???Hello. I need help with answers. I met a African man. He told me about his situation shortly after we met. I liked him and agreed to wait. He promised me the world one he was cleared. After wailting almost a year for my boyfriend to get his paperwork together, he is still making excuses. I waited 7 1/2 months for him to get Id. Them 3 more for his divorce. He just got that last week. Now he says he needs time to sort out his feelings. He does not come to visit me. If I dont go to his job where he works at night I dont see him. He Is still acting strange. When I try to talk to him about it he says that he loves me and not else but the waiting and not knowing is killing me. I dont know what to thinkI feel hurt and used because i refraned from dating other people even when lots of eligable men was all around. Now I feel to lost and torn apart to look elswhere. What should I do ?
Posted: at 15-06-2010 06:20 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
bittersweet at 15-06-2010 07:11 AM (13 years ago) (f)
If you read your post, you'll find your answer in it!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 15-06-2010 07:11 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
divineproject at 15-06-2010 12:53 PM (13 years ago) (f)
He has taken a long stride poster - divorcing his wife.......it is not easy to do that........Give him time to sort himself out like he said..........It is normal for people to want to keep to themselves when they make such decision, they dont need other people's interference..........so just wait!
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 15-06-2010 12:53 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
???Hello. I need help with answers. I met a African man. He told me about his situation shortly after we met. I liked him and agreed to wait. He promised me the world one he was cleared. After wailting almost a year for my boyfriend to get his paperwork together, he is still making excuses. I waited 7 1/2 months for him to get Id. Them 3 more for his divorce. He just got that last week. Now he says he needs time to sort out his feelings. He does not come to visit me. If I dont go to his job where he works at night I dont see him. He Is still acting strange. When I try to talk to him about it he says that he loves me and not else but the waiting and not knowing is killing me. I dont know what to thinkI feel hurt and used because i refraned from dating other people even when lots of eligable men was all around. Now I feel to lost and torn apart to look elswhere. What should I do ?
It's not too Late to Walk away
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 15-06-2010 06:43 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero