Depends on whether U are talking bout casual dating (where U can date just for the fun of it and see no possiblity of marrying the person Ur with) or if it's focused dating (where marriage is a likelihood and the thot of the possibility of starting a new life with the person has some appeal to U in the beginning).
Dating for me is hardly ever casual. I myt flirt and play around a lot but to say this is my girl and to be introduced a s her guy anywhere, that's totally differnt.
It requires a certain sense of togetherness and commitment from me and my partner. These things don't come easy and are not easily found in "every" relationship. What's worse, they are initially harder to maintain and nurture than they are to develop or decide on.
So dating as fun as it myt be and as rosy and dreamy as we can make it isn't so easy. It doesnt help that U have to be off the market and give up on a lot of friendships to be with the person and not be sure what the person is up to with U...
Anyway, it can be anything. Even easy.
Posted: at 9-05-2010 02:54 PM (15 years ago) | Hero |
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