talk future wit them. 1 of them dumped me with no reason known 2 me. I calmly confronted ha one day n she confessed, "Bright, do u you know how old i am? Am 28. And u dnt seem 2 talk our future." Oh men! As i hearam naim i pik race.
Posted: at 26-12-2009 10:11 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
princess4life at 26-12-2009 10:14 AM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: OB3ICE on 24-12-2009 10:09 AM
I've given only one answer to that question : "where is a parked vehicle heading to?" I cant imagine any of my previous relationships leading to marriage. Damn, that will be carrying fire with bare hands
ur coment is as horible as u are?who nids u anyway?
Posted: at 26-12-2009 10:14 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
Baby, I wish u knew my type of person, I have never used such strategies on any girl, is just that I'm too humble and good to have never hurted any of them. Because of this same question I get always, I have decided not to date again untill I find that person who becomes my ideal partner
Loving, humble and humorous to sane & reasonable people
Posted: at 26-12-2009 10:18 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
dirtykid at 26-12-2009 05:44 PM (15 years ago) (m)
girls do ask that question,, even when u as a guy is not thinking about selecting down with them yet.. U re still in relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend.. im a living witness to this attitude, she will keep asking almost all the time, what are u thinking about our future, what do u take me for, in all sorts of way, but i will keep ignoring it, she is not the one to tell me my next step of choice, maybe she didnt meet up my requirements for the type of woman i want to settle down with for future.. quiet right we're gf and bf,... but i think when it comes to future thing, the man also should know what he really want if she is right or not the right person.
But i guess the softness and emotional part of the women makes them to be asking and hoping for that, once they see that the relationship is all cool and the guy has all they can think of. she is planning differntly in her mind. and when that didnt come to pass, she wil say u broke her heart. damn it !
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 26-12-2009 05:44 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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