does it really matter!

hi pals.there is a mixed feelin as regards first date.some believe they shuld spend enough money in taking a ladie out,while some believe it shuld just be simple.i withnessed a scene where one of my pals took a chick out with a car which was not his own.his reasons was to give her that special treat,while some other guys n even some ladies object to that action,cos they believe its a kind of impersonation.some even feel she might just like him for his money !what do u feel about this:

so will he be borrowing these things each time he goes out with her?..........i mean if things work out between the two of them, she might end up being his girlfriend and what happens then?....ya'll don't have to pretend in order to treat a gurl good..u can actually be yourselves on a date, and if a gurl is really feeling YOU........none of that extra stuffs matters.

@phil i always envy u. e be like say i go snatch u from him someday.