What is u'r View on Living Together Lovers / Partner?

Date: 04-03-2010 11:47 am (14 years ago) | Author: John F Kennedy
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- at 4-03-2010 11:47 AM (14 years ago)
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I know our society frowns at lovers living together preceding the marriage either in the name of dating or courtship, unlike, is the western society. I also know it has advantages and disadvantages that could help lovers find out the likes and dislikes of their lover. Now my question is, does it worth it in living together since living separate will not stop then from knowing each other better?


Posted: at 4-03-2010 11:47 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- humblej at 4-03-2010 11:51 AM (14 years ago)
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I believe in living separate and communicate often so as to continue building the intimacy and not to allow it becomes weak before the due date...

Posted: at 4-03-2010 11:51 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- myragonza at 4-03-2010 03:03 PM (14 years ago)
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either way is fine....but living separate is better so as to avoid frequent arguments...lol

Posted: at 4-03-2010 03:03 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- waco at 4-03-2010 03:05 PM (14 years ago)
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No long thing there.

I've done it before and its very intereting.

cos u do anytime you want.........in da bathroom, room, corridor, chair, any where. just mention it

Posted: at 4-03-2010 03:05 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- esonu at 4-03-2010 03:59 PM (14 years ago)
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waco i dey for ur back wetin u talk na true yarn

Posted: at 4-03-2010 03:59 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 4-03-2010 04:00 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: humblej on  4-03-2010 11:51 AM
I believe in living separate and communicate often so as to continue building the intimacy and not to allow it becomes weak before the due date...
me too

Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:00 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- SWETI at 4-03-2010 04:12 PM (14 years ago)
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living 2geter could cause problems,so ma dear thick of d postive part and d negetive part too.
Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:12 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Dguy at 4-03-2010 04:15 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: myragonza on  4-03-2010 03:03 PM
either way is fine....but living separate is better so as to avoid frequent arguments...lol

whats the point of spending the rest of your life arguing....

Partners should share so much in common that there wouldn't be need for frequent argument in any case

Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:15 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ebony_cutie at 4-03-2010 04:17 PM (14 years ago)
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ok...taking notes
Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:17 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 4-03-2010 04:19 PM (14 years ago)
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no matter wot...there will still be argument btw partners....
bt of course, healthy arguments brings more understand btw d two...
Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:19 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 4-03-2010 04:21 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on  4-03-2010 04:19 PM
no matter wot...there will still be argument btw partners....
bt of course, healthy arguments brings more understand btw d two...

no sharking..i support ur  statement....so when we go dey live together na?

Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:21 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Dguy at 4-03-2010 04:25 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on  4-03-2010 04:19 PM
no matter wot...there will still be argument btw partners....
bt of course, healthy arguments brings more understand btw d two...


Theres nothing like an healthy arguement

Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:25 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ebony_cutie at 4-03-2010 04:27 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on  4-03-2010 04:25 PM
Quote from: mazi on  4-03-2010 04:19 PM
no matter wot...there will still be argument btw partners....
bt of course, healthy arguments brings more understand btw d two...


Theres nothing like an healthy arguement

Ofcos there is...2 ppl living together with diff backgrounds are bound to argue on thgs
by healthy...means in a matured way, constructive arguments
Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:27 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Dguy at 4-03-2010 04:30 PM (14 years ago)
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There is the possibility of communication without an argument and ofcourse with learning involved.

Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:30 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Tszy at 4-03-2010 04:31 PM (14 years ago)
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Seen it,done it,enjoyed it but nothing to gain from it. So if you wanna marry her marry her and if dont want to then phyuk her and let her go.Dosnt pay in raisin the poor girl's hopes.

Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:31 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 4-03-2010 04:32 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on  4-03-2010 04:25 PM
Quote from: mazi on  4-03-2010 04:19 PM
no matter wot...there will still be argument btw partners....
bt of course, healthy arguments brings more understand btw d two...


Theres nothing like an healthy arguement

hmmmmmm.....disagree to agree...?mayb dis one can substitute...lol
Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:32 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- ebony_cutie at 4-03-2010 04:33 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on  4-03-2010 04:30 PM
There is the possibility of communication without an argument and ofcourse with learning involved.

In that process argument is bound to occur....both parties communicating theirs views
Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:33 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- waco at 4-03-2010 04:35 PM (14 years ago)
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Who wanna live with me?

Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:35 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- mazi at 4-03-2010 04:36 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on  4-03-2010 04:30 PM
There is the possibility of communication without an argument and ofcourse with learning involved.
wot kind of argument?
Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:36 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- ebony_cutie at 4-03-2010 04:40 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: waco on  4-03-2010 04:35 PM
Who wanna live with me?

lol with that ur hair style??
wey your iyawo? Roll Eyes
Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:40 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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