Hi pips, please som1 is in despitrate need of u guys advice.
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There's a lady that's in serious mess right now...............according to her, she said when she was younger lets say 7 to 8 years back, she was dating 2 guys at the-same time, but unfortunately for her 1 day she had *** with both of the guys and she took in not knowing the original owner.
She delivered the child which happened to b a boy, but the mistake she did waz dat she gave d boy to the wrong owner( The wrong owner happens to be the one she loves most and would want to get married to) Right now she is about to get married to the one she love( the wrong owner) in a couple of months, but her 7years mistake is now very vivid to her in the sense that she now SEES 100% RESEMBLANCE of the ORIGINAL OWNER( but they not 2gether again) in her baby boy of 7yrs living with the wrong dad.
So her question now is " PLEASE SHOULD I STILL GO ON WITH THE MARRIAGE AND DO AN EVERLASTING INJUSTICE TO THE POOR BOY, OR I SHOULD QUIT THE MARRIAGE?''
Posted: at 6-09-2010 07:58 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
cheii she shouldn't quit the marriage. let her give the baby to his father if he is in demand of it[child]. i don't see any reason why she want to quit the marriage.........hahahah this is what she got from doubling dating...meanwhile,since she knew who the real daddy is i guess is right ,for her to tell the child who is his real father is...and carry on with the wedding plans.
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Posted: at 6-09-2010 09:09 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Really complicated but i'll suggest you do a DNA test to really find out the father so that it would be better to hand the child over to his real dad.
You can give him to the person you thought is the father based on what you see now(the so called resemblance) and later you find out you made a mistake. You know children tends to change in their looks as they grow
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Posted: at 7-09-2010 08:50 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
divineproject at 7-09-2010 09:55 AM (13 years ago) (f)
One's father is not just he who provided the sperm that formed him/her, but he who has given him/her love and acted in every way as a father!
This is one dark secret of her life which she should have dealt with a long time ago but unfortunately she didnt. Is the man marrying her because of the child? Well, even though it is hard but I think she has to deal with this problem first b4 the marriage proper becos the man would find it difficult to forgive her if she tells him after the marriage.......He will feel betrayed!
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Posted: at 7-09-2010 09:55 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
blessedme at 7-09-2010 10:33 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Tellin d father d truth is very good but wat i suggest is
1. if u conduct a DNA test to be sure of whom d father of d child is ow do u do that without bringing d two men to clash?
2. If truely d child is d other man ow will ur hubby rate u even if d child was his?
3. Do u think he will still want to carry out with d marriage?
4. He will see u as a cheat and feel sorry for himself for taking care of another man's child all d while
What i suggest is that since u re not even sure of d father, and no one knws wat u ve done, i think u should let d sleepin dog lie and carry on with your marriage plan
It is always very hard b4 a single mother get married think about d implications and where u are coming from simply close ya mouth and forget dat such ever happen
Posted: at 7-09-2010 10:33 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
livingmodel at 7-09-2010 11:07 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: blessedme on 7-09-2010 10:33 AM
Tellin d father d truth is very good but wat i suggest is
1. if u conduct a DNA test to be sure of whom d father of d child is ow do u do that without bringing d two men to clash?
2. If truely d child is d other man ow will ur hubby rate u even if d child was his?
3. Do u think he will still want to carry out with d marriage?
4. He will see u as a cheat and feel sorry for himself for taking care of another man's child all d while
What i suggest is that since u re not even sure of d father, and no one knws wat u ve done, i think u should let d sleepin dog lie and carry on with your marriage plan
It is always very hard b4 a single mother get married think about d implications and where u are coming from simply close ya mouth and forget dat such ever happen
Is not good to hide anything in marriage even if it will hurt bcos one day it will surely be out. Poster, tell her to come out clean before d said marriage take place.
Posted: at 7-09-2010 11:07 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
Tellin d father d truth is very good but wat i suggest is
1. if u conduct a DNA test to be sure of whom d father of d child is ow do u do that without bringing d two men to clash?
2. If truely d child is d other man ow will ur hubby rate u even if d child was his?
3. Do u think he will still want to carry out with d marriage?
4. He will see u as a cheat and feel sorry for himself for taking care of another man's child all d while
What i suggest is that since u re not even sure of d father, and no one knws wat u ve done, i think u should let d sleepin dog lie and carry on with your marriage plan
It is always very hard b4 a single mother get married think about d implications and where u are coming from simply close ya mouth and forget dat such ever happen
4 how long can she hide d truth huhh ?? Blessedme i neva xpected dz kinda advice frm u..
Posted: at 7-09-2010 11:22 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
i was only suggesting becos there is no ow she is gonna do a DNA test without draggin d two men to clash
i feel it is even better the men clash now that clashing later when it will be too late to correct any mistakes
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 7-09-2010 11:43 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
Hi pips, please som1 is in despitrate need of u guys advice.
[center]FULL-STORY[/center
There's a lady that's in serious mess right now...............according to her, she said when she was younger lets say 7 to 8 years back, she was dating 2 guys at the-same time, but unfortunately for her 1 day she had *** with both of the guys and she took in not knowing the original owner.
She delivered the child which happened to b a boy, but the mistake she did waz dat she gave d boy to the wrong owner( The wrong owner happens to be the one she loves most and would want to get married to) Right now she is about to get married to the one she love( the wrong owner) in a couple of months, but her 7years mistake is now very vivid to her in the sense that she now SEES 100% RESEMBLANCE of the ORIGINAL OWNER( but they not 2gether again) in her baby boy of 7yrs living with the wrong dad.
So her question now is " PLEASE SHOULD I STILL GO ON WITH THE MARRIAGE AND DO AN EVERLASTING INJUSTICE TO THE POOR BOY, OR I SHOULD QUIT THE MARRIAGE?''
YOU LISTEN TO INSPIRATIONAL FM PROGRAMME SHARING LIFE ISSUES BY CHAZ B. THIS CERTAINLY IS A CONFESSION BY A LADY ON FRIDAY EVENING. WELL MY BROTHER I'M CONFUSED, I JUST PITY MY FELLOW GUYS, ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY SAY I LOVE AND TRUST MY GURL OR WOMAN. THERE WERE SEVERAL SHOCKING CONFESSION BY WOMEN THAT DAY THAT MADE ME WONDER. THE WORST OF IT ALL WAS THAT THEY WERE LAUGHING AND SAYING THEY HAVE GOTTEN OVER IT. SINCE THAT DAY, WHEN EVER I'M WITH MY WOMAN, I'LL JUST BE LOOKING AT HER IN SILENCE AND SHE HAS BEEN WONDERING WHY BUT I CAN'T JUST TELL HER THE REASON
Posted: at 7-09-2010 11:45 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
AlphaOscar at 7-09-2010 03:40 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Yee shall know the truth, and the truth shall set you free. I think the best thing for her is to seek God's and spiritual guidiance on this issue because for all Gs that has been contributing, it is easier said than done o. I believe if God leads her to do it she won't have problem 'cos the will be well prepared.
Posted: at 7-09-2010 03:40 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
Poster, u need no advice. 2 guys phyuked under 24hrs! u're worse than ashawo. Just bounce off dis place and die! ........7yrs,i pity d guy sha, d baby go don nearly finish primary skl sef
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Posted: at 7-09-2010 05:00 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Poster, u need no advice. 2 guys *****ed under 24hrs! u're worse than ashawo. Just bounce off dis place and die! ........7yrs,i pity d guy sha, d baby go don nearly finish primary skl sef
kai ...
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Posted: at 7-09-2010 06:25 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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