I've been reading another thread that asks posters to give their definition of the difference between sex and making love.
Many of the respondents have noted that making love is with someone you are in love with.
So, after doing a few different searches and not finding one that addresses this, I thought I would throw out this question:
Do you need to be IN love to MAKE love to that person?
IMHO, no. I believe you can make love to a person without being IN love with that person. That being said, notice I said make love TO someone, not WITH someone. There is a difference.
This is not about sex or one night stands. This is about being in a relationship, whether it be FWB or at the beginning of a possible LTR where you are not IN love with that person, but you do care for them.
What is your opinion?
Posted: at 24-02-2010 12:09 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
ebony_cutie at 24-02-2010 12:14 PM (15 years ago) (f)
You don ansa am finish na....you said making love TO and not WITH the person, yea its possible to make love to a person you not in love with
Posted: at 24-02-2010 12:14 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
In my opinion, the prime difference between making love and having sex is lies in the duration of foreplay and the whole activity that culminates into the time between coitus and segxwal release.
Making love is a detailed act that entails more than just insertion and thrusting away. It involves romance, sweet words and actions prior to clothes coming off. It involves more than segxwal communication between the bodies of the parties in question, it involves emotional communication, psychological, and otherwise. It involves body mind soul and spirit. It's deeper and richer in meaning than can be fully explained using words. It's a cosmic experience.
Sex is just sex. Notwithstanding it can be fun and enjoyed by people that are in love or just strangers caught up in spontaneous lust and fornication.
Making love to a stranger is possible esp when the one making the love is emotionally unstable. U can imagine a patron of the ladies of the nyt telling his escort he loves her while she's screwing him for money. Is that a stable person?
Posted: at 24-02-2010 12:39 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
myragonza at 24-02-2010 12:40 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: princemech on 24-02-2010 12:09 PM
I've been reading another thread that asks posters to give their definition of the difference between sex and making love.
Many of the respondents have noted that making love is with someone you are in love with.
So, after doing a few different searches and not finding one that addresses this, I thought I would throw out this question:
Do you need to be IN love to MAKE love to that person?
IMHO, no. I believe you can make love to a person without being IN love with that person. That being said, notice I said make love TO someone, not WITH someone. There is a difference.
This is not about sex or one night stands. This is about being in a relationship, whether it be FWB or at the beginning of a possible LTR where you are not IN love with that person, but you do care for them.
What is your opinion?
ok,whats the difference between making love TO someone and WITH someone.....i'm still learning nah....
In my opinion, the prime difference between making love and having sex is lies in the duration of foreplay and the whole activity that culminates into the time between coitus and segxwal release.
Making love is a detailed act that entails more than just insertion and thrusting away. It involves romance, sweet words and actions prior to clothes coming off. It involves more than segxwal communication between the bodies of the parties in question, it involves emotional communication, psychological, and otherwise. It involves body mind soul and spirit. It's deeper and richer in meaning than can be fully explained using words. It's a cosmic experience.
Sex is just sex. Notwithstanding it can be fun and enjoyed by people that are in love or just strangers caught up in spontaneous lust and fornication.
Making love to a stranger is possible esp when the one making the love is emotionally unstable. U can imagine a patron of the ladies of the nyt telling his escort he loves her while she's screwing him for money. Is that a stable person?
Posted: at 24-02-2010 12:42 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
ebony_cutie at 24-02-2010 12:55 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: myragonza on 24-02-2010 12:40 PM
Quote from: princemech on 24-02-2010 12:09 PM
I've been reading another thread that asks posters to give their definition of the difference between sex and making love.
Many of the respondents have noted that making love is with someone you are in love with.
So, after doing a few different searches and not finding one that addresses this, I thought I would throw out this question:
Do you need to be IN love to MAKE love to that person?
IMHO, no. I believe you can make love to a person without being IN love with that person. That being said, notice I said make love TO someone, not WITH someone. There is a difference.
This is not about sex or one night stands. This is about being in a relationship, whether it be FWB or at the beginning of a possible LTR where you are not IN love with that person, but you do care for them.
What is your opinion?
ok,whats the difference between making love TO someone and WITH someone.....i'm still learning nah....
The difference is that making love to someone you love is just like having sex, u just love the person or somthg abt the person but not deeply in love...being in love with some1 involves both parties,goes beyond the physical,involves everything about you
Posted: at 24-02-2010 12:55 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
myragonza at 24-02-2010 01:02 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: ebony_cutie on 24-02-2010 12:55 PM
Quote from: myragonza on 24-02-2010 12:40 PM
Quote from: princemech on 24-02-2010 12:09 PM
I've been reading another thread that asks posters to give their definition of the difference between sex and making love.
Many of the respondents have noted that making love is with someone you are in love with.
So, after doing a few different searches and not finding one that addresses this, I thought I would throw out this question:
Do you need to be IN love to MAKE love to that person?
IMHO, no. I believe you can make love to a person without being IN love with that person. That being said, notice I said make love TO someone, not WITH someone. There is a difference.
This is not about sex or one night stands. This is about being in a relationship, whether it be FWB or at the beginning of a possible LTR where you are not IN love with that person, but you do care for them.
What is your opinion?
ok,whats the difference between making love TO someone and WITH someone.....i'm still learning nah....
The difference is that making love to someone you love is just like having sex, u just love the person or somthg abt the person but not deeply in love...being in love with some1 involves both parties,goes beyond the physical,involves everything about you
thanks Sis....i was just irritating Princemech actually...lol....but thanks for the reply though....
handsomeemmy1 at 24-02-2010 01:05 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Ok learning.
Life can only get better can only get better for me, i don't know about you. But just be calm remain focus because you never can tell where God is taking you to. smile.
Posted: at 24-02-2010 01:05 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
ebony_cutie at 24-02-2010 01:06 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: myragonza on 24-02-2010 01:02 PM
Quote from: ebony_cutie on 24-02-2010 12:55 PM
Quote from: myragonza on 24-02-2010 12:40 PM
Quote from: princemech on 24-02-2010 12:09 PM
I've been reading another thread that asks posters to give their definition of the difference between sex and making love.
Many of the respondents have noted that making love is with someone you are in love with.
So, after doing a few different searches and not finding one that addresses this, I thought I would throw out this question:
Do you need to be IN love to MAKE love to that person?
IMHO, no. I believe you can make love to a person without being IN love with that person. That being said, notice I said make love TO someone, not WITH someone. There is a difference.
This is not about sex or one night stands. This is about being in a relationship, whether it be FWB or at the beginning of a possible LTR where you are not IN love with that person, but you do care for them.
What is your opinion?
ok,whats the difference between making love TO someone and WITH someone.....i'm still learning nah....
The difference is that making love to someone you love is just like having sex, u just love the person or somthg abt the person but not deeply in love...being in love with some1 involves both parties,goes beyond the physical,involves everything about you
thanks Sis....i was just irritating Princemech actually...lol....but thanks for the reply though....
Aww didnt knw that ..... you are welcome dear
Posted: at 24-02-2010 01:06 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
vivian07 at 24-02-2010 01:14 PM (15 years ago) (f)
hmmm...dis question shouldnt be asked at this jet age...mcewww...if it was asked around that early 90,s u will have gotten a good answer....how many girls make love to guys cos they love em ? or how guyz make love to girs cos the love em.......i beg eee...
Posted: at 24-02-2010 01:14 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
onchedu
..... you are welcome dear 
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