Quitting your job cos your man asked you to (Page 5)

Date: 24-07-2010 1:00 am (14 years ago) | Author: Blah Blah Blah!
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- wunzie at 25-07-2010 05:02 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: meeki on 25-07-2010 04:54 PM
Quote from: wunzie on 25-07-2010 04:47 PM
Quote from: meeki on 25-07-2010 04:39 PM
after ur husband marry u finish,den,decide say u must stop work.....and u are trying to do strong head
..abeg no be war be that?


Listen to yourself.....when your husband don marry you finish then he decide say you must stop work bla bla bla! what are you talking about?

abeg no vex oo..u don marry? if no..just dey pray to God make hin give you sweet man wey no send abt stoping ur work...if not,na only cry u go cry oo,u no go kill ur husband oo,na una poeple go come from villa come settle una ooo




Na only cry i go cry?Huh? God forbid!!......The people whey say take your time before saying "I DO" know wetin dem dey talk!

Posted: at 25-07-2010 05:02 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 25-07-2010 05:07 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 25-07-2010 04:47 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 25-07-2010 04:46 PM
BS isnt devorce 2 much ?

If he's not reasonable, No!

hmmm a shame how people take divorce in their mouth so fast these days...
Posted: at 25-07-2010 05:07 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 25-07-2010 05:13 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 25-07-2010 05:07 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 25-07-2010 04:47 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 25-07-2010 04:46 PM
BS isnt devorce 2 much ?

If he's not reasonable, No!

hmmm a shame how people take divorce in their mouth so fast these days...



Come on!
Not easily at all!
But if u try and try,and the things don't change in good,why on earth u would remain trapped in misery and unhappiness?

Posted: at 25-07-2010 05:13 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 25-07-2010 05:15 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 25-07-2010 05:13 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 25-07-2010 05:07 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 25-07-2010 04:47 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 25-07-2010 04:46 PM
BS isnt devorce 2 much ?

If he's not reasonable, No!

hmmm a shame how people take divorce in their mouth so fast these days...



Come on!
Not easily at all!
But if u try and try,and the things don't change in good,why on earth u would remain trapped in misery and unhappiness?
yea only when u dont want it all, people hav to compromise...


Posted: at 25-07-2010 05:15 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 25-07-2010 05:18 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 25-07-2010 05:15 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 25-07-2010 05:13 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 25-07-2010 05:07 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 25-07-2010 04:47 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 25-07-2010 04:46 PM
BS isnt devorce 2 much ?

If he's not reasonable, No!

hmmm a shame how people take divorce in their mouth so fast these days...



Come on!
Not easily at all!
But if u try and try,and the things don't change in good,why on earth u would remain trapped in misery and unhappiness?
yea only when u dont want it all, people hav to compromise...




Compromising that much till the point you're annihilating yourself as a person?
You must be kidding me!

Posted: at 25-07-2010 05:18 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- meeki at 25-07-2010 05:23 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: wunzie [/quote


Listen to yourself.....when your husband don marry you finish then he decide say you must stop work bla bla bla! what are you talking about?

abeg no vex oo..u don marry? if no..just dey pray to God make hin give you sweet man wey no send abt stoping ur work...if not,na only cry u go cry oo,u no go kill ur husband oo,na una poeple go come from villa come settle una ooo
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@wunzie....abeg,many patners wey they do many bad things 2their fellow patner..abi,many things wey dey happen outside marriage now,u mean say them no say"i do"?...human beings can change..gurl,i just pray u get ur own rightful patner kowai !! AMEN OO



Na only cry i go cry?Huh? God forbid!!......The people whey say take your time before saying "I DO" know wetin dem dey talk!
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Posted: at 25-07-2010 05:23 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- xter at 25-07-2010 05:27 PM (14 years ago)
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Saji marata!

Posted: at 25-07-2010 05:27 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- meeki at 25-07-2010 05:32 PM (14 years ago)
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una sorry oo,na my netwk dey phyuk the post up !!
Posted: at 25-07-2010 05:32 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- xter at 25-07-2010 05:34 PM (14 years ago)
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Eji samar dajota

Posted: at 25-07-2010 05:34 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- meeki at 25-07-2010 05:37 PM (14 years ago)
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i no sabi
Posted: at 25-07-2010 05:37 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- FlyMamacita at 25-07-2010 05:45 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 25-07-2010 05:18 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 25-07-2010 05:15 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 25-07-2010 05:13 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 25-07-2010 05:07 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 25-07-2010 04:47 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 25-07-2010 04:46 PM
BS isnt devorce 2 much ?

If he's not reasonable, No!

hmmm a shame how people take divorce in their mouth so fast these days...



Come on!
Not easily at all!
But if u try and try,and the things don't change in good,why on earth u would remain trapped in misery and unhappiness?
yea only when u dont want it all, people hav to compromise...




Compromising that much till the point you're annihilating yourself as a person?
You must be kidding me!
am just sayin tht most people dont compromise
only demand

Posted: at 25-07-2010 05:45 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- xter at 25-07-2010 05:47 PM (14 years ago)
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N/A

Posted: at 25-07-2010 05:47 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- wunzie at 25-07-2010 05:49 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: meeki on 25-07-2010 05:23 PM
Quote from: wunzie [/quote


Listen to yourself.....when your husband don marry you finish then he decide say you must stop work bla bla bla! what are you talking about?

abeg no vex oo..u don marry? if no..just dey pray to God make hin give you sweet man wey no send abt stoping ur work...if not,na only cry u go cry oo,u no go kill ur husband oo,na una poeple go come from villa come settle una ooo

@wunzie....abeg,many patners wey they do many bad things 2their fellow patner..abi,many things wey dey happen outside marriage now,u mean say them no say"i do"?...human beings can change..gurl,i just pray u get ur own rightful patner kowai !! AMEN OO



Na only cry i go cry?Huh? God forbid!!......The people whey say take your time before saying "I DO" know wetin dem dey talk!
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I say AMEN to that prayer!

Posted: at 25-07-2010 05:49 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- typicalman84 at 25-07-2010 05:50 PM (14 years ago)
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Hmmm... If he is not comfortable with his woman working in a bank, I think he should open some sort of business for her instead of making her a stay at home GF/Wife or whatever she is to him. And besides she must be a fool to quit her job when this r/ship isn't yet a Mr. and Mrs. r/ship.  Personally, I do not think there is anything wrong with asking your WIFE to quit her Job because of the fear of Male harrasment, But be ready to find her something meaningful to be doing OR like I said earlier, open up a business for her instead of paying her some monthly allowance. That's just waste of money.

Posted: at 25-07-2010 05:50 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ceejay58 at 25-07-2010 05:50 PM (14 years ago)
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i have no problem with women working.... but as for me, the nature of her job and her position in that company 'll definitely be the key.

well if i meet my would be wife a top bank manager or a bank director or perhaps a medical doctor, well then no problems.
but if it were to be in a position where she would be subjected to any of those rubbish position like working as a secretary to another man and working late or any other position in a bank, then that would definitely be the end of that job....

Posted: at 25-07-2010 05:50 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 25-07-2010 05:51 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 25-07-2010 05:45 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 25-07-2010 05:18 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 25-07-2010 05:15 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 25-07-2010 05:13 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 25-07-2010 05:07 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 25-07-2010 04:47 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 25-07-2010 04:46 PM
BS isnt devorce 2 much ?

If he's not reasonable, No!

hmmm a shame how people take divorce in their mouth so fast these days...



Come on!
Not easily at all!
But if u try and try,and the things don't change in good,why on earth u would remain trapped in misery and unhappiness?
yea only when u dont want it all, people hav to compromise...




Compromising that much till the point you're annihilating yourself as a person?
You must be kidding me!
am just sayin tht most people dont compromise
only demand



That's their problem!
When I face such a situation, you can bet I'm trying to see what can be done!
Again you got me wrong, huh? Smiley

Posted: at 25-07-2010 05:51 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- xter at 25-07-2010 05:54 PM (14 years ago)
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Ur tranga too much

Posted: at 25-07-2010 05:54 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- meeki at 25-07-2010 05:54 PM (14 years ago)
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lol
Posted: at 25-07-2010 05:54 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bittersweet at 25-07-2010 05:58 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: xter on 25-07-2010 05:54 PM
Ur tranga too much

I don't think I want to know what "tranga" means!

Posted: at 25-07-2010 05:58 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- ceejay58 at 25-07-2010 06:00 PM (14 years ago)
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moreover am not on of those who believe in marrying a full house wife... nope doesn't make any sense.....

if u re not comfortable with ur wife kind of job then arrange to setup something nice 4 her...   i really think that a boutique shop or a top super mart will do nicely...   that way she 'll have enough time 4 herself and the family which is very important.
Posted: at 25-07-2010 06:00 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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