![-]( "bomsiluv") bomsiluv at 8-09-2010 09:23 AM (14 years ago)  (f) Actress Uche Iwuji tells Encomium mag when asked why she broke up with her ex i quote "I broke up with him because he could not take care of my needs and I cannot see myself suffering or spending for a guy. If you want to marry me, I think you should be able to take good care of me. You don't need to give me everything, you don't need to give me the world.
Just want little, like take this money, go and do your hair. Take this money, travel, take a flight and all that. You need to show some concern, show me that you are a man. Let me see and feel the man in the house. You don't have to tell me you are a man, you have to show it. So why do I have to keep suffering over a man who cannot take care of my needs? My ex is loving but he's not somebody that can take care of my needs and that's why I broke up with him."
Is this enough reason for breaking up with a man?, is this what young girls would like to read about actress like Uche whom they see as their role model?.
dz gurl iz crazy nd olso a money monger, r dey married dat d guy shuld shoulder 4 ol dz responsibility?? perhaps ain't she working ? well i don't blame her maybe 1 of d LEGISLOOTERS in ABJ dun promise her heaven on earth. dz disgustin..she shuld go ***** her momma's ****y.  You don try well well. Clap for ya self. So if she is working, she should spend for her self becos she is in love? Mr dear, gone are those days when ladies spend money on themselves and the guy will take the glory. babes dey vex, level don change. In which world do you live in today? i think you meant the opposite of what you just said. To clarify this, those days are when a man spend everything on the lady because then, men and women are not considered equal. The man was/is considered the bread winner UNTIL recently when women begin to bring up all this crap about what a man can do, a woman can do better. You women are the cause of your problems. Only if you let the man be a man will you enjoy him. And to correct your statement about those days and this day, when both man and woman are working, earning money, both has to spend their money. A working woman should Never wait on the man to give her money to get her hair done nor to buy small things that she could afford with her money. If you think all MEN are created equal and that a woman can do better what a man can do, then it's high time you women should get up on your feet and stop asking your men money to get your hair done when you have a career that pays you well.
Simply becos I'm working therefore I should maintain myself, feed the family, pay rent etc then the man would use his money drinking and spending on other women. You try wella. Clap for ya sef. | Posted: at 8-09-2010 09:23 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "humblej") humblej at 8-09-2010 09:34 AM (14 years ago) (m) This kind of person might end up being a victim to those who do money rituals coz with the way she cares about dating person with plenty money, ppl might trap her with that kind of money if she doesn't repent.
Loving, humble and humorous to sane & reasonable people | Posted: at 8-09-2010 09:34 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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TRUE TALK__Humblej | Posted: at 8-09-2010 10:04 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Actress Uche Iwuji tells Encomium mag when asked why she broke up with her ex i quote "I broke up with him because he could not take care of my needs and I cannot see myself suffering or spending for a guy. If you want to marry me, I think you should be able to take good care of me. You don't need to give me everything, you don't need to give me the world.
Just want little, like take this money, go and do your hair. Take this money, travel, take a flight and all that. You need to show some concern, show me that you are a man. Let me see and feel the man in the house. You don't have to tell me you are a man, you have to show it. So why do I have to keep suffering over a man who cannot take care of my needs? My ex is loving but he's not somebody that can take care of my needs and that's why I broke up with him."
Is this enough reason for breaking up with a man?, is this what young girls would like to read about actress like Uche whom they see as their role model?.
dz gurl iz crazy nd olso a money monger, r dey married dat d guy shuld shoulder 4 ol dz responsibility?? perhaps ain't she working ? well i don't blame her maybe 1 of d LEGISLOOTERS in ABJ dun promise her heaven on earth. dz disgustin..she shuld go ***** her momma's ****y. You don try well well. Clap for ya self. So if she is working, she should spend for her self becos she is in love? Mr dear, gone are those days when ladies spend money on themselves and the guy will take the glory. babes dey vex, level don change. In which world do you live in today? i think you meant the opposite of what you just said. To clarify this, those days are when a man spend everything on the lady because then, men and women are not considered equal. The man was/is considered the bread winner UNTIL recently when women begin to bring up all this crap about what a man can do, a woman can do better. You women are the cause of your problems. Only if you let the man be a man will you enjoy him. And to correct your statement about those days and this day, when both man and woman are working, earning money, both has to spend their money. A working woman should Never wait on the man to give her money to get her hair done nor to buy small things that she could afford with her money. If you think all MEN are created equal and that a woman can do better what a man can do, then it's high time you women should get up on your feet and stop asking your men money to get your hair done when you have a career that pays you well. Simply becos I'm working therefore I should maintain myself, feed the family, pay rent etc then the man would use his money drinking and spending on other women. You try wella. Clap for ya sef. You are saying something else now. what I said was that if a woman is working, she should get her hair done with her own money and buy the little things she could afford, with her own money INSTEAD of waiting on the man to spend on everything she needs. In this modern world, if both are working, both should contribute to the welfare of the family and this depends on what each of you are making. If the man is making more, he should contribute more. The reverse is the case when the woman is making more. Whether he uses his money to drink or not is not something anyone should be bothered about so long as he contributes his own share on the family.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 8-09-2010 10:50 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Idk | Posted: at 8-09-2010 10:53 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "kason") kason at 8-09-2010 11:10 AM (14 years ago) (m) all that glitters are not gold.dose that hunt with gun also died with bullets.love can take u aneywhere from somewhere.   | Posted: at 8-09-2010 11:10 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "bomsiluv") bomsiluv at 8-09-2010 12:52 PM (14 years ago) (f) Actress Uche Iwuji tells Encomium mag when asked why she broke up with her ex i quote "I broke up with him because he could not take care of my needs and I cannot see myself suffering or spending for a guy. If you want to marry me, I think you should be able to take good care of me. You don't need to give me everything, you don't need to give me the world.
Just want little, like take this money, go and do your hair. Take this money, travel, take a flight and all that. You need to show some concern, show me that you are a man. Let me see and feel the man in the house. You don't have to tell me you are a man, you have to show it. So why do I have to keep suffering over a man who cannot take care of my needs? My ex is loving but he's not somebody that can take care of my needs and that's why I broke up with him."
Is this enough reason for breaking up with a man?, is this what young girls would like to read about actress like Uche whom they see as their role model?.
dz gurl iz crazy nd olso a money monger, r dey married dat d guy shuld shoulder 4 ol dz responsibility?? perhaps ain't she working ? well i don't blame her maybe 1 of d LEGISLOOTERS in ABJ dun promise her heaven on earth. dz disgustin..she shuld go ***** her momma's ****y. You don try well well. Clap for ya self. So if she is working, she should spend for her self becos she is in love? Mr dear, gone are those days when ladies spend money on themselves and the guy will take the glory. babes dey vex, level don change. In which world do you live in today? i think you meant the opposite of what you just said. To clarify this, those days are when a man spend everything on the lady because then, men and women are not considered equal. The man was/is considered the bread winner UNTIL recently when women begin to bring up all this crap about what a man can do, a woman can do better. You women are the cause of your problems. Only if you let the man be a man will you enjoy him. And to correct your statement about those days and this day, when both man and woman are working, earning money, both has to spend their money. A working woman should Never wait on the man to give her money to get her hair done nor to buy small things that she could afford with her money. If you think all MEN are created equal and that a woman can do better what a man can do, then it's high time you women should get up on your feet and stop asking your men money to get your hair done when you have a career that pays you well. Simply becos I'm working therefore I should maintain myself, feed the family, pay rent etc then the man would use his money drinking and spending on other women. You try wella. Clap for ya sef. You are saying something else now. what I said was that if a woman is working, she should get her hair done with her own money and buy the little things she could afford, with her own money INSTEAD of waiting on the man to spend on everything she needs. In this modern world, if both are working, both should contribute to the welfare of the family and this depends on what each of you are making. If the man is making more, he should contribute more. The reverse is the case when the woman is making more. Whether he uses his money to drink or not is not something anyone should be bothered about so long as he contributes his own share on the family. He should stand up to his responsibility not telling me no money each time I ask. | Posted: at 8-09-2010 12:52 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "atamajim") atamajim at 8-09-2010 01:18 PM (14 years ago) (m) too bad 4 ha.....
What is too bad? You dey like free thing. See, free thing dey purge. bomsiluv, i'm very rich come make i marry u i go take you to the most beautiful city in the world for our honey moon, and will buy you any car of your choice afterward s, heheheheh i know say u don accept  | Posted: at 8-09-2010 01:18 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Actress Uche Iwuji tells Encomium mag when asked why she broke up with her ex i quote "I broke up with him because he could not take care of my needs and I cannot see myself suffering or spending for a guy. If you want to marry me, I think you should be able to take good care of me. You don't need to give me everything, you don't need to give me the world.
Just want little, like take this money, go and do your hair. Take this money, travel, take a flight and all that. You need to show some concern, show me that you are a man. Let me see and feel the man in the house. You don't have to tell me you are a man, you have to show it. So why do I have to keep suffering over a man who cannot take care of my needs? My ex is loving but he's not somebody that can take care of my needs and that's why I broke up with him."
Is this enough reason for breaking up with a man?, is this what young girls would like to read about actress like Uche whom they see as their role model?.
dz gurl iz crazy nd olso a money monger, r dey married dat d guy shuld shoulder 4 ol dz responsibility?? perhaps ain't she working ? well i don't blame her maybe 1 of d LEGISLOOTERS in ABJ dun promise her heaven on earth. dz disgustin..she shuld go ***** her momma's ****y. You don try well well. Clap for ya self. So if she is working, she should spend for her self becos she is in love? Mr dear, gone are those days when ladies spend money on themselves and the guy will take the glory. babes dey vex, level don change. In which world do you live in today? i think you meant the opposite of what you just said. To clarify this, those days are when a man spend everything on the lady because then, men and women are not considered equal. The man was/is considered the bread winner UNTIL recently when women begin to bring up all this crap about what a man can do, a woman can do better. You women are the cause of your problems. Only if you let the man be a man will you enjoy him. And to correct your statement about those days and this day, when both man and woman are working, earning money, both has to spend their money. A working woman should Never wait on the man to give her money to get her hair done nor to buy small things that she could afford with her money. If you think all MEN are created equal and that a woman can do better what a man can do, then it's high time you women should get up on your feet and stop asking your men money to get your hair done when you have a career that pays you well. Simply becos I'm working therefore I should maintain myself, feed the family, pay rent etc then the man would use his money drinking and spending on other women. You try wella. Clap for ya sef. You are saying something else now. what I said was that if a woman is working, she should get her hair done with her own money and buy the little things she could afford, with her own money INSTEAD of waiting on the man to spend on everything she needs. In this modern world, if both are working, both should contribute to the welfare of the family and this depends on what each of you are making. If the man is making more, he should contribute more. The reverse is the case when the woman is making more. Whether he uses his money to drink or not is not something anyone should be bothered about so long as he contributes his own share on the family. He should stand up to his responsibility not telling me no money each time I ask. Let's just say he spends and spends on you without you spending any of your money, Are you willing to do all the house chores, which includes washing dishes, washing clothes, cleaning the house, cooking, sweeping the house compound etc with him not helping you do all these things?
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 8-09-2010 01:37 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "SAmyrocko") SAmyrocko at 8-09-2010 01:45 PM (14 years ago) (m) It's advisable for every guy to have enough cash and more importantly earning capacity to sustain his relationship with his woman, shouldering his responsibilities and be able to have excesses for fun every now and then.
That means l won't go lnto a relationship again  As l never get that kain money to dey spend :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th | Posted: at 8-09-2010 01:45 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "onyin") onyin at 8-09-2010 01:48 PM (14 years ago) (f) It's advisable for every guy to have enough cash and more importantly earning capacity to sustain his relationship with his woman, shouldering his responsibilities and be able to have excesses for fun every now and then.
That means l won't go lnto a relationship again As l never get that kain money to dey spend :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( Hmmmmmmmmmm I think he meant ur wife. spend ur money on your wife not girlfriend.make ur girlfriend go find job.But if you fit give,give her sha.but if not dont even try spending too much money on ur girlfriend. | Posted: at 8-09-2010 01:48 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "SAmyrocko") SAmyrocko at 8-09-2010 02:12 PM (14 years ago) (m) It's advisable for every guy to have enough cash and more importantly earning capacity to sustain his relationship with his woman, shouldering his responsibilities and be able to have excesses for fun every now and then.
That means l won't go lnto a relationship again As l never get that kain money to dey spend :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( Hmmmmmmmmmm I think he meant ur wife. spend ur money on your wife not girlfriend.make ur girlfriend go find job.But if you fit give,give her sha.but if not dont even try spending too much money on ur girlfriend. Okay,thats much better now. Hmmmm, Onyi, some of these girls actually thinks that lf you are dating them fate has made it that you'll not cater for all their needs. However, l thank God for rescuing me from them sha! l'm talking from experience and thats the much reason why l don't want to start any other relatioship for the time being.l am really focusing on other things. 
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th | Posted: at 8-09-2010 02:12 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "onyin") onyin at 8-09-2010 02:27 PM (14 years ago) (f) It's advisable for every guy to have enough cash and more importantly earning capacity to sustain his relationship with his woman, shouldering his responsibilities and be able to have excesses for fun every now and then.
That means l won't go lnto a relationship again As l never get that kain money to dey spend :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( Hmmmmmmmmmm I think he meant ur wife. spend ur money on your wife not girlfriend.make ur girlfriend go find job.But if you fit give,give her sha.but if not dont even try spending too much money on ur girlfriend. Okay,thats much better now. Hmmmm, Onyi, some of these girls actually thinks that lf you are dating them fate has made it that you'll not cater for all their needs. However, l thank God for rescuing me from them sha! l'm talking from experience and thats the much reason why l don't want to start any other relatioship for the time being.l am really focusing on other things. Becos you are who to them?.Abi Na you born her?.Trust me ,such kind of girls just BONE them.But I'm happy for you,just concentrate on urself and ur future.With time the right one will come.TIME IS A TEST. | Posted: at 8-09-2010 02:27 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "SAmyrocko") SAmyrocko at 8-09-2010 02:33 PM (14 years ago) (m) It's advisable for every guy to have enough cash and more importantly earning capacity to sustain his relationship with his woman, shouldering his responsibilities and be able to have excesses for fun every now and then.
That means l won't go lnto a relationship again As l never get that kain money to dey spend :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( Hmmmmmmmmmm I think he meant ur wife. spend ur money on your wife not girlfriend.make ur girlfriend go find job.But if you fit give,give her sha.but if not dont even try spending too much money on ur girlfriend. Okay,thats much better now. Hmmmm, Onyi, some of these girls actually thinks that lf you are dating them fate has made it that you'll not cater for all their needs. However, l thank God for rescuing me from them sha! l'm talking from experience and thats the much reason why l don't want to start any other relatioship for the time being.l am really focusing on other things. Becos you are who to them?.Abi Na you born her?.Trust me ,such kind of girls just BONE them.But I'm happy for you,just concentrate on urself and ur future.With time the right one will come.TIME IS A TEST. Na she know whether l be her father ! All the same thank you for your advice. 
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th | Posted: at 8-09-2010 02:33 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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SHE IS SAYING HER MIND. SAY YOURS. | Posted: at 8-09-2010 03:04 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "bhl72") bhl72 at 8-09-2010 03:09 PM (14 years ago) (m) good for him some men are too greedy
too bad... am sure you wouldn't have done otherwise | Posted: at 8-09-2010 03:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "mykelly") mykelly at 8-09-2010 03:14 PM (14 years ago) (m) Good for her | Posted: at 8-09-2010 03:14 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "SAmyrocko") SAmyrocko at 8-09-2010 03:28 PM (14 years ago) (m) SHE IS SAYING HER MIND. SAY YOURS.
And whats your own mind
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th | Posted: at 8-09-2010 03:28 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "shaoyang") shaoyang at 8-09-2010 04:04 PM (14 years ago) (m) i know say she must be an igbo girl SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT; you girls hav used this money thing to chase many Igo boy into all sorts of misery in life if we the igbo society will survive it starts from the ladies. An hausa girl can never open her mouth to vomit this kind of TRASH. | Posted: at 8-09-2010 04:04 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "bomsiluv") bomsiluv at 8-09-2010 04:12 PM (14 years ago) (f) i know say she must be an igbo girl SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT; you girls hav used this money thing to chase many Igo boy into all sorts of misery in life
if we the igbo society will survive it starts from the ladies. An hausa girl can never open her mouth to vomit this kind of TRASH.
Story | Posted: at 8-09-2010 04:12 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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