My Boyfriend Must Get My Permission Before We Have Sex – Ex BBNaija Housemate, Vandora

Published 2 months ago by: Mister Jay Wonder
at 07:37 AM, 9/06/2019 (2 months ago)

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Former Big Brother Nigeria contestant, Vanessa Williams, aka Vandora, has said that it is only proper for her boyfriend to seek her approval before they have sex, regardless of the fact that they are in a relationship or have been intimate before.

Recall that while in BBN, Vandora had stated that her ex-boyfriend r-ped her repeatedly by having s-x with her while she was asleep and without her consent.

In a chat with Sunday Scoop, she stated, “When I made that comment about my ex in the house, r-pe had just been ‘redefined’ and based on what we were told, I believed that what my former partner did could be termed as r-pe. It was actually a long time ago that I dated the person in question and the relationship had ended as of the time I made that comment. As a matter of fact, I’ve been in my present relationship for over five years. However, at that time, I didn’t really know the gravity of what I said.

“But it doesn’t matter that we were in a relationship; what the guy did was actually rape. If anybody is taking you against your will, it is r-pe, whether you’re in a relationship or not. My partner has to seek permission before we get intimate because I may not want to at that time. It doesn’t count even if we had been intimate before then. R-pe is actually a big deal, and so far s-x is not consensual, it is wrong.”

Though she stated that the incident happened a very long time ago, but for the fact that she didn’t consent to the act, then it should be termed as rape.

The former Big Brother Naija contestant recently celebrated her birthday and her boyfriend showered her with so much love while writing a beautiful note to her via his social media profile.

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Doyourworst at 08:50 AM, 9/06/2019 (2 months ago)
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Ok, we don hear.
Kormeijama at 10:44 AM, 9/06/2019 (2 months ago)
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Hope you too needs his permission anytime you get honey and lurch for a swagger.
Brave5500 at 12:17 PM, 9/06/2019 (2 months ago)
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Rubbish... Go an ask ur mother how its done this is y u ladies keep struggling to keep a man cos western world teaches u opposite of everything
Baye77 at 12:21 PM, 9/06/2019 (2 months ago)
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So every baseless talk anybody pours out is now news???


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