Is It Right To Ask Your Partner About Their Past Relationship?

Date: 19-01-2010 5:31 pm (15 years ago) | Author: Teeco Designer
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- at 19-01-2010 05:31 PM (15 years ago)
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How do you feel knowing about your partner's Ex-Partner?
You realy love someone, you ussually would want to know details of her past relationship?
Is it right to ask about a partners past repationship?


Teeco Designer


Posted: at 19-01-2010 05:31 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- HOPEA23 at 19-01-2010 05:54 PM (15 years ago)
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Hmmm yes is good

Posted: at 19-01-2010 05:54 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- teeco at 19-01-2010 05:55 PM (15 years ago)
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sure!

Posted: at 19-01-2010 05:55 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- cuttiehommie4u at 19-01-2010 06:24 PM (15 years ago)
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am only dealin with virgins, dem neva had ex. kinda lucky
Posted: at 19-01-2010 06:24 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pires07 at 19-01-2010 06:30 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: teeco on 19-01-2010 05:31 PM
How do you feel knowing about your partner's Ex-Partner?
You realy love someone, you ussually would want to know details of her past relationship?
Is it right to ask about a partners past repationship?


Teeco Designer
I dnt like that idea. tho to some ppl it might be cool, but for me nope cos i've been in a r/shp that ended up bcos of one ex-bf's past life/story.

Posted: at 19-01-2010 06:30 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- vivian07 at 19-01-2010 06:41 PM (15 years ago)
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its not important....but peeps take it as a tradition..

Quote from: cuttiehommie4u on 19-01-2010 06:24 PM
am only dealin with virgins, dem neva had ex. kinda lucky
Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 19-01-2010 06:41 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- MrDon at 19-01-2010 06:43 PM (15 years ago)
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only if u re ready to accept them with their past, cos that past could hurt a times....
Posted: at 19-01-2010 06:43 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sweetnoxy at 19-01-2010 07:11 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: teeco on 19-01-2010 05:31 PM
How do you feel knowing about your partner's Ex-Partner?
You realy love someone, you ussually would want to know details of her past relationship?
Is it right to ask about a partners past repationship?


Teeco Designer

i think its right to ask (so far u can handle the answers) so that once anytin comes up from his/her past, u can easily understand where its coming from. Also, its gud so that u really know who u are with.
Posted: at 19-01-2010 07:11 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Kennee at 19-01-2010 07:15 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: teeco on 19-01-2010 05:31 PM
How do you feel knowing about your partner's Ex-Partner?
You realy love someone, you ussually would want to know details of her past relationship?
Is it right to ask about a partners past repationship?


Teeco Designer

Depends

Some people ask for the wrong Reason(s)

And

Some misunderstand yur Reason(s) for asking

Posted: at 19-01-2010 07:15 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- PreetyInstinct at 20-01-2010 01:23 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: MrDon on 19-01-2010 06:43 PM
only if u re ready to accept them with their past, cos that past could hurt a times....
Hmmm yea probably some things r just better of left unsaid and in the past let an ex be an ex and move and talk about wat u can do to make ur relationship d best. . . Wink Cheesy Smiley

Posted: at 20-01-2010 01:23 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- myragonza at 20-01-2010 07:42 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: teeco on 19-01-2010 05:31 PM
How do you feel knowing about your partner's Ex-Partner?
You realy love someone, you ussually would want to know details of her past relationship?
Is it right to ask about a partners past repationship?


Teeco Designer

maybe just basic stuffs like how long they have known each other,why they broke up and if they still keep in touch...

Posted: at 20-01-2010 07:42 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- teeco at 20-01-2010 09:33 AM (15 years ago)
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ok

Posted: at 20-01-2010 09:33 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- brightossy at 20-01-2010 11:07 AM (15 years ago)
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The lesser i know d better for me.
Posted: at 20-01-2010 11:07 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- meczytimber at 20-01-2010 11:09 AM (15 years ago)
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good to ask,
so u will know where u re going to

Posted: at 20-01-2010 11:09 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- simele at 20-01-2010 11:17 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: teeco on 19-01-2010 05:31 PM
How do you feel knowing about your partner's Ex-Partner?
You realy love someone, you ussually would want to know details of her past relationship?
Is it right to ask about a partners past repationship?


Teeco Designer

don't because it will get you angry and jealous so just let it be for about the past na the future really matter
Posted: at 20-01-2010 11:17 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- teeco at 20-01-2010 11:29 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: simele on 20-01-2010 11:17 AM
Quote from: teeco on 19-01-2010 05:31 PM
How do you feel knowing about your partner's Ex-Partner?
You realy love someone, you ussually would want to know details of her past relationship?
Is it right to ask about a partners past repationship?


Teeco Designer

don't because it will get you angry and jealous so just let it be for about the past na the future really matter

yeah I think you'r right

Posted: at 20-01-2010 11:29 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- queenjacky at 20-01-2010 11:59 AM (15 years ago)
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hmm is a good question
Posted: at 20-01-2010 11:59 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- dirtykid at 20-01-2010 12:14 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: teeco on 19-01-2010 05:31 PM
How do you feel knowing about your partner's Ex-Partner?
You realy love someone, you ussually would want to know details of her past relationship?
Is it right to ask about a partners past repationship?


Teeco Designer


is not bad to ask about that. the question should be, would the guy or the gurl, be happy hearing abt the past of the partner. Girls always want to say abt their past and wants Guys to see it as nothing, but once u told her abt your past and the way u use to flirt or deal with girls. she will definitly understand it in different way. From that moment u re always a suspect, she will be thinking u re still the old u... it does happen as well in some guys.

So the best is, if both people will not want to have problems after hearing their past. let them bury it, as it is and face their relationship.

Posted: at 20-01-2010 12:14 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- ebony_cutie at 20-01-2010 12:19 PM (15 years ago)
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@Poster, yes its right to ask that, aint nothg wrong so u understand your partner more...You said PAST rship, so it shldnt pose a problem cos its past & shld be kept there.
Posted: at 20-01-2010 12:19 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Lagosboy2003 at 20-01-2010 12:25 PM (15 years ago)
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BOTH parties should be open and honest with each other, what's there to hide? You can't change what you did in the past but you should confide in each other. As you get older and rushing into the bedroom is not a priority, talking keeps a relationship alive & fresh.
Posted: at 20-01-2010 12:25 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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