![-]( "Syl90") Syl90 at 14-08-2010 11:33 AM (14 years ago)  (f) Hmmmmmmmmmmm.Male friends?.Keeping male friends when you are in a relationship is not good ,at all.Jealousy?.Every one has tht "jealousy thingy",I mean its normal as human beings.When you are married or about to get married,you might have to stop keeping this "male friends",cos most men dont feel comfortable wit such.and its sounds like a real threat to them.Just try to strt getting used to female friends or make ur mom ur best friend,cos this same "MALE FRIENDS" might affect you now or in the future.I neva read this bit "UR KEEPING MALE FRIENDS" but I think you ex felt really uncomfortable.You know he's a man,he knowns more about men stuff.Probably when he's saying sumthing you might see it as "JEALOUSY" ,which might not be true.Cos sumtimes we ladies can be quite stubborn and tough.
U've said it all, SOMETIMES i'm stubborn but he is 2 possessive, if i tel him i'm goin out wit someone, d question he'll ask is: boy or girl? they r all friends, who cares if it's a boy or girl hahahahah but i've heard u guys. MY MUM IS MY BEST FRIEND but i also hav a female best friend. I'll limit my friendship wit guys. THANKS.
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![-]( "Michro") Michro at 14-08-2010 11:44 AM (14 years ago) (m) Apply SCALE OF PREFERENCE, CHOICE AND OPPORTUNITY COST. Substitution is very helpful in this kind of situation.
I am as gentle as a dove and as wise as a serpent | Posted: at 14-08-2010 11:44 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "johdap") johdap at 14-08-2010 11:52 AM (14 years ago) (m) U know wat is gud 4 u. A broken relatnship is far beta dan a broken marriage. I broke up wt my GF a year ago nd i stop her 4rm calin me March dis year even if its not easy,i stil av 2 move on. | Posted: at 14-08-2010 11:52 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Treasure2") Treasure2 at 14-08-2010 12:12 PM (14 years ago) (f) BRB | Posted: at 14-08-2010 12:12 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "diplomatik") diplomatik at 14-08-2010 02:29 PM (14 years ago) (f) I NEED U GUYS 2 PLS HELP ME ON THIS. I'M TOTALLY CONFUSED.  I BROKE UP WITH MY EX ABOUT 6 MONTHS AGO THOUGH WE WERE STILL IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER. AFTER OUR BREAK UP, WE DECIDED TO REMAIN FRIENDS. 2 MONTHS AGO I FOUND ANOTHER GUY THAT IS SO CARING AND NICE. MY EX FOUND ANOTHER GIRL ALSO. MY EX WAS JEALOUS COS HE'S STILL IN LOVE WITH ME. I'M NOT JEALOUS COS I KNOW WE BOTH HAD 2 MOVE ON WITH OUR LIVES THOUGH I STILL LOVE HIM. I'M TRYING 2 LOVE MY NEW B/F. JUST YESTERDAY MY EX CALLED ME AND SAID HE WANT US BACK TOGETHER, HE SAID HIS NEW G/F IS NICE BUT HE CAN'T STOP THINKING ABOUT ME. I STILL LOVE MY EX BUT I DON'T WANT TO BREAK UP WITH MY NEW B/F, NEITHER DO I WANT HIM TO BREAK UP WITH HIS G/F. I DON'T KNOW IF WHAT I'M DOING IS RIGHT OR WRONG  :'( I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO.......... complete ur story b4 i add my own advise 
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either  , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool | Posted: at 14-08-2010 02:29 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Syl90") Syl90 at 14-08-2010 11:57 PM (14 years ago) (f) complete ur story b4 i add my own advise There's nothing to add to it oohh LOL | Posted: at 14-08-2010 11:57 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Michro") Michro at 15-08-2010 02:17 AM (14 years ago) (m) BRB
I am as gentle as a dove and as wise as a serpent | Posted: at 15-08-2010 02:17 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Bodguard") Bodguard at 17-08-2010 04:02 PM (14 years ago) (m) U can help urself by reducing d number of guy friends u make. if ur b/f is jelous it's because he love u and want 2 protect what he has. we are all jelousy inclined. Honestly think of it, hw would u feel if he also keeps female friends. u will sure be jelous and that will make u even and u know how trecherous d heat is. if u love ur ex try and reduce ur male friends and will be happy 2gether. | Posted: at 17-08-2010 04:02 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Syl90") Syl90 at 18-08-2010 12:35 AM (14 years ago) (f) U can help urself by reducing d number of guy friends u make. if ur b/f is jelous it's because he love u and want 2 protect what he has. we are all jelousy inclined. Honestly think of it, hw would u feel if he also keeps female friends. u will sure be jelous and that will make u even and u know how trecherous d heat is. if u love ur ex try and reduce ur male friends and will be happy 2gether.
he has some female friends 2 but i'm not that jealous cos i trust him n i know he really loves me. I love him so i can't cheat on him but he doesn't trust me, he believes i'll 1 day leave him 4 1 of my friends but i've heard u. THANKS. I'll limit my friends. I want 2 go back 2 him but wat 2 tel my b/f is my problem now cos i can't just bring myslf to hurt him at all. He doesn't deserve anythin like that. | Posted: at 18-08-2010 12:35 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "sa-fire") sa-fire at 18-08-2010 12:39 AM (14 years ago) (f) go with d 1 u like more...
 Love Always Shines Every time Remember to Smile we r LASERS not losers | Posted: at 18-08-2010 12:39 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "princelife") princelife at 18-08-2010 01:22 AM (14 years ago) (m) my dear, go back to ur ex, this is the guy u know very well | Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:22 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "babwire") babwire at 18-08-2010 02:07 AM (14 years ago) (m) Me: I consider myself to be a very outgoing person who loves to have fun & enjoy life. I have always been the life of the party, and everyone's favorite person to hang out with. I also love meeting new people & establishing long-term friendships. At the end of the day I'm a very independent man who knows my self-worth! I also feel deeply & love fiercely! I am both visionary & decisive, powerful & soft and my tears flow as abundantly as my laughter! | Posted: at 18-08-2010 02:07 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Syl90") Syl90 at 18-08-2010 01:09 PM (14 years ago) (f) Me: I consider myself to be a very outgoing person who loves to have fun & enjoy life. I have always been the life of the party, and everyone's favorite person to hang out with. I also love meeting new people & establishing long-term friendships. At the end of the day I'm a very independent man who knows my self-worth! I also feel deeply & love fiercely! I am both visionary & decisive, powerful & soft and my tears flow as abundantly as my laughter!
you r funny. Y r u tellin me about u? my dear, go back to ur ex, this is the guy u know very well
go with d 1 u like more...
I've heard u guys but what do i tel my b/f. Where do i start 4rm? i just don't know wat 2 tel him or how 2 say it. i don't want 2 hurt anybody... | Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:09 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "shaoyang") shaoyang at 19-08-2010 07:49 AM (14 years ago) (m) meet me in my office i'll give u a clue wat u will say to him & he'll not be hurt, mind u immediately u say that no good friends o, terminat the contact immediately. | Posted: at 19-08-2010 07:49 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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A case of a DOG going back to its vomit..............dont return to him........quarrel is part of relationship, but when it becomes frequent, it is no longer healthy..........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 19-08-2010 11:40 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Syl90") Syl90 at 19-08-2010 08:02 PM (14 years ago) (f) meet me in my office i'll give u a clue wat u will say to him & he'll not be hurt, mind u immediately u say that no good friends o, terminat the contact immediately.
can't u say it here or send a message to my Np box?  i can't leave here 2 meet u in Nigeria bcos of ur advice oh  pls say it here on Np thanks LOL | Posted: at 19-08-2010 08:02 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "princedafe") princedafe at 19-08-2010 10:43 PM (14 years ago) (m) DO what u think is the best | Posted: at 19-08-2010 10:43 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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