If one is going through separation period but finds him/herself in love with someone or perhaps has a fling with someone, would that be considered as cheating, adultery or normal? I happened to advise a friend, but ended up not knowing where to classify her attitude to, what do u think?
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Posted: at 7-05-2010 06:02 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
What is separation? Ur married Ur married whether in separation or together. U have a fling in marriage under any circumstances it amounts to cheating.
Posted: at 7-05-2010 06:24 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Yeah partly, but it's knowing fact that couples go into separation before the finally getting divorced. If the marriage is no long legal what is the need for continuing being in that marriage union?
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Posted: at 7-05-2010 06:36 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Miss_precious at 7-05-2010 07:49 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: humblej on 7-05-2010 06:02 PM
If one is going through separation period but finds him/herself in love with someone or perhaps has a fling with someone, would that be considered as cheating, adultery or normal? I happened to advise a friend, but ended up not knowing where to classify her attitude to, what do u think?
what do you want to tell me sweedy? :'( :'( :'( :'(
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Posted: at 7-05-2010 07:49 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
If one is going through separation period but finds him/herself in love with someone or perhaps has a fling with someone, would that be considered as cheating, adultery or normal? I happened to advise a friend, but ended up not knowing where to classify her attitude to, what do u think?
My question is Did he/she slept '' make love'' already with that person he/she got fling with? if yes... The simple truth is this,....... is CHEATING.. becos he/she is still under Marriage law, There is no proper divorce or cancellation of marriage.
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Posted: at 7-05-2010 07:57 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
If one is going through separation period but finds him/herself in love with someone or perhaps has a fling with someone, would that be considered as cheating, adultery or normal? I happened to advise a friend, but ended up not knowing where to classify her attitude to, what do u think?
Nope! its not cheating. You separated to know where you stand in your relationship/marriage ;and if you find yourself doing anything with someone else during that separation then there is no need getting back together. You just need to go ahead and make it official and get a divorce if married. But if for whatever reason you end up making up again, then the fling should not be a problem -just make it a past issue and start rebuilding again.
Posted: at 8-05-2010 01:27 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Bazemaster at 8-05-2010 01:48 AM (15 years ago) (m)
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Posted: at 8-05-2010 01:48 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
If one is going through separation period but finds him/herself in love with someone or perhaps has a fling with someone, would that be considered as cheating, adultery or normal? I happened to advise a friend, but ended up not knowing where to classify her attitude to, what do u think?
My question is Did he/she slept '' make love'' already with that person he/she got fling with? if yes... The simple truth is this,....... is CHEATING.. becos he/she is still under Marriage law, There is no proper divorce or cancellation of marriage.
Of course the fling ended up in love making, besides they are into separation period waiting for the final divore pronouncement and have decided not to come back or live together as couple.
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Posted: at 8-05-2010 02:16 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
If one is going through separation period but finds him/herself in love with someone or perhaps has a fling with someone, would that be considered as cheating, adultery or normal? I happened to advise a friend, but ended up not knowing where to classify her attitude to, what do u think?
Nope! its not cheating. You separated to know where you stand in your relationship/marriage ;and if you find yourself doing anything with someone else during that separation then there is no need getting back together. You just need to go ahead and make it official and get a divorce if married. But if for whatever reason you end up making up again, then the fling should not be a problem -just make it a past issue and start rebuilding again.
Hello sis, I bought u'r opinion but still not clear with its justification!
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Posted: at 8-05-2010 02:20 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
If one is going through separation period but finds him/herself in love with someone or perhaps has a fling with someone, would that be considered as cheating, adultery or normal? I happened to advise a friend, but ended up not knowing where to classify her attitude to, what do u think?
what do you want to tell me sweedy? :'( :'( :'( :'(
My dear, there should be no panic, it's just advice i tried giving to someone, don't u trust me again?
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Posted: at 8-05-2010 02:23 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Miss_precious at 8-05-2010 06:45 AM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: humblej on 8-05-2010 02:23 AM
Quote from: Miss_precious on 7-05-2010 07:49 PM
Quote from: humblej on 7-05-2010 06:02 PM
If one is going through separation period but finds him/herself in love with someone or perhaps has a fling with someone, would that be considered as cheating, adultery or normal? I happened to advise a friend, but ended up not knowing where to classify her attitude to, what do u think?
what do you want to tell me sweedy? :'( :'( :'( :'(
My dear, there should be no panic, it's just advice i tried giving to someone, don't u trust me again?
okay then...kein problem
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Posted: at 8-05-2010 06:45 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
myragonza at 8-05-2010 11:27 AM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: humblej on 7-05-2010 06:02 PM
If one is going through separation period but finds him/herself in love with someone or perhaps has a fling with someone, would that be considered as cheating, adultery or normal? I happened to advise a friend, but ended up not knowing where to classify her attitude to, what do u think?
i think as long as u are not legally divorced,its considered cheating.....well,my point of view
ebony_cutie at 8-05-2010 02:04 PM (15 years ago) (f)
if both parties have separated emotionally & in the process of getting a divorce,i dnt think its cheating cos they both hv reached an understanding that its over
Posted: at 8-05-2010 02:04 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
if both parties have separated emotionally & in the process of getting a divorce,i dnt think its cheating cos they both hv reached an understanding that its over
Sure, I also stand on this view, if u'r conscience and emotions do not regard the marriage any longer then one has to do as it please him/herself.
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Posted: at 8-05-2010 05:06 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
If one is going through separation period but finds him/herself in love with someone or perhaps has a fling with someone, would that be considered as cheating, adultery or normal? I happened to advise a friend, but ended up not knowing where to classify her attitude to, what do u think?
what do you want to tell me sweedy? :'( :'( :'( :'(
My dear, there should be no panic, it's just advice i tried giving to someone, don't u trust me again?
okay then...kein problem
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Posted: at 8-05-2010 05:11 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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