Candid Talk (Page 3)

Date: 25-04-2010 5:23 pm (15 years ago) | Author: Mr E.
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- ebony_cutie at 29-04-2010 01:40 PM (15 years ago)
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ok advice your friend, if e happen to him
Posted: at 29-04-2010 01:40 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Bazemaster at 29-04-2010 01:42 PM (15 years ago)
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Such temptations does not come upon God's children............believe me............

Posted: at 29-04-2010 01:42 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ebony_cutie at 29-04-2010 02:13 PM (15 years ago)
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i blv you
Posted: at 29-04-2010 02:13 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Bazemaster at 29-04-2010 02:17 PM (15 years ago)
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Okay, thanx

Posted: at 29-04-2010 02:17 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- eve991 at 29-04-2010 02:18 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: esonu on 26-04-2010 08:14 AM
i will investigate and know if she was the cause of the rape before knowing what to do cos some gurls will walk down to a guys house herself and after everything she will call it a rape..
lol,so gals cant go visit boys again (jst frnds) abi?

Posted: at 29-04-2010 02:18 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- solkings at 1-05-2010 10:57 AM (15 years ago)
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marriage should be postponed till she fully recovers
Posted: at 1-05-2010 10:57 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- OB3ICE at 1-05-2010 11:12 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: ebony_cutie on 29-04-2010 11:59 AM
Quote from: OB3ICE on 28-04-2010 07:20 AM
It doesnt matter. Its better than goin into the wedding with anger, guilt and depression.
so wot will cancelling the wedding do for you? will it wipe away the rape?
Of course it wont, but the fact is that rape is always followed by some sort of psychological trauma. The lady might have this guilt or uncertainty within her 'does he still love me, does he blame me?' and several depressing questions like that. The guy on the other hand might also have his own worries 'did she cause it, did she enjoy it, was it my fault?' etc. Some people might not be able to cope with such stress, and they might end up having an unhappy marriage cos things might never be the same cos anytime the guy is angry, she might start thinking its cos of the incidence. Let them postpone the wedding, go for psych evaluation and counselling, redicover each other before they take that bold step into marriage.

Posted: at 1-05-2010 11:12 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ebony_cutie at 1-05-2010 11:16 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: OB3ICE on  1-05-2010 11:12 AM
Quote from: ebony_cutie on 29-04-2010 11:59 AM
Quote from: OB3ICE on 28-04-2010 07:20 AM
It doesnt matter. Its better than goin into the wedding with anger, guilt and depression.
so wot will cancelling the wedding do for you? will it wipe away the rape?
Of course it wont, but the fact is that rape is always followed by some sort of psychological trauma. The lady might have this guilt or uncertainty within her 'does he still love me, does he blame me?' and several depressing questions like that. The guy on the other hand might also have his own worries 'did she cause it, did she enjoy it, was it my fault?' etc. Some people might not be able to cope with such stress, and they might end up having an unhappy marriage cos things might never be the same cos anytime the guy is angry, she might start thinking its cos of the incidence. Let them postpone the wedding, go for psych evaluation and counselling, redicover each other before they take that bold step into marriage.

Alright, fair enough, i totally accept your views on that aspect
how are you ths saturday morning?
Posted: at 1-05-2010 11:16 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- OB3ICE at 1-05-2010 11:19 AM (15 years ago)
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I'm good. About to attend a friend's wedding. I hate weddings

Posted: at 1-05-2010 11:19 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ebony_cutie at 1-05-2010 11:21 AM (15 years ago)
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hmm, why you hate weddings? im i invited, i like weddings
Posted: at 1-05-2010 11:21 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- OB3ICE at 1-05-2010 11:23 AM (15 years ago)
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I just dont like ceremonies. If you were here, you'd definitely have been invited.

Posted: at 1-05-2010 11:23 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ebony_cutie at 1-05-2010 11:26 AM (15 years ago)
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lol...i might be 2 streets away from you, you never can tell
Posted: at 1-05-2010 11:26 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- OB3ICE at 1-05-2010 11:28 AM (15 years ago)
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Then you're invited but I'm afraid I'll make a very boring and terrible companion

Posted: at 1-05-2010 11:28 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ebony_cutie at 1-05-2010 11:32 AM (15 years ago)
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eehhh so you are a boring person? havent noticed
Posted: at 1-05-2010 11:32 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- OB3ICE at 1-05-2010 11:36 AM (15 years ago)
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Very boring, especially in the presence of a very beautiful lady

Posted: at 1-05-2010 11:36 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ebony_cutie at 1-05-2010 11:38 AM (15 years ago)
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hahahahaha, no tell me say u too follow oo, i no see u as such
Posted: at 1-05-2010 11:38 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- OB3ICE at 1-05-2010 11:46 AM (15 years ago)
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as wetin?

Posted: at 1-05-2010 11:46 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ebony_cutie at 1-05-2010 11:49 AM (15 years ago)
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as one who becomes shy or boring to talk to a pretty lady
Posted: at 1-05-2010 11:49 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- OB3ICE at 1-05-2010 11:56 AM (15 years ago)
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I'm actually a shy person, but only my close friends know that. I can talk more than you can listen. Boring? Hell no. I dont have a dull moment except at ceremonies where I wont know how to behave, and I just have to watch everything I do or say.

Posted: at 1-05-2010 11:56 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ebony_cutie at 1-05-2010 12:00 PM (15 years ago)
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ok, not bad.....im a shy person too  Grin
Posted: at 1-05-2010 12:00 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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