Is it right to accept a guy for second chance (Page 2)

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Posted: at 6-08-2010 04:25 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

chineke

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Posted: at 6-08-2010 04:31 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

Brb.

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Posted: at 6-08-2010 06:05 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

follow ur heart my sister but be very careful cos it might be a revenge

Posted: at 6-08-2010 07:54 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

yeah its okay for guys who come back. as for me i never walk out of a relationship only the girls do that ! so i wait for them to come back . I strongly believe in the doctrine of forgiveness so i always wait not going for it myself.

Posted: at 7-08-2010 12:50 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

making statements like these will rather attract more of those things u re trying to avoid.


anyways, if u re the gurl in question i 'll advice u trade with care...   
ur guy might genuinely and truly love u to want u back but at the same time it might be a ploy to get back at u. 
but don't rush things, just monitor events 4 awhile and see how it goes....
after all, Que sera sera.

Posted: at 7-08-2010 06:01 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

Wud u go back to urself in this situation? Think abt tht...mayb it can giv u an idea if he wud b sincere...
When u giv him an other chance, do it when u r ready not to talk abt d past anymore, cuz tht will lead to second break-up...

Posted: at 7-08-2010 09:11 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Posted: at 7-08-2010 12:25 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Guys that go back to girls that dump them have a problem. Except you like were giving him signals.

Else, live the guy alone. Let him grow up. I think this guy has to realize that he is important. He is important. And you took him for granted. He shouldn't be the one begging for you to take him back. He is giving you too much power.

Now see you, you realize that you are important. That is why you are scared that he might hurt you as retaliation. You are very self-conscious. Hmn! This is a cool dilemma.

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The thing is if he is like way older than you and way wiser, then it means only one thing. It means he loves you. The last sentence is true if your past relationship had no segxwal undertone. The last statement is true if your experience did not involve segxwal activity of any kind. If he liked your person as a whole then he may be the one......................

Whatever, if u do accept his overtures, then make sure you go the extra mile to consistently soot him cause, the heart doesn't forget. And if u do not compensate for injury, it will revolt against you, now or 10 years down the line.


The human heart is capable of evil and good. Feed it with the right data and it will not hurt you. Neglect it and it will destroy you.
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Posted: at 7-08-2010 04:14 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

Depends on her reasons for thinking he wants to get back at her.

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Posted: at 7-08-2010 09:33 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming