How long should I wait ?

Date: 15-06-2010 6:20 am (13 years ago) | Author: Allison A.
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- at 15-06-2010 06:20 AM (13 years ago)
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 ???Hello. I need help with answers. I met a African man. He told me about his situation shortly after we met. I liked him and agreed to wait. He promised me the world one he was cleared. After wailting almost a year for my boyfriend to get his paperwork together, he is still making excuses. I waited 7 1/2 months for him to get Id. Them 3 more for his divorce. He just got that last week. Now he says he needs time to sort out his feelings. He does not come to visit me. If I dont go to his job where he works at night I dont see him. He Is still acting strange. When I try to talk to him about it he says that he loves me and not else but the waiting and not knowing is killing me. I dont know what to thinkI feel hurt and used because i refraned from dating other people even when lots of eligable men was all around. Now I feel to lost and torn apart to look elswhere. What should I do ?

Posted: at 15-06-2010 06:20 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
- bittersweet at 15-06-2010 07:11 AM (13 years ago)
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If you read your post, you'll find your answer in it!

Posted: at 15-06-2010 07:11 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Miss_precious at 15-06-2010 07:54 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 15-06-2010 07:11 AM
If you read your post, you'll find your answer in it!


 Smiley Smiley

Posted: at 15-06-2010 07:54 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- teeco at 15-06-2010 09:52 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 15-06-2010 07:11 AM
If you read your post, you'll find your answer in it!


 Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 15-06-2010 09:52 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- esonu at 15-06-2010 10:57 AM (13 years ago)
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i no read am

Posted: at 15-06-2010 10:57 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- AKIOLUFUNMILAYO at 15-06-2010 12:34 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 15-06-2010 07:11 AM
If you read your post, you'll find your answer in it!

true talk
Posted: at 15-06-2010 12:34 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Dguy at 15-06-2010 12:45 PM (13 years ago)
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You need to wait

7 X 7 X 7 X 7 Days

Posted: at 15-06-2010 12:45 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 15-06-2010 12:53 PM (13 years ago)
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He has taken a long stride poster - divorcing his wife.......it is not easy to do that........Give him time to sort himself out like he said..........It is normal for people to want to keep to themselves when they make such decision, they dont need other people's interference..........so just wait!

Posted: at 15-06-2010 12:53 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 15-06-2010 06:43 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Trini-Allison on 15-06-2010 06:20 AM
???Hello. I need help with answers. I met a African man. He told me about his situation shortly after we met. I liked him and agreed to wait. He promised me the world one he was cleared. After wailting almost a year for my boyfriend to get his paperwork together, he is still making excuses. I waited 7 1/2 months for him to get Id. Them 3 more for his divorce. He just got that last week. Now he says he needs time to sort out his feelings. He does not come to visit me. If I dont go to his job where he works at night I dont see him. He Is still acting strange. When I try to talk to him about it he says that he loves me and not else but the waiting and not knowing is killing me. I dont know what to thinkI feel hurt and used because i refraned from dating other people even when lots of eligable men was all around. Now I feel to lost and torn apart to look elswhere. What should I do ?

It's not too Late to Walk away

Posted: at 15-06-2010 06:43 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- aliaaz at 15-06-2010 07:21 PM (13 years ago)
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@times i go jst dey @ of wrds and i nor dey knw why...Hmm na wah oh.

Posted: at 15-06-2010 07:21 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- terdue at 15-06-2010 08:03 PM (13 years ago)
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u be ashawo to allow the man divorce his wife just to stick with u
Posted: at 15-06-2010 08:03 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- queenjacky at 15-06-2010 08:11 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: terdue on 15-06-2010 08:03 PM
u be ashawo to allow the man divorce his wife just to stick with u

which kind life  how can u just insult somebody u dont have respect at all call a woman ashawo  that is really bad   
Posted: at 15-06-2010 08:11 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sabiti at 15-06-2010 08:26 PM (13 years ago)
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giv am yelo card,den if im no change...flash am red
Posted: at 15-06-2010 08:26 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- queenjacky at 15-06-2010 08:30 PM (13 years ago)
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Smiley
Posted: at 15-06-2010 08:30 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- akjasper at 16-06-2010 03:22 AM (13 years ago)
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passing again !
Posted: at 16-06-2010 03:22 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- shaoyang at 16-06-2010 04:40 AM (13 years ago)
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KEEP SHOWING HIM HOW U TRUST, LUV & FEEL 4 HIM DON'T GIVE UP
BUT ACTUALLY ITS COMPLICATED, BUT DO U WORRY HIM MUCH ABT MARRIAGE?
Posted: at 16-06-2010 04:40 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- igboprincess at 17-06-2010 06:12 AM (13 years ago)
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"Never make someone else a PRIORITY when all you are to them is an OPTION!"
Posted: at 17-06-2010 06:12 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- xter at 17-06-2010 07:39 AM (13 years ago)
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Give him time and if u cant come to me

Posted: at 17-06-2010 07:39 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Solidstonez at 27-11-2012 04:50 AM (11 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes

Posted: at 27-11-2012 04:50 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Solidstonez at 27-11-2012 04:50 AM (11 years ago)
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 Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh?

Posted: at 27-11-2012 04:50 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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