My pals I need sum advise ooooooo!! (Page 4)

your Sster get who wan marry am u no happy, by the time wen she go de look  4 man she no see na  that tme una go no say life no be as e bi before

Posted: at 27-08-2010 06:14 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

Ii'm arelationship wt a lady for 4yr nw we were about 2 wed my aunt & mumm go against d weddg.pls advice me hw 2 treat d case?my pal

Posted: at 27-08-2010 07:05 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

make i yearn u fact. Ure right to be concerned about ur sister. but ure wrong to dismiss someone as no get future i assume u mean in terms of material possession.  Alas wat ure looking for is not wat ur sister might be looking for to some people hapiness of heart is more important.  having said that, if ur family is the type wey no go gree am marry the guy u have to talk to her and let her know her choices. 1.  if she goes ahead she risks a hard life which usually takes its toll eventually on any marriage.  2.  She cud put the guy on hold till he is able to advance she has the opportunity to influence him at this point using marriage as a leverage.
otherwise you can just consider assasinating this guy in the name of saving the family face. just make sure ure not caught.  Do ur best and leave the rest.

Posted: at 27-08-2010 08:23 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

poster na Calabar man I know am one on one.

Posted: at 27-08-2010 10:17 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

guy, please post reasonable topic, how did you manage to know dat the guy future will not be bright, look he might be the person that will rescue your family tomorrow, God knows everything. If they love each others so be it. Be careful

Posted: at 28-08-2010 10:27 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

just try to convince ur parent to her marry d guy  if she loves him maybe after service he might get a good job and above all,pray over it

Posted: at 28-08-2010 01:05 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

From what i understand in this topic is that if u dont have money u cant marry from their family or even drink thier beer.guy why u dey disgrace ur family here na?see as u just dey let everybody here dey know how poor ur family is.sorry no offence.

Posted: at 28-08-2010 08:07 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

no education no marriage nawa oo

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Posted: at 28-08-2010 11:48 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Do u determine success with university or masters degree? You better wake up from your slumber...........

Posted: at 29-08-2010 05:59 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

yes he's only reasonable simply bcos he share in ur family line of thinking that they re better than their fellow human right?  according to write-up u said the guy in question is a cooper, now what makes u think he can't land a lucrative job offer 2morroh? do u know a man's destiny?   and since ur family is that wealthy and it's ur own blood sister's happiness that's at stake here, then why don't ur family help the guy to stand on his feet so he can give ur sister that befitting life style u guys so desire for her. or is that also a taboo in ur household? Does ur parents know the reason why the almighty God bless them the way are? God can never make anyone rich so that the will be self-centered and stingy, no never!!!  he only bless people so they too can be a source of blessing to others. 

what a pity!!!

Posted: at 29-08-2010 06:50 AM (14 years ago) | Hero