Hi, My name is BIMBO, a Nigerian, Well, i have a question for you.. I'm a graduate, and I’ve worked for some few companies b4 I joined my present organization. on joining, i met this guy who is in a different department, the first time i saw him i was thrilled, i mean i liked him. in my office, we are always having morning meeting everyday so i noticed that anytime i sit opposite this guy at the conference room he's always staring at me till the meeting ends.. Lately, he approached me, and even before then i learnt that he was married and has a kid but lost his wife in June last year, i later gave in to his proposition and i went to his house for the first time. There was terrible traffic so i got to his house a bit late and i later passed the night in his house and discovered we made love, but what i noticed was that he did not bother to use a condom on me despite the fact that we had condom on the bed, and one thing again was that, in my place of work, you must undergo STD screening especially HIV screening every 3 months especially there department which i think he should always be careful not to contact such disease but he never taught of that and went straight in to me, though I don’t have any disease anyway, but not withstanding he should have just have a taught. That day passed and I’ve been to his house 2 other times and we made love, each time we do same he always comment on my boobs telling me they are just too nice. Sometimes he talks in parable as if he was going to marry me. for example there was a day he was telling me that cant i work else where rather than working in this organization? then the following morning he was telling me that he wants to surprise everybody in our place of work, i was curious and asked him what he wanted to do and he replied me that i wont be the P.A to the M.D again, that I will work elsewhere and said he has the power to put me in a fixed deposit, well I wouldn’t understand what that means, but always in parables. Even sometimes he always tell me that he was going to get me pregnant, I don’t really know if he likes me, if he wants me to be his wife or whatever.... There was a day he told me that he doesn’t want to think again, i mean about his dead wife, now dat I’m here, i noticed also that he doesn’t keep girlfriends because since i knew him he has never dodged anything from me or received a suspected lovers call while I’m with him. the question now is that why will he just go in to me without u sing a condom knowing well that any mistake can jeopardize his career as an embryologist. Does he like me that much? Does he want to marry me? please i need you to give me some advice on how to go about this.. Thanks for your anticipated response..
well, wateva u do, keep ur legs shut tight together! find dat i think beter with my legs in that position. from wat u said, 's like u guys have a whole lot of chemistry btween d 2 of u...well, reserve some for ur married life together.
sounds like its not long he was bereaved, found out from experience that what u take most when u r sick wether out of necessity or preference, does not follow u out of the hospital. in fact its the first thing u remember not to take again, if possible for the rest of ur life (there was a time i was sick, it was always Fanta, as soon as i got better, just show me a bottle of fanta, even if its empty, of Fanta, and i'll barf all over u; till now, almost 15 years later, taking fanta is a major problem)just be careful ur not merely being used to recover or do i say rcouperate, there is nothing like a healthy choice, not one borne out of necessity or fear or loneliness. just be sure u r not being used as a pain reliever or sleeping tablet to be dumped when the person no longer feels pain or can now sleep normally.
and dis one u guys go skinny dipping every time u meet, u sure he wouldnt do the same with any other girl he feels strongly about? and my dear u just dont follow a guy mukoo mukoo mukoo like dat- he wants skinny dipping, u gree, he says u'll leave ur job u.... infact it doesnt sound like u challenged any one of all the things he's done or said 2 u. remember its ur life-till he buys it! u dont start a relationship on this type of passive note, no matter where d love hook u reach!show him u have a mind behind dat beautiful exterior, afterall there would comea time when he will start looking for one (a mind; u guys would have to crawl out of bed sometime and get on with the rest of life).
just be watch ful, and think of urself first(when u r married u can think of others,eg, ur husband kids, etc), orif thinking of urself is not helping any, think of ur welbeing.
goodluck sha!
| Posted: at 13-08-2008 04:58 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac |
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