"My boyfriend said I should buy him Gucci Driver shoes worth N93,000 when I am coming home for Christmas break, said he will give me the money when I come back. This is going to be the first time we will meet since we started our fragile relationship 9 months ago. We knew a bit in University few years ago.
Severally, I have told my boyfriend prior to now that I cannot afford it. Last before now, he said "but you can start saving now and you will get the money before your arrival". So this time, to be the virtuous girlfriend, I had to go all out and check up the prices for this shoe.
I think he assumes that because I am a self-sponsored student abroad, I am Dantata's love child. Anytime i debunk this claim, he goes like "haba".
Now, I am a student, furthering my studies. And he is working, he has worked for sometime too. Okay, so I have some money that I am saving to do something later next year, when I will be graduating. But my fear is that he doesn't sound like he will give me back this money. Two, I have a problem with him wearing a 93k shoe in this harsh economy knowing that the money can be saved and invested in something of worth.
Do you think I should buy it??? "
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Posted: at 21-09-2015 01:00 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
hackynoni111 at 21-09-2015 01:09 PM (9 years ago) (m)
Let me think i will comment later
Posted: at 21-09-2015 01:09 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Don't buy it he will not give you the money back. And again is not responsible guy as I hear from what you wrote. What will he wear during your marriage? Don't buy it.
Posted: at 21-09-2015 01:15 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie
You are a stupid girl for even thinking about buying the shoe for a gigolo like him. You are in Malaysia and you want to fall mugu to the guy that you have not even met since you started this your so called relationship. Anyway, give me your number make I come see you now.
Posted: at 21-09-2015 01:41 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Machealex at 21-09-2015 01:51 PM (9 years ago) (m)
That guy is upto something,shoes of that much money l no see any seriousness for dis type of guy. Just don't buy it. If I may advice. He just want to use you.
Posted: at 21-09-2015 01:51 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
And the boy is direct by telling her not to make him what he is not as he is not her husband. Keep your money and you will see surprise about him when you travel to Nigeria as he is just a gigolo.
Posted: at 21-09-2015 01:58 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Dude sounds like a psychological bully as well as a pathological liar. You should probably end the relationship, he doesn't sound like the type of guy who'd wanna associate yourself with. Money dey grow for tree??
Posted: at 21-09-2015 02:03 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
This girl na idiot ooo, so if dey allow you, u will use ur hard end money to buy dat kind of shoe for just boyfrend u dnt kw wht his doing here in nigeria since u tralled, just luk at his tatement. Mind u he is just a boyfrend to u nt husband" my dear be wise" if his reasnable enough he will send d moni , by d way his working nd u are still a student
Posted: at 21-09-2015 03:09 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
Don't worry so far you are in China you can go to train station in guangzhou and buy him the lowest grade and he can't know just to keep the relationship intact.
Posted: at 21-09-2015 03:23 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie