CHEATING CASE..WHO WOULD YOU BELIEVE? HUBBY OR BEST FRIEND?? (Page 3)

Date: 15-08-2010 1:02 pm (13 years ago) | Author: omorewa
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- Treasure2 at 16-08-2010 08:34 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: princedafe on 15-08-2010 10:42 PM
SENSLESS POST

THOSE WHO HAVE NOTHING TO OFFER ALWAYS SEE PPLE'S QUESTION AS SENSELESS BC THEY ATTENDED SCHOOL OF SENSELESS.
Posted: at 16-08-2010 08:34 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- youngk at 16-08-2010 08:47 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 16-08-2010 08:34 AM
Quote from: princedafe on 15-08-2010 10:42 PM
SENSLESS POST

THOSE WHO HAVE NOTHING TO OFFER ALWAYS SEE PPLE'S QUESTION AS SENSELESS BC THEY ATTENDED SCHOOL OF SENSELESS.

haba.
Posted: at 16-08-2010 08:47 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- esonu at 16-08-2010 08:47 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: qunodinga on 15-08-2010 01:27 PM

The hubby ofcourse
why?

Posted: at 16-08-2010 08:47 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 16-08-2010 10:37 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 15-08-2010 04:29 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 15-08-2010 04:19 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 15-08-2010 04:07 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 15-08-2010 03:52 PM
Husband o "Binta," Husband... Not boyfriend. Did U grow up in Nigeria?

I'm not a Nigerian, Onchedu!
But I could never forgive a cheater!
If I'm not able to cheat, never ever,I expect the same! But if it happens, in the same moment, our paths will separate
,without any chance of turning back!

No wonder! U should have said so since. That's the other gilr I was talking about, the one that doesn't sound like U is actually U. U should have said so since na.

The one that doesn't sound like me is actually me? Huh?
Get me out of fog,plz!


Well, there's two of U (one of U actually but with two "personalities"). The first one makes perfect sense in everything and is logical and rational and quite intuitive. She gives sound advice. the second is just the perfect opposite. She's highly emotional, intolerant and unforgiven and seems to think herself a perfect person who can never make a mistake. The first one is a confirmed Naija babe wey her head straight well well. the second one probably grew up in Europe or the Uk. Now put these two girls together and U have "what I believe" is U. the first being the theoretical U and the second being the practical U.

It's like one is ideal and the second real and the real is one that comes up when U take things personally. the ideal is the one that's clear to see when U remain unemotional and that's when u do not personally identify with the issue on ground.

Could be totally wrong too and I'm positive U myt say that but I hope the fog is clear?
Posted: at 16-08-2010 10:37 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 16-08-2010 10:51 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 16-08-2010 10:37 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 15-08-2010 04:29 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 15-08-2010 04:19 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 15-08-2010 04:07 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 15-08-2010 03:52 PM
Husband o "Binta," Husband... Not boyfriend. Did U grow up in Nigeria?

I'm not a Nigerian, Onchedu!
But I could never forgive a cheater!
If I'm not able to cheat, never ever,I expect the same! But if it happens, in the same moment, our paths will separate
,without any chance of turning back!

No wonder! U should have said so since. That's the other gilr I was talking about, the one that doesn't sound like U is actually U. U should have said so since na.

The one that doesn't sound like me is actually me? Huh?
Get me out of fog,plz!


Well, there's two of U (one of U actually but with two "personalities"). The first one makes perfect sense in everything and is logical and rational and quite intuitive. She gives sound advice. the second is just the perfect opposite. She's highly emotional, intolerant and unforgiven and seems to think herself a perfect person who can never make a mistake. The first one is a confirmed Naija babe wey her head straight well well. the second one probably grew up in Europe or the Uk. Now put these two girls together and U have "what I believe" is U. the first being the theoretical U and the second being the practical U.

It's like one is ideal and the second real and the real is one that comes up when U take things personally. the ideal is the one that's clear to see when U remain unemotional and that's when u do not personally identify with the issue on ground.

Could be totally wrong too and I'm positive U myt say that but I hope the fog is clear?


Yes,I got you!
Actually, I got you from the day u said that, but I wanted to sure!
Well, u're judging things from what u see here,which, of course that it can't reveal the real me from the day
by day life!
Yes,it's true that if I take a thing personality, I become a real fire which can burn everything around! So, therefore,
ppl know that they shouldn't eve  mess with me,not even in joke!But it happens rare,and when it does, it passes quickly
and I remain the first person u've describe there!
You said I think I never make mistakes! You're wrong, I never think that way, and as any other human being,
I can screw it up from time to time!But that wasn't my point,I know myself, I know what I can do,and I'm always
for justice! I could never ever cheat, no matter how big the temptation would be! I just only expect the same!
I always made clear, even from beginning, what I can never forgive, and if that still happens, the breakup will be
imminent, and without any chance of returning!

Posted: at 16-08-2010 10:51 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 16-08-2010 11:37 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 16-08-2010 10:51 AM
Quote from: onchedu on 16-08-2010 10:37 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 15-08-2010 04:29 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 15-08-2010 04:19 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 15-08-2010 04:07 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 15-08-2010 03:52 PM
Husband o "Binta," Husband... Not boyfriend. Did U grow up in Nigeria?

I'm not a Nigerian, Onchedu!
But I could never forgive a cheater!
If I'm not able to cheat, never ever,I expect the same! But if it happens, in the same moment, our paths will separate
,without any chance of turning back!

No wonder! U should have said so since. That's the other gilr I was talking about, the one that doesn't sound like U is actually U. U should have said so since na.

The one that doesn't sound like me is actually me? Huh?
Get me out of fog,plz!


Well, there's two of U (one of U actually but with two "personalities"). The first one makes perfect sense in everything and is logical and rational and quite intuitive. She gives sound advice. the second is just the perfect opposite. She's highly emotional, intolerant and unforgiven and seems to think herself a perfect person who can never make a mistake. The first one is a confirmed Naija babe wey her head straight well well. the second one probably grew up in Europe or the Uk. Now put these two girls together and U have "what I believe" is U. the first being the theoretical U and the second being the practical U.

It's like one is ideal and the second real and the real is one that comes up when U take things personally. the ideal is the one that's clear to see when U remain unemotional and that's when u do not personally identify with the issue on ground.

Could be totally wrong too and I'm positive U myt say that but I hope the fog is clear?


Yes,I got you!
Actually, I got you from the day u said that, but I wanted to sure!
Well, u're judging things from what u see here,which, of course that it can't reveal the real me from the day
by day life!
Yes,it's true that if I take a thing personality, I become a real fire which can burn everything around! So, therefore,
ppl know that they shouldn't eve  mess with me,not even in joke!But it happens rare,and when it does, it passes quickly
and I remain the first person u've describe there!
You said I think I never make mistakes! You're wrong, I never think that way, and as any other human being,
I can screw it up from time to time!But that wasn't my point,I know myself, I know what I can do,and I'm always
for justice! I could never ever cheat, no matter how big the temptation would be! I just only expect the same!
I always made clear, even from beginning, what I can never forgive, and if that still happens, the breakup will be
imminent, and without any chance of returning!


Ur so sure U could never cheat Binta. That's why I assumed and stated that U feel u can never be wrong. See that cheating thing ehn, sometimes we get so sure we won't be the one doing it and we keep waiting for the other person to do it and when that doesnt happen, we wake up to find out we have become guilty of it. it takes will and grace to not cheat o especially in a relationship like marriage when things aren't as rosy inside and at that same time, some temptation outside is looking like rosy paradise.

it's people that feel they can't be wrong ever that find it hardest to forgive and it's those same people that find it even harder to forgive themselves if they ever fall short.

I wish U well sha but seriously it'l be sad if U being as smart as U are have no room of forgiveness in things U so much believe U would never do. Even if U have grace to stand not everyone has grace the measure of Urs.
Posted: at 16-08-2010 11:37 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 16-08-2010 11:44 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 16-08-2010 11:37 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 16-08-2010 10:51 AM
Quote from: onchedu on 16-08-2010 10:37 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 15-08-2010 04:29 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 15-08-2010 04:19 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 15-08-2010 04:07 PM
Quote from: onchedu on 15-08-2010 03:52 PM
Husband o "Binta," Husband... Not boyfriend. Did U grow up in Nigeria?

I'm not a Nigerian, Onchedu!
But I could never forgive a cheater!
If I'm not able to cheat, never ever,I expect the same! But if it happens, in the same moment, our paths will separate
,without any chance of turning back!

No wonder! U should have said so since. That's the other gilr I was talking about, the one that doesn't sound like U is actually U. U should have said so since na.

The one that doesn't sound like me is actually me? Huh?
Get me out of fog,plz!


Well, there's two of U (one of U actually but with two "personalities"). The first one makes perfect sense in everything and is logical and rational and quite intuitive. She gives sound advice. the second is just the perfect opposite. She's highly emotional, intolerant and unforgiven and seems to think herself a perfect person who can never make a mistake. The first one is a confirmed Naija babe wey her head straight well well. the second one probably grew up in Europe or the Uk. Now put these two girls together and U have "what I believe" is U. the first being the theoretical U and the second being the practical U.

It's like one is ideal and the second real and the real is one that comes up when U take things personally. the ideal is the one that's clear to see when U remain unemotional and that's when u do not personally identify with the issue on ground.

Could be totally wrong too and I'm positive U myt say that but I hope the fog is clear?


Yes,I got you!
Actually, I got you from the day u said that, but I wanted to sure!
Well, u're judging things from what u see here,which, of course that it can't reveal the real me from the day
by day life!
Yes,it's true that if I take a thing personality, I become a real fire which can burn everything around! So, therefore,
ppl know that they shouldn't eve  mess with me,not even in joke!But it happens rare,and when it does, it passes quickly
and I remain the first person u've describe there!
You said I think I never make mistakes! You're wrong, I never think that way, and as any other human being,
I can screw it up from time to time!But that wasn't my point,I know myself, I know what I can do,and I'm always
for justice! I could never ever cheat, no matter how big the temptation would be! I just only expect the same!
I always made clear, even from beginning, what I can never forgive, and if that still happens, the breakup will be
imminent, and without any chance of returning!


Ur so sure U could never cheat Binta. That's why I assumed and stated that U feel u can never be wrong. See that cheating thing ehn, sometimes we get so sure we won't be the one doing it and we keep waiting for the other person to do it and when that doesnt happen, we wake up to find out we have become guilty of it. it takes will and grace to not cheat o especially in a relationship like marriage when things aren't as rosy inside and at that same time, some temptation outside is looking like rosy paradise.

it's people that feel they can't be wrong ever that find it hardest to forgive and it's those same people that find it even harder to forgive themselves if they ever fall short.

I wish U well sha but seriously it'l be sad if U being as smart as U are have no room of forgiveness in things U so much believe U would never do. Even if U have grace to stand not everyone has grace the measure of Urs.

First, I think I would give u my real name,only to not hear that "binta" again!
Second, I'm so sure that I couldn't cheat, because I know myself, and that's why I can't forgive cheating!
But is the only thing I can't forgive! The rest, is up to debate,and with good reasoning, I can pass over!
But cheating.....impossible!
But thx God that there are still guys who think like me,u know?  Wink

Posted: at 16-08-2010 11:44 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- wallas at 16-08-2010 11:56 AM (13 years ago)
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straight up!
my favourite spot!
Posted: at 16-08-2010 11:56 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 16-08-2010 12:00 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: wallas on 16-08-2010 11:56 AM
straight up!
my favourite spot!

 Smiley

Posted: at 16-08-2010 12:00 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- wallas at 16-08-2010 12:20 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 16-08-2010 12:00 PM
Quote from: wallas on 16-08-2010 11:56 AM
straight up!
my favourite spot!

 Smiley
cheat is a corruption that even comes indirectly
like flirt!
Posted: at 16-08-2010 12:20 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 16-08-2010 12:21 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: wallas on 16-08-2010 12:20 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 16-08-2010 12:00 PM
Quote from: wallas on 16-08-2010 11:56 AM
straight up!
my favourite spot!

 Smiley
cheat is a corruption that even comes indirectly
like flirt!


Yes,Wallas!

Posted: at 16-08-2010 12:21 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Akpan01 at 16-08-2010 12:33 PM (13 years ago)
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if the friend told about to her...that opne can shows not she is the one who try such shit...if she is the one who try it...she will just hide herself without talk...i ques

Posted: at 16-08-2010 12:33 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- wallas at 16-08-2010 12:47 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 16-08-2010 12:21 PM
Quote from: wallas on 16-08-2010 12:20 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 16-08-2010 12:00 PM
Quote from: wallas on 16-08-2010 11:56 AM
straight up!
my favourite spot!

 Smiley
cheat is a corruption that even comes indirectly
like flirt!


Yes,Wallas!
very common n very creepy  Wink
Posted: at 16-08-2010 12:47 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 16-08-2010 12:52 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: wallas on 16-08-2010 12:47 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 16-08-2010 12:21 PM
Quote from: wallas on 16-08-2010 12:20 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 16-08-2010 12:00 PM
Quote from: wallas on 16-08-2010 11:56 AM
straight up!
my favourite spot!

 Smiley
cheat is a corruption that even comes indirectly
like flirt!


Yes,Wallas!
very common n very creepy  Wink

Oh,yeah!
Dangerous!

Posted: at 16-08-2010 12:52 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- wallas at 16-08-2010 01:08 PM (13 years ago)
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for a girl to open up sincerely...
i still wonder!
Posted: at 16-08-2010 01:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 16-08-2010 01:15 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: wallas on 16-08-2010 01:08 PM
for a girl to open up sincerely...
i still wonder!


Keep wondering,Wallas!
It's a  beautiful state! Wink

Posted: at 16-08-2010 01:15 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- wallas at 16-08-2010 01:23 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 16-08-2010 01:15 PM
Quote from: wallas on 16-08-2010 01:08 PM
for a girl to open up sincerely...
i still wonder!


Keep wondering,Wallas!
It's a  beautiful state! Wink
wondering is for girls
i feel uncomfortable
Posted: at 16-08-2010 01:23 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 16-08-2010 01:24 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: wallas on 16-08-2010 01:23 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 16-08-2010 01:15 PM
Quote from: wallas on 16-08-2010 01:08 PM
for a girl to open up sincerely...
i still wonder!


Keep wondering,Wallas!
It's a  beautiful state! Wink
wondering is for girls
i feel uncomfortable


 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
So I put u in an uncomfortable state,huh?

Posted: at 16-08-2010 01:24 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- wallas at 16-08-2010 01:38 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 16-08-2010 01:24 PM
Quote from: wallas on 16-08-2010 01:23 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 16-08-2010 01:15 PM
Quote from: wallas on 16-08-2010 01:08 PM
for a girl to open up sincerely...
i still wonder!


Keep wondering,Wallas!
It's a  beautiful state! Wink
wondering is for girls
i feel uncomfortable


 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
So I put u in an uncomfortable state,huh?
nayyyyyyyyyyy
just that girls dont open up!
Posted: at 16-08-2010 01:38 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 16-08-2010 01:45 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: omorewa on 15-08-2010 01:02 PM
husband wanted to cheat with his wife best friend because the best friend refuses, the husband hates his wife's best friend

Now the best friend cannot stand the betrayal hubby.... so she went ahead to tell the wife...

the wife is angry and thinks her best friend is the devil Huh? SHE DOESN'T KNOW WHO TO TRUST??

HOW CAN SHE HANDLE THIS SITUATION... HER CHILDHOOD FRIEND OR HUBBY OF TWO YEARS MARRIAGE???


Hmmm, a dicey situation here..........
I really like to trust my man.....
Like a friend (male) once told me, over 90% of married men cheat, if you like yourself, just believe that your hubby is not cheating on you.  I hate infidelity.  But this is my husband, my marriage, my life.  I wouldnt doubt my childhood friend if I had known her to be a truthful person.  Anyway, I wouldnt keep such a friend from childhood till now if she wasnt a good friend.  I think I would bring the matter before my husband and hear him out.  I will assure him it wont change anything whatever the answer is, I just want to know the truth.  Depending on how I present the whole case to him, my composure, etc, he should be able to own up and apologise.  Surely, I would want to know what my friend has got which I dont have and try and make amends.  I know that there would be some tension between them (my friend and hubby), but it would be my job to 'cool temper' on both sides....it is not easy, but it can be done!

Posted: at 16-08-2010 01:45 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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