for a girl to open up sincerely...
i still wonder!
Keep wondering,Wallas! It's a beautiful state!  wondering is for girls i feel uncomfortable  So I put u in an uncomfortable state,huh? nayyyyyyyyyyy just that girls dont open up!
Some do,na!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 16-08-2010 01:55 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 16-08-2010 02:07 PM (14 years ago)  (m) husband wanted to cheat with his wife best friend because the best friend refuses, the husband hates his wife's best friend Now the best friend cannot stand the betrayal hubby.... so she went ahead to tell the wife... the wife is angry and thinks her best friend is the devil  SHE DOESN'T KNOW WHO TO TRUST?? HOW CAN SHE HANDLE THIS SITUATION... HER CHILDHOOD FRIEND OR HUBBY OF TWO YEARS MARRIAGE??? Hmmm, a dicey situation here.......... I really like to trust my man..... Like a friend (male) once told me, over 90% of married men cheat, if you like yourself, just believe that your hubby is not cheating on you. I hate infidelity. But this is my husband, my marriage, my life. I wouldnt doubt my childhood friend if I had known her to be a truthful person. Anyway, I wouldnt keep such a friend from childhood till now if she wasnt a good friend. I think I would bring the matter before my husband and hear him out. I will assure him it wont change anything whatever the answer is, I just want to know the truth. Depending on how I present the whole case to him, my composure, etc, he should be able to own up and apologise. Surely, I would want to know what my friend has got which I dont have and try and make amends. I know that there would be some tension between them (my friend and hubby), but it would be my job to 'cool temper' on both sides....it is not easy, but it can be done! Gbasky!!! | Posted: at 16-08-2010 02:07 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "omorewa") omorewa at 16-08-2010 02:09 PM (14 years ago) (f)  CHEATING IS MISTAKE NAWA OOO ONCHENDU
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you! | Posted: at 16-08-2010 02:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 16-08-2010 02:38 PM (14 years ago) (m) Huh? | Posted: at 16-08-2010 02:38 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "omorewa") omorewa at 16-08-2010 02:42 PM (14 years ago) (f) is that not what you meant in your comment when replying to bittersweet... about mistake..
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you! | Posted: at 16-08-2010 02:42 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 16-08-2010 02:43 PM (14 years ago) (m) Quote me and let me see what u mean please | Posted: at 16-08-2010 02:43 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "wallas") wallas at 16-08-2010 02:44 PM (14 years ago) (m) for a girl to open up sincerely...
i still wonder!
Keep wondering,Wallas! It's a beautiful state! wondering is for girls i feel uncomfortable So I put u in an uncomfortable state,huh? nayyyyyyyyyyy just that girls dont open up! Some do,na! girls chemistry!  | Posted: at 16-08-2010 02:44 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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for a girl to open up sincerely...
i still wonder!
Keep wondering,Wallas! It's a beautiful state! wondering is for girls i feel uncomfortable So I put u in an uncomfortable state,huh? nayyyyyyyyyyy just that girls dont open up! Some do,na! girls chemistry! Oho,more than chemistry!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 16-08-2010 02:47 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 16-08-2010 02:57 PM (14 years ago) (m) Husband o "Binta," Husband... Not boyfriend. Did U grow up in Nigeria?
I'm not a Nigerian, Onchedu! But I could never forgive a cheater! If I'm not able to cheat, never ever,I expect the same! But if it happens, in the same moment, our paths will separate ,without any chance of turning back! No wonder! U should have said so since. That's the other gilr I was talking about, the one that doesn't sound like U is actually U. U should have said so since na. The one that doesn't sound like me is actually me? Get me out of fog,plz! Well, there's two of U (one of U actually but with two "personalities"). The first one makes perfect sense in everything and is logical and rational and quite intuitive. She gives sound advice. the second is just the perfect opposite. She's highly emotional, intolerant and unforgiven and seems to think herself a perfect person who can never make a mistake. The first one is a confirmed Naija babe wey her head straight well well. the second one probably grew up in Europe or the Uk. Now put these two girls together and U have "what I believe" is U. the first being the theoretical U and the second being the practical U. It's like one is ideal and the second real and the real is one that comes up when U take things personally. the ideal is the one that's clear to see when U remain unemotional and that's when u do not personally identify with the issue on ground. Could be totally wrong too and I'm positive U myt say that but I hope the fog is clear? Yes,I got you! Actually, I got you from the day u said that, but I wanted to sure! Well, u're judging things from what u see here,which, of course that it can't reveal the real me from the day by day life! Yes,it's true that if I take a thing personality, I become a real fire which can burn everything around! So, therefore, ppl know that they shouldn't eve mess with me,not even in joke!But it happens rare,and when it does, it passes quickly and I remain the first person u've describe there! You said I think I never make mistakes! You're wrong, I never think that way, and as any other human being, I can screw it up from time to time!But that wasn't my point,I know myself, I know what I can do,and I'm always for justice! I could never ever cheat, no matter how big the temptation would be! I just only expect the same! I always made clear, even from beginning, what I can never forgive, and if that still happens, the breakup will be imminent, and without any chance of returning! Ur so sure U could never cheat Binta. That's why I assumed and stated that U feel u can never be wrong. See that cheating thing ehn, sometimes we get so sure we won't be the one doing it and we keep waiting for the other person to do it and when that doesnt happen, we wake up to find out we have become guilty of it. it takes will and grace to not cheat o especially in a relationship like marriage when things aren't as rosy inside and at that same time, some temptation outside is looking like rosy paradise. it's people that feel they can't be wrong ever that find it hardest to forgive and it's those same people that find it even harder to forgive themselves if they ever fall short. I wish U well sha but seriously it'l be sad if U being as smart as U are have no room of forgiveness in things U so much believe U would never do. Even if U have grace to stand not everyone has grace the measure of Urs. First, I think I would give u my real name,only to not hear that "binta" again! Second, I'm so sure that I couldn't cheat, because I know myself, and that's why I can't forgive cheating! But is the only thing I can't forgive! The rest, is up to debate,and with good reasoning, I can pass over! But cheating.....impossible! But thx God that there are still guys who think like me,u know?  But I like Binta. U don't like the name I'm giving U?  Oya lets do the real name thing elsewhere. Abi U want tell me here? | Posted: at 16-08-2010 02:57 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "omorewa") omorewa at 16-08-2010 03:17 PM (14 years ago) (f) onchendu onchendu onchendu.. leave binta or sorry bittersweet alone ooo
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you! | Posted: at 16-08-2010 03:17 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Are you jealous?..............
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 16-08-2010 03:38 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "omorewa") omorewa at 16-08-2010 03:49 PM (14 years ago) (f) why i go jealous my friend....  ........... am looking out for her... no more cheating 
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you! | Posted: at 16-08-2010 03:49 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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why i go jealous my friend.... ........... am looking out for her... no more cheating No wahala,sweetie!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 16-08-2010 03:50 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 16-08-2010 03:53 PM (14 years ago) (m) why i go jealous my friend.... ........... am looking out for her... no more cheating So I don turn Ojuju now shey wey U wan hide Binta from me? I ask U question U no answer u say make I no find her? | Posted: at 16-08-2010 03:53 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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why i go jealous my friend.... ........... am looking out for her... no more cheating So I don turn Ojuju now shey wey U wan hide Binta from me? I ask U question U no answer u say make I no find her? You know my name, and u still call me Binta! 
Live and let live! | Posted: at 16-08-2010 03:56 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "omorewa") omorewa at 16-08-2010 03:59 PM (14 years ago) (f) why i go jealous my friend.... ........... am looking out for her... no more cheating So I don turn Ojuju now shey wey U wan hide Binta from me? I ask U question U no answer u say make I no find her? ......... u no sey bittersweet means sugar cane, if u do good for her she go be sweet to you but if you cheat on her she go cane u real hard oo..........
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you! | Posted: at 16-08-2010 03:59 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onchedu") onchedu at 16-08-2010 04:01 PM (14 years ago) (m) That's like canesugar. :p So what were U asking? | Posted: at 16-08-2010 04:01 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Good one,dear!And real,too!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 16-08-2010 04:01 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 16-08-2010 04:03 PM (14 years ago) (f) a cheat will always remain a cheat, but let her be calm and find out things for herslf b4 further actions | Posted: at 16-08-2010 04:03 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "omorewa") omorewa at 16-08-2010 04:09 PM (14 years ago) (f) HOW BLESSEDME??
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you! | Posted: at 16-08-2010 04:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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