NIGERIAN MEN ARE CHEATS?

Date: 10-05-2010 10:42 am (13 years ago) | Author: Paul Oke
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I joined the social networking section of Ghanaweb for the purpose of making friends and thereby promote my blog: http://paulbabatundeoke.blogspot.com. A few days after I got this message in my inbox on the site from a Ghanaian lady who viewed my profile on the site:
Subject: hello
From: beautyafrcana
Sent at: 2010-05-04 09:16

we can start a relationship. i am 30 years old. with all the qualities a man is looking for. my number is 00233XXXXXXXXX.
This was my reply:
Subject: Re: hello
Sent to: beautyafrcana
Sent at: 2010-05-04 11:27

Thanks for your interest in me. I hope to know more about you and see your pics.
Then she responded thus:

Subject: Re: hello
From: beautyafrcana
Sent at: 2010-05-05 15:39

thanks for your reply. i am new at this site. i don't know how to send pics here. please leave ur phone number offline.i will contact you so we arrange how to send the pic to your email. Thanks
At this juncture, I disclosed my e-mail ID in my reply and even sent my greetings to her daughter (she disclosed in her profile that she has a daughter):
Subject: Re: hello
Sent to: beautyafrcana
Sent at: 2010-05-06 06:08

In that case you can contact me via: [email protected]. Meanwhile my greetings to your daughter and sweet love to you. All the best.
She actually sent her recent pictures to my e-mail box and I began to fell attached to her 9you should understand now). So I sent her this mail:
Subject: Re: my newly snaped pics
To: "Beauty Addi" <[email protected]>
Date: Friday, May 7, 2010, 7:05 AM
Wow! what a beautiful woman. You are such a nice person to behold. I hope you will pardon me for putting you through all the troubles. I did that because I needed to be sure I am dealing with someone with genuine intentions. Now I am convinced you are real and I am looking forward to a fun-filled relationship with you.

Please note my phone number: 0000000000. I will give you a call later today for more gists.

Yours,

On receipt of my mail, she called me on the phone number given in my mail and asked me some questions including my nationality. I told her I am a Nigerian and that she can verify that from my profile on the site where she first got to know me. She terminated the call and later called me to check my yahoo inbox for a message. This was the message she sent to me:

From:
"Beauty Addi" <[email protected]>
To:
"paul oke" <[email protected]>
  thanks for the good comment. i am very sorry to tell you that my relatioship with you will not hold!!!!!!. i have dated a nigeiran guy before on the internet. i even sent him 100.00{1000000) to come to ghana. truley he came to stay with me here in ghana. but i tell you, i suffered hell from that guys hands, he is an angry type. he kept on beating and hitting me with objects. i nearly died. due to this my family have warned me never in my life to bring any nigerian man into their family. please whether you are a god person or not, i dont care, i am not ready for any nigerian friendship again. Sory

Then I responded as follows:

From:
"paul oke" <[email protected]>
To:
"Beauty Addi" <[email protected]>
You have every right to take the decision you have taken after all it is a common knowledge that once beaten, you tend to be twice shy. However it is not very appropriate to generalize. You will recollect that I was initially hesitant to contact you because I know that there are lots of bad people on the net and I don’t want to fall victim of any scam (Pls.  read my article on social vices and who are you?......HERE).

 I am a Nigerian, there is no point denying this fact but I am not fraudulent and that is why I disclose my real names on any site I am a member. The primary reason why I signed on for social networking sites is to promote my blog(http://paulbabatundeoke.blogspot.com) which I referred you to above.

I am not saying this to win your love at all cost but to tell you that as bad as Nigerians are perceived to be, there are still some good ones among them. I am proud to say that I am one of the few good citizens of that great country.


I have been in Ghana since February 5th this year and I have neither got myself involved in any shady deal nor in any relationship with anybody.

The decision is yours but anyhow I will still like us to be friends in view of the virtue of uprightness that we shared.

I will stop my campaign here till I read from you again.

She replied again thus:

From:
"Beauty Addi" <[email protected]>
To:
"paul oke" <[email protected]>
 thanks for your letter. please i dont need any relationship from you anymore. keep on searching for other single ladies here on the net. thanks . may God be with u

Finally I sent this mail to her:
 From:
"paul oke" <[email protected]>
To:
"Beauty Addi" <[email protected]>
All the best. Meanwhile keep on reading my views HERE and spread the news to your friends.


I HAVE REPRODUCED ABOVE, THE CONTENTS OF OUR CORRESSPONDENCE SO THAT YOU CAN SEE THE EVILS THAT OUR FELLOW COUNTRY MEN ARE DOING TO DENT OUR COLLECTIVE IMAGE. PLEASE LET US PUT A STOP TO ALL THIS AND PROVE TO THE WORLD THAT WE ARE GOOD PEOPLE OF GREAT NATION.




Posted: at 10-05-2010 10:42 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
- onchedu at 10-05-2010 10:47 AM (13 years ago)
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So because of a handful of examples U have branded Nigerian men Liars?
Posted: at 10-05-2010 10:47 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- docreala at 10-05-2010 10:51 AM (13 years ago)
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my guy 4get dat talk,no country for this world wey no get bad people,

am a proud naija boy & i still get friends from Ghana wey no dey label me black.
Posted: at 10-05-2010 10:51 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ebony_cutie at 10-05-2010 10:55 AM (13 years ago)
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which kind long post be this, this early morning
Posted: at 10-05-2010 10:55 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- docreala at 10-05-2010 11:00 AM (13 years ago)
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na breakfast on np
Posted: at 10-05-2010 11:00 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Thomax at 10-05-2010 11:29 AM (13 years ago)
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i have to put my hands up here & admit tht most naija guys ar terrible. whether in UK, U.S etc. we ar just the same old black heart, black act kind of people & am fed up trying to preach changes to my fellow brothers. maybe its the way we are or maybe its our upbringing i really dnt knw & i dnt care.

but with all truths & honestly, even in hell, there will still be people with good hearts burning so i dnt give 2 phyuks abt what anyone say abt Nigerians & will never beg to be allowed 2 fill among great nations cos i will alws be proud of my country. NO COUNTRY, RACE or NATIONALITY IS 100% PERFECT! so phyuk the phyukers tht has a problem or two with us! Angry
Posted: at 10-05-2010 11:29 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- esonu at 10-05-2010 11:34 AM (13 years ago)
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no long post

Posted: at 10-05-2010 11:34 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- docreala at 10-05-2010 11:35 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Thomax on 10-05-2010 11:29 AM
i have to put my hands up here & admit tht most naija guys ar terrible. whether in UK, U.S etc. we ar just the same old black heart, black act kind of people & am fed up trying to preach changes to my fellow brothers. maybe its the way we are or maybe its our upbringing i really dnt knw & i dnt care.

but with all truths & honestly, even in hell, there will still be people with good hearts burning so i dnt give 2 phyuks abt what anyone say abt Nigerians & will never beg to be allowed 2 fill among great nations cos i will alws be proud of my country. NO COUNTRY, RACE or NATIONALITY IS 100% PERFECT! so phyuk the phyukers tht has a problem or two with us! Angry
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nk
i wanted to ask if u are a naija,but thank God u hit the home run.
Posted: at 10-05-2010 11:35 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Tuks at 10-05-2010 11:38 AM (13 years ago)
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I wonder y peepz still generalize,there by paintin d 'few' gud ones BAD...
Posted: at 10-05-2010 11:38 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ebony_cutie at 10-05-2010 11:43 AM (13 years ago)
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you follow for the few good onez? Tuks
Posted: at 10-05-2010 11:43 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- docreala at 10-05-2010 11:44 AM (13 years ago)
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the gud no few oooo na the bad few.
Posted: at 10-05-2010 11:44 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Bazemaster at 10-05-2010 11:47 AM (13 years ago)
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Whether i be BAD or GOOD boy, WETIN CONCERN UNA? .......Peace out
 SENSELESS TOPIC.......

Posted: at 10-05-2010 11:47 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Tuks at 10-05-2010 11:50 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ebony_cutie on 10-05-2010 11:43 AM
you follow for the few good onez? Tuks

Nope....But i no join d bad ones either...
Posted: at 10-05-2010 11:50 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ebony_cutie at 10-05-2010 11:57 AM (13 years ago)
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oki
Posted: at 10-05-2010 11:57 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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