Church Grants Divorce to Man Cause His Wife Has no Womb

It was a sad end between a couple simply identified as Ogene and Rita (surnames withheld) after Rita confessed to Ogene that she could not bear him any child because her womb was damaged during abortion when she was in secondary school in Onitsha town in Anambra State, southeast Nigeria. It was gathered that the confession was made five years after they contracted traditional marriage and wedded in an Anglican Church in Umuchu, Aguata in Anambra State. The husband subsequently sent her away for hiding such information from him after their traditional and church marriage.Findings revealed that Ogene is a trader at Head Bridge market in Onitsha and resides in Iyiowa Odekpe in Atani Local Government, a few kilometres to Onitsha urban where he plies his trade. Their relationship started when Ogene met Rita in the area and proposed to marry her. She accepted and there was formal introduction between the families. They did their traditional wedding in Rita’s village in Imo State and proceeded to Ogene’s village in Umuchu where they did their church wedding. According to sources, throughout the period the relationship started and ended in marriage, Rita did not tell Ogene that she lost her womb due to abortion.

When Rita did not get pregnant after years of their marriage, they started looking for medical solution to no avail. This cost Ogene huge sums of money.
After the failed medical solution, they decided to embark on spiritual solution which led Rita to meet a pastor to whom she revealed her predicament on why she was unable to get pregnant. The pastor advised her to embark on fasting and prayers and ask God for forgiveness. The pastor told her that after the prayers she should go to her husband and confess and ask for forgiveness. The pastor assured her that with the prayers, her husband would forgive her and would still take her as his wife.
Based on the assurance of the pastor, after the fasting and prayers, Rita went to Ogene and narrated her sad story. It was gathered that Rita confessed to Ogene that she got pregnant when she was in secondary school and to cover the shame, she secretly went for abortion. She narrated that during the abortion, there was complication which affected her womb and damaged it. She told him that after the abortion, she had not been able to conceive and she was afraid to tell him before they got married because she did not want to lose him. She pleaded for forgiveness and asked him to think and decide her fate in the marriage.
The embittered husband told her that there was nothing to think concerning their marriage since she concealed such serious information from him and subjected him to wasting huge sums of money on medical treatment.

He told her that there was no marriage in the first instance between them because she lied to him.
He asked her to pack her things and leave his house.

She left dejected because the advice by the pastor was counter-productive.

Ogene subsequently went to the Anglican Church marriage counsel in Awka and sought for the dissolution of the marriage.
And the church granted his request.

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Posted: at 18-08-2015 03:18 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero

to bad

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Posted: at 18-08-2015 03:47 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

she caused it na

Posted: at 18-08-2015 04:03 PM (8 years ago) | Hero

this woman is wicked ....you made this man spend all  his money and his time looking for the solution for your inability to get pregnant, knowing fully well for 5 yes that you cant get pregnant. The man should have been awarded some financial settlement...I am going to use this opportunity to give every man the advice my grandfather gave me...MAKE SURE THERE IS A BABY IN THAT STOMACH BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED..If she doesn't get pregnant before the wedding , no ceremony should hold. This is beneficial for the women too, because a lot of these men have low sperm count and other issues that has made them unable to have children....scandalous...all the deceit and lies...

Posted: at 18-08-2015 04:47 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Una wey dey say being baby mama no good but Ni abortion better pass wey una ? This woman condition and baby mama,s own which one better pass ? A man that will love u will still love and marry u even when he knows u had a baby out of wed luck before.e.g no be person marry 2 face babies mama wey don even born two children out of wedlock before ? May God help her.

Posted: at 18-08-2015 05:16 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero

ok na..

Posted: at 18-08-2015 05:24 PM (8 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Wat is d point hiding dat information wen she knws dat d man wud eventually find out?? Totally her fault. May God forgive her

Posted: at 18-08-2015 05:34 PM (8 years ago) | Hero

mcheeew I hope you regret I won't feel sorry for u

Posted: at 18-08-2015 06:43 PM (8 years ago) | Upcoming

hmmm watin person go do

Posted: at 18-08-2015 07:27 PM (8 years ago) | Grande Master

Heyyyyy

Posted: at 18-08-2015 07:44 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac