IS IT RIGHT FOR A GIRL TO PUT AN END TO A RELATIONSHIP?

Date: 13-02-2010 5:32 pm (14 years ago) | Author: mbone lucy
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- at 13-02-2010 05:32 PM (14 years ago)
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I called my boyfriend to my house and told him i wished to put an end our relationship, because he does not  give me what i want. Such as money,he does not even buy me a gift on my birthday,while i always do.He said it was o.k by him and went out.One week later he  started spreading rumours about me to my friends.He said he did not love me,he was just using me to satisfy his segxwal needs.He later confided to his best  friend that he said all those things because i told him off.Is a girl supposed to wait for a guy to call off their relationship?I thought i was doing both of us good,so that we will not become enemies after our break up,i have realised we are worst enemies than i could have imagined.

Posted: at 13-02-2010 05:32 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
- vivian07 at 13-02-2010 05:37 PM (14 years ago)
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girl, dont take to what he says..he is only trying to play *man*...u know their ego thing..
but serzly, he aint man enough u did the right thing by calling it off....and for the fact that he walked away when u told him that its over , shows that he really didnt like u .talk more of love ..so move on...and if u are in such situation again...do the right thing girl,....chunk the m*der f*cker ..
Posted: at 13-02-2010 05:37 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- docreala at 13-02-2010 06:27 PM (14 years ago)
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relationship is not just about money,gifts,sex or whatever even though its part of it,

its all about sharin & givin ur best to each other.but if @ any point u r not comfortable afta givin ur best,

feel free to move ahaed wether male or female its irrelevant.go to where u will be celebrated not tolerated .
Posted: at 13-02-2010 06:27 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- rollings at 13-02-2010 06:50 PM (14 years ago)
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ANY ONE CAN CALL OFF BUT THIS DAYS MANY GALS DO IT AS A TEST TO HOW FAR THEIR GUY CAN STICK WITH THEM, SOME DO IT SO OFTEN THAT THE GUY WILL START LOOKING OUT FOR ANOTHER WITHOUT TELLING HER. THEY(GALS)WILL BE SO SERIOUS AND U'LL KEEP ON PLEADING. IT HAPPENED TO ME LIKE  THAT AND AFTER SHE TOLD ME IS JUST A JOKE BUT THEN I HAVE SOME ONE TO BACK HER UP IN CASE OF ANOTHER FUK UP.
Posted: at 13-02-2010 06:50 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- xter at 13-02-2010 07:59 PM (14 years ago)
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hmmmmmmmmm

Posted: at 13-02-2010 07:59 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ajanni at 13-02-2010 08:17 PM (14 years ago)
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you have done well
Posted: at 13-02-2010 08:17 PM (14 years ago) | Grande Master
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- Starlette at 13-02-2010 08:34 PM (14 years ago)
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girl but u sud no luv isn't money al d same u've done wel cos u wouldn't ve known if he truely was in luv

Posted: at 13-02-2010 08:34 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- prencess at 14-02-2010 04:31 PM (14 years ago)
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u just took to ur heel on time dont mind him
for the fact that he dont love u there is nothing u will do that will please him
u did the right thing at the right time just rest ur head and wait for the right person
and dont jump into another relationship without finding out whether the person
loves u or not
Posted: at 14-02-2010 04:31 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 14-02-2010 04:47 PM (14 years ago)
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he was only trying to save face....cos u called his bluff.
well done for hving the courage to do it wen u did...he never saw it comin
dnt let his unmanly act disturb u....
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Posted: at 14-02-2010 04:47 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Miss_precious at 14-02-2010 04:50 PM (14 years ago)
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thats what rejection do...he is frustrated....and an amatuer...

Posted: at 14-02-2010 04:50 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- noble74 at 14-02-2010 05:24 PM (14 years ago)
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well if you deem it good enough to call it off because he did not buy you gift and money, then you probably did the wrong thing, but if he cofessed to his friend that he was just using you for segxwal satisfaction then you did the right thing and he is a loser, but know it now that he is in pain and looking for a way to brush it off. i mean i am a man i know how men feel when do are dumped by their significant other.
So dont feel bad all the way. but in the future you should remember that money and love does not neccessaryly blend together ok.
Posted: at 14-02-2010 05:24 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- mbone at 21-02-2010 05:01 PM (14 years ago)
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thank you guys for all  your support i will make sure i listen to all your advice and  not make the same mistake again
Posted: at 21-02-2010 05:01 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- yintey at 21-02-2010 05:18 PM (14 years ago)
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I feel that either party can call off d relationship, it all depends on the motives behind it, but if a girl has 2 quit a relationship bcos of material things it is not advisable, so girlfriend think about this, so that u won't make such mistake with another guy.
Posted: at 21-02-2010 05:18 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- ksurrina at 21-02-2010 05:52 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mbone on 13-02-2010 05:32 PM
I called my boyfriend to my house and told him i wished to put an end our relationship, because he does not  give me what i want. Such as money,he does not even buy me a gift on my birthday,while i always do.He said it was o.k by him and went out.One week later he  started spreading rumours about me to my friends.He said he did not love me,he was just using me to satisfy his segxwal needs.He later confided to his best  friend that he said all those things because i told him off.Is a girl supposed to wait for a guy to call off their relationship?I thought i was doing both of us good,so that we will not become enemies after our break up,i have realised we are worst enemies than i could have imagined.

There is nothing wrong in a girl calling off the relationship but what is wrong is how she done it. You see you hurt his feelings but outlining that the things he as not done for you. In doing this he see you as dirt and so he went around tarnishing your character which was evilous of him. Learn from this and remember that when one is ending a relationship whether it be the male or the female use decorum. Don't try to hurt the other feelings saying that it is over and wishing the ex blessings is good enough.

Posted: at 21-02-2010 05:52 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- happinee at 21-02-2010 06:00 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: vivian07 on 13-02-2010 05:37 PM
girl, dont take to what he says..he is only trying to play *man*...u know their ego thing..
but serzly, he aint man enough u did the right thing by calling it off....and for the fact that he walked away when u told him that its over , shows that he really didnt like u .talk more of love ..so move on...and if u are in such situation again...do the right thing girl,....chunk the m*der f*cker ..
yeah rite!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: at 21-02-2010 06:00 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- around_d_corner at 21-02-2010 06:07 PM (14 years ago)
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is no big deal in that........................
Posted: at 21-02-2010 06:07 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- acaalliy at 22-02-2010 01:24 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mbone on 13-02-2010 05:32 PM
I called my boyfriend to my house and told him i wished to put an end our relationship, because he does not  give me what i want. Such as money,he does not even buy me a gift on my birthday,while i always do.He said it was o.k by him and went out.One week later he  started spreading rumours about me to my friends.He said he did not love me,he was just using me to satisfy his segxwal needs.He later confided to his best  friend that he said all those things because i told him off.Is a girl supposed to wait for a guy to call off their relationship?I thought i was doing both of us good,so that we will not become enemies after our break up,i have realised we are worst enemies than i could have imagined.

You be ineva chop, so all you depend on in a relationship is money and gift. Though you took the rite step by telling him off but dont be too money and gift cautious in a relationship. Ibo girl sha na wa 4 una...
Posted: at 22-02-2010 01:24 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- happinee at 22-02-2010 03:33 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: acaalliy on 22-02-2010 01:24 PM
Quote from: mbone on 13-02-2010 05:32 PM
I called my boyfriend to my house and told him i wished to put an end our relationship, because he does not  give me what i want. Such as money,he does not even buy me a gift on my birthday,while i always do.He said it was o.k by him and went out.One week later he  started spreading rumours about me to my friends.He said he did not love me,he was just using me to satisfy his segxwal needs.He later confided to his best  friend that he said all those things because i told him off.Is a girl supposed to wait for a guy to call off their relationship?I thought i was doing both of us good,so that we will not become enemies after our break up,i have realised we are worst enemies than i could have imagined.

You be ineva chop, so all you depend on in a relationship is money and gift. Though you took the rite step by telling him off but dont be too money and gift cautious in a relationship. Ibo girl sha na wa 4 una...

no blame am abeg.
Posted: at 22-02-2010 03:33 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- esonu at 22-02-2010 06:00 PM (14 years ago)
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no comment

Posted: at 22-02-2010 06:00 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Beauti4 at 22-02-2010 11:46 PM (14 years ago)
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Pster, am sure some guys on here will email u and ask u out. they are goin to say: hey baby i saw your post at the forum and i was touch, cant blive a beatuiful gurl like you went thru this trauma with that boy. well, i just wanted to b ya friend....i bet one of them will do it.
Posted: at 22-02-2010 11:46 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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