Are relationships / datings meant to end in marriage?

Why do many gurls who are involved in any genuine relationship expect it to metamorphose into marriage? Plz can someone who knows why tell me. To guys have u been asked this qustion by any gurl, "what is the future of our relationship"

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Posted: at 24-12-2009 09:46 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

in your words...u called it "genuine". What else should we expect from something genuine? A genuine relationship should lead into genuine marriage. Unless both parties have agreed from the start what they want from the relationship.
However, Courtship/Dating are meant for couples to be together for a while in order to know if they can live happily when married.

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Posted: at 24-12-2009 10:06 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Yeah I mean genuine coz not all relationships are real, some ppl enter into it for different reasons while some aim to achieve a certain goal...

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Posted: at 24-12-2009 10:36 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Ideally it should if the reason for entering the relation is pure. Most often it doesnt cos people ave evolved to enter and exit relationships based on trivial and sometimes mudane reasons.

Posted: at 24-12-2009 11:11 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

I see, perhaps I should give U a helping hand to get one cos u are matured to have one

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Posted: at 24-12-2009 10:58 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I don't expect that.

Posted: at 24-12-2009 11:40 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

@ topic.. NO !

Posted: at 25-12-2009 02:26 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

its wat u tel dem dat makes dem want a future wit u?dont u think so?pls stop deceivng ladies wit ur sweet talk nd i luv u sturf

Posted: at 26-12-2009 10:10 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

ur coment is as horible as u are?who nids u anyway?

Posted: at 26-12-2009 10:14 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

girls do ask that question,, even when u as a guy is not thinking about selecting down with them yet.. U re still in relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend.. im a living witness to this attitude, she will keep asking almost all the time, what are u thinking about our future, what do u take me for, in all sorts of way, but i will keep ignoring it, she is not the one to tell me my next step of choice, maybe she didnt meet up my requirements for the type of woman i want to settle down with for future.. quiet right we're gf and bf,... but i think when it comes to future thing, the man also should know what he really want if she is right or not the right person.

But i guess the softness and emotional part of the women makes them to be asking and hoping for that, once they see that the relationship is all cool and the guy has all they can think of. she is planning differntly in her mind. and when that didnt come to pass, she wil say u broke her heart. damn it !

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Posted: at 26-12-2009 05:44 PM (14 years ago) | Hero