Graduate Girls and Eleventh Hour Marriage! Why? (Page 10)

Date: 06-08-2010 11:34 am (13 years ago) | Author: John F Kennedy
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- Librabilex at 30-08-2010 03:00 PM (13 years ago)
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passing
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- Laaw at 5-09-2010 11:51 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 12-08-2010 12:43 AM
Quote from: Laaw on 12-08-2010 12:02 AM
Your the one who has the problem. The only way the husband gets half is if it was aquired during the marriage and that depends on what state you are in. If a prenupt is signed before the marriage, he can end up with nothing. I had everything before we married. I am old enough to be you mother. But oh, I forgot, you live in one of the most backward states in the U.S. They love lynching Black men. Check your history. If us Black Americans did not fight for freedom you would not have the pleasures of working here, your education, or just existing here. Read your Bible and learn respect on this website.

Here we go again with the slave, typical black, feel sorry for me because whites enslaved our forefathers talk. Now you made it clear why you abuse your husband and treat him anyway you want. Because he is lacking in places where a real man shouldn't lack. He lives in your house, run errands for you, wipes your behind, and probably washes your undies. I am not your problem, your husband is so take it out on him. Isn't it shameful that you are old enough to be my mother, like you pointed out, and still have the effrontery to come in here chit chatting with 'KIDS' who are young enough to be your 'Children'. You hold that man down so you can control everything...power monger... And you think you're good in the eyes of God. I might live in Birmingham, AL but I am sure I am more comfortable than you are wherever you are.
WRONG ON EVERYTHING. YOU ARE SO OFF OF THE SUBJECT. I DID NOT ASK YOU TO FEEL SORRY FOR ME. YOU SHOULD FEEL SORRY FOR YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU HAVE DONE NOTHING FOR THIS COUNTRY. CHATTING WITH CHILDREN LIKE YOU HELPS US WHO MAKE UP RULES DECIDE HOW TO CONTROL YOU CHILDREN. THIS U.S. MARINE , ALONG WITH MY AIR FORCE, ARMY AND NAVY FAMILY CONTINUE TO FIGHT FOR YOU TO LIVE HERE IN AMERICA. IF YOU CAN NOT SHOW US RESPECT, THEN GO BACK TO WHERE YOU CAME FROM.
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- Laaw at 5-09-2010 11:57 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 12-08-2010 12:51 AM
When you use the sentence, 'I put him in his place', that ONLY says alot about you woman. So do not try to justify your act with some mumbo jumbos. Only women seeking power over their husbands say things like that. If you are Nigerian... a true Nigerian, then i feel sorry for you.

I FEEL SORRY FOR YOU BECAUSE YOU MADE EVERYTHING UP.  YOU HAVE A MIND OF CHILD THAT MAKES UP STORIES AND CHARACTERS. I WILL HAVE A TALK WITH MY PRODUCTION COMPANY AND SEE IF WE WANT TO BUY YOU LATEST SCRIPT. I SERIOUSLY DOUBT IT WILL BE A BOX OFFICE HIT!!
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- Kingoje at 21-09-2010 01:27 PM (13 years ago)
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I think is nemesis speaking.The lady should be asked that b4 she met the American guy what happen to the guy she was dating in naija?They always abadon naija guys and go after yankee guys @ the end phyuk up will happen.
Posted: at 21-09-2010 01:27 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- templezafar at 12-10-2010 03:49 PM (13 years ago)
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nobody marries late, it depends on various fundamental which are
* God´s help, and
* the type of foresight dat u have (foresight means everything,
   so understand it the way u feel dat suit u most).
Posted: at 12-10-2010 03:49 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- atamajim at 13-10-2010 03:00 PM (13 years ago)
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come to think of it, why is it so especially in lag?
Posted: at 13-10-2010 03:00 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- prospeeto at 27-10-2010 12:37 PM (13 years ago)
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to whom it may concern.
Posted: at 27-10-2010 12:37 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Diamond001 at 20-11-2010 08:17 AM (13 years ago)
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Because they have no good idea about the fact of life, they have unrealistic expectation, they seems to have a false idea about themselves and unable to be a good player in a relationship.
Posted: at 20-11-2010 08:17 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- oliviaS at 4-12-2010 06:35 AM (13 years ago)
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maybe because they just want to experience life abroad, because in their belief their life would be better if they are abroad. In some point it can be called as practicality. Let's just hope that they will be happier in the place they dream of. 
Posted: at 4-12-2010 06:35 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- babsalam at 28-12-2010 06:31 AM (13 years ago)
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Certainly not dia wish,no lady wants to marry late but d trend is changing,withh all those under age undergraduates on campus not like in our days were you find only matured men&ladies on campus
Posted: at 28-12-2010 06:31 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- priceless87 at 30-12-2010 11:40 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: wunzie on  6-08-2010 03:00 PM
Passing, and  still waiting patiently for Tunde to bring plenty foreign currency come Lagos come marry me .
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin,remember me o wen ya plenty foreign currency land o
Posted: at 30-12-2010 11:40 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- moneyinbrakemi at 30-12-2010 11:49 AM (13 years ago)
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@ poster! this one na serious ISSUE O...e don pass becareful
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- navy at 30-12-2010 05:07 PM (13 years ago)
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they dont have fucus and they dont know the pland of god in there life.
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- gab-boy at 1-01-2011 02:53 AM (13 years ago)
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I can understand why our girls will prefer to marry a guy from abroad than the one in Naija. Listen guys, its not all about money or achievements. Take for example, a well off Naija guy will expect his wife to pass food on the table for him, in fact  wash his cloths and iron them everyday. Don't get me wrong these all aright if a woman is doing them because she wants to, not that she have to. A guy from abroad would have tasted to sort of exposure and understand that man and his wife should have equal right not a woman slaving for the husband. Lets be honest, every woman will like to come home some days to a nice well cooked dinner by their own husband. And the joy of it will be the husband willingly and proudly did it. I hope this sets some differences between a naija guy and a naija abroad guy.

Another thing to consider is your security, your right as a human being. In europe for example, everyone including the president has equal right and the police are there at your beck and call, so is the ambulance service in case of emergency. It doesn't matter whether you are rich or poor, black, white, asian to benefit from these services. Tell me why anyone would not want to wait to live in the western world lol.

Anyway, I am looking for a pretty professional graduate to take to London. If you are interested inbox me xx
Posted: at 1-01-2011 02:53 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- logten at 1-01-2011 03:12 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: gab-boy on  1-01-2011 02:53 AM
I can understand why our girls will prefer to marry a guy from abroad than the one in Naija. Listen guys, its not all about money or achievements. Take for example, a well off Naija guy will expect his wife to pass food on the table for him, in fact  wash his cloths and iron them everyday. Don't get me wrong these all aright if a woman is doing them because she wants to, not that she have to. A guy from abroad would have tasted to sort of exposure and understand that man and his wife should have equal right not a woman slaving for the husband. Lets be honest, every woman will like to come home some days to a nice well cooked dinner by their own husband. And the joy of it will be the husband willingly and proudly did it. I hope this sets some differences between a naija guy and a naija abroad guy.

Another thing to consider is your security, your right as a human being. In europe for example, everyone including the president has equal right and the police are there at your beck and call, so is the ambulance service in case of emergency. It doesn't matter whether you are rich or poor, black, white, asian to benefit from these services. Tell me why anyone would not want to wait to live in the western world lol.

Anyway, I am looking for a pretty professional graduate to take to London. If you are interested inbox me xx


ON YOUR OWN
Posted: at 1-01-2011 03:12 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- lionpriest at 2-01-2011 08:10 PM (13 years ago)
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But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry 1Cor 7:36.For as a young man marrieth a virgin,so shall thy sons marry thee:and as the bridegroom rejoiceth over the bride,so shall thy God rejoice over thee.Isa 62:5.So we can deduce from this script that our men and women married early in life and was together for life but today our men n women have learnt the ways of westerners.As long as my spouse is still a virgin, As long as I've engaged her to me,I can marry her at anytime or age that is convenient for us.If a woman decides to get an education to support her man and the family then fine but if otherwise then she needs to re-evaluate herself,she can have a thousand degrees and billions of dollars,if she doesnt have an husband,she is incomplete and miserable,to hell with the feminist movements and women's liberation.

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- DamiDavis at 29-01-2011 04:50 AM (13 years ago)
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So many people off point here.. I thought the heading was 'Why do educated girls wait till the eleventh hour to get married?" Anyway in my opinion, there are 2main reasons:

1:When a lady is waiting until after graduation to get married, she experiences a level of freedom in making her own decisions for several years while she is away from home and with strike these days, a supposedly 4year sojourn away from her parents rules & regulations turns into something else, sometimes 6years so she's independent for much longer. After graduation, giving up that independence becomes a problem.

2: Some men are insecure. I don't mean to insult anyone here but I've come across a few guys, some even my classmates that say it plainly that they can't marry a brainy girl because she might be smarter than they are & they don't want to be embarrassed...

That's my point of view anyway...
Posted: at 29-01-2011 04:50 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- dadonn at 20-02-2011 09:24 PM (13 years ago)
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SO WAT NEW
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- truenaija2 at 20-02-2011 11:16 PM (13 years ago)
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how is it my buis when someone gets married marriageis choice everybody has the right to make choices affectin thier lifes
Posted: at 20-02-2011 11:16 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- truthisbitter at 7-03-2011 06:03 AM (13 years ago)
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BECAUSE THEM SEE YOU DEY DO THE DIRTY JOBS IN NAIJA TO SURVIVE THEY DONT KNOW THAT THE PERSON THEY ARE WAITING TO COME FROM ABROAD TO MARRY THEM DO THE WORST JOBS TO SURVIVE........SOME EVEN DEY LICK WHITE WOMAN P"""""SY TO SURVIVE...MTCHEW
Posted: at 7-03-2011 06:03 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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