humblej at 4-03-2010 11:47 AM (14 years ago) (m)
I know our society frowns at lovers living together preceding the marriage either in the name of dating or courtship, unlike, is the western society. I also know it has advantages and disadvantages that could help lovers find out the likes and dislikes of their lover. Now my question is, does it worth it in living together since living separate will not stop then from knowing each other better?
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Posted: at 4-03-2010 11:47 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
humblej at 4-03-2010 11:51 AM (14 years ago) (m)
I believe in living separate and communicate often so as to continue building the intimacy and not to allow it becomes weak before the due date...
Loving, humble and humorous to sane & reasonable people
Posted: at 4-03-2010 11:51 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply myragonza at 4-03-2010 03:03 PM (14 years ago) (f)
either way is fine....but living separate is better so as to avoid frequent arguments...lol
Posted: at 4-03-2010 03:03 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Reply waco at 4-03-2010 03:05 PM (14 years ago) (m)
No long thing there.
I've done it before and its very intereting.
cos u do anytime you want.........in da bathroom, room, corridor, chair, any where. just mention it
no matter how incorrect ur time is, it will be correct twice a day.
Posted: at 4-03-2010 03:05 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Reply esonu at 4-03-2010 03:59 PM (14 years ago) (m)
waco i dey for ur back wetin u talk na true yarn
CHILDREN ARE BORN BUT MEN ARE MADE;THE GOLD THAT WILL BE REFINED MUST PASS THROUGH THE FURNACE.WORDS
Posted: at 4-03-2010 03:59 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Reply HOPEA23 at 4-03-2010 04:00 PM (14 years ago) (f)
I believe in living separate and communicate often so as to continue building the intimacy and not to allow it becomes weak before the due date...
me too
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:00 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Reply SWETI at 4-03-2010 04:12 PM (14 years ago) (f)
living 2geter could cause problems,so ma dear thick of d postive part and d negetive part too.
Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:12 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
Reply Dguy at 4-03-2010 04:15 PM (14 years ago) (m)
either way is fine....but living separate is better so as to avoid frequent arguments...lol
whats the point of spending the rest of your life arguing....
Partners should share so much in common that there wouldn't be need for frequent argument in any case
please do not distract and keep discussions along line of topic - make proper use of capit
Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:15 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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ok...taking notes
Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:17 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply mazi at 4-03-2010 04:19 PM (14 years ago) (m)
no matter wot...there will still be argument btw partners.... bt of course, healthy arguments brings more understand btw d two... Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:19 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Reply HOPEA23 at 4-03-2010 04:21 PM (14 years ago) (f)
no matter wot...there will still be argument btw partners.... bt of course, healthy arguments brings more understand btw d two...
no sharking..i support ur statement....so when we go dey live together na?
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:21 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Reply Dguy at 4-03-2010 04:25 PM (14 years ago) (m)
no matter wot...there will still be argument btw partners.... bt of course, healthy arguments brings more understand btw d two...
Theres nothing like an healthy arguement
please do not distract and keep discussions along line of topic - make proper use of capit
Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:25 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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no matter wot...there will still be argument btw partners.... bt of course, healthy arguments brings more understand btw d two...
Theres nothing like an healthy arguement
Ofcos there is...2 ppl living together with diff backgrounds are bound to argue on thgs
by healthy...means in a matured way, constructive arguments
Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:27 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply Dguy at 4-03-2010 04:30 PM (14 years ago) (m)
There is the possibility of communication without an argument and ofcourse with learning involved.
please do not distract and keep discussions along line of topic - make proper use of capit
Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:30 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply Tszy at 4-03-2010 04:31 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Seen it,done it,enjoyed it but nothing to gain from it. So if you wanna marry her marry her and if dont want to then phyuk her and let her go.Dosnt pay in raisin the poor girl's hopes.
ThE oNlY tHiNg YoU aNd I sHaRe In CoMmOn Is YoUr StIlL bReAtHiNg
Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:31 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply mazi at 4-03-2010 04:32 PM (14 years ago) (m)
no matter wot...there will still be argument btw partners.... bt of course, healthy arguments brings more understand btw d two...
Theres nothing like an healthy arguement
hmmmmmm.....disagree to agree...?mayb dis one can substitute...lol Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:32 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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There is the possibility of communication without an argument and ofcourse with learning involved.
In that process argument is bound to occur....both parties communicating theirs views
Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:33 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply waco at 4-03-2010 04:35 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Who wanna live with me?
no matter how incorrect ur time is, it will be correct twice a day.
Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:35 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Reply mazi at 4-03-2010 04:36 PM (14 years ago) (m)
There is the possibility of communication without an argument and ofcourse with learning involved.
wot kind of argument? Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:36 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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Who wanna live with me?
lol with that ur hair style??
wey your iyawo?
Posted: at 4-03-2010 04:40 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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