SHE NEEDS ADVICE PLEASE (Page 4)

Date: 06-09-2010 7:58 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Luther
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- FlyMamacita at 9-09-2010 08:52 AM (14 years ago)
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Yea well i think Michro is right....

She did sometin very very stupid and she gotta learn her lesson....

U dont sleep unprotected with 2 guys within 24 hours....
Posted: at 9-09-2010 08:52 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- wunzie at 9-09-2010 06:07 PM (14 years ago)
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Well said.

Posted: at 9-09-2010 06:07 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- luther4real at 9-09-2010 07:07 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: atamajim on  7-09-2010 11:45 AM
Quote from: luther4real on  6-09-2010 07:58 PM

Hi pips, please som1 is in despitrate need of u guys advice.

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There's a lady that's in serious mess right now...............according to her, she said when she was younger lets say 7 to 8 years back,
she was dating 2 guys at the-same time, but unfortunately for her 1 day she had *** with both of the guys and she took in not knowing the original owner.

She delivered the child which happened to b a boy, but the mistake she did waz dat she gave d boy to the wrong owner( The wrong owner happens to be the one she loves most and would want to get married to)
 Right now she is about to get married to the one she love( the wrong owner) in a couple of months, but her 7years mistake is now very vivid to her in the sense that she now SEES 100% RESEMBLANCE of the ORIGINAL OWNER( but they not 2gether again) in her baby boy of 7yrs living with the wrong dad.

So her question now is " PLEASE SHOULD I STILL GO ON WITH THE MARRIAGE AND DO AN EVERLASTING INJUSTICE TO THE POOR BOY, OR I SHOULD QUIT THE MARRIAGE?''




 YOU LISTEN TO INSPIRATIONAL FM PROGRAMME SHARING LIFE ISSUES BY CHAZ B. THIS CERTAINLY IS A CONFESSION BY A LADY ON FRIDAY EVENING. WELL MY BROTHER I'M CONFUSED, I JUST PITY MY FELLOW GUYS, ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY SAY I LOVE AND TRUST MY GURL OR WOMAN. THERE WERE SEVERAL SHOCKING CONFESSION BY WOMEN THAT DAY  THAT MADE ME WONDER. THE WORST OF IT ALL WAS THAT THEY  WERE LAUGHING AND SAYING THEY HAVE GOTTEN OVER IT. SINCE THAT DAY, WHEN EVER I'M WITH MY WOMAN, I'LL JUST BE LOOKING AT HER IN SILENCE AND SHE HAS BEEN WONDERING WHY BUT I CAN'T JUST TELL HER THE REASON 


Yep,i listened to Chaz B on Inspiration fm.........................and this confession was made, i rili felt for her but i didn't no wat to suggest either, that's y am asking for u guys opinion(but honestly i don't no d person............lol)
Posted: at 9-09-2010 07:07 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 9-09-2010 08:39 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: wunzie on  9-09-2010 06:07 PM
Well said.
Kiss
Posted: at 9-09-2010 08:39 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Kennee at 9-09-2010 10:30 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on  9-09-2010 08:52 AM
Yea well i think Michro is right....

She did sometin very very stupid and she gotta learn her lesson....

U dont sleep unprotected with 2 guys within 24 hours....


Na she Dey Horny pass na, we never see

Posted: at 9-09-2010 10:30 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- atamajim at 13-09-2010 06:08 PM (14 years ago)
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lets talk the truth now, a girl having unprotected sex with two guys at the same time. is that not wickedness?
Posted: at 13-09-2010 06:08 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Beauti4 at 13-09-2010 06:33 PM (14 years ago)
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DNA test will prove who the father is. the resemblance of the father might b the brother of the father. go ahead and do DNA test, if the man loves u he will still marry u. it doesn't matter. No secret = good marriage, hidden secret = sad marriage.
Posted: at 13-09-2010 06:33 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- snedy at 22-09-2010 06:12 PM (14 years ago)
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say truth and the truth will set u free
Posted: at 22-09-2010 06:12 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- esonu at 22-09-2010 07:03 PM (14 years ago)
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peeped

Posted: at 22-09-2010 07:03 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- silviabells at 22-09-2010 08:00 PM (14 years ago)
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over 7yr i think is better u keep it to urself. no husband aside ooooo
Posted: at 22-09-2010 08:00 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- moneyinbrakemi at 22-09-2010 08:12 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on  9-09-2010 08:52 AM
Yea well i think Michro is right....

She did sometin very very stupid and she gotta learn her lesson....

U dont sleep unprotected with 2 guys within 24 hours....


Hehe__the babe don FALL her hand already__Why on would she sleep with two guys at all?
Posted: at 22-09-2010 08:12 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 23-09-2010 12:25 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: moneyinbrakemi on 22-09-2010 08:12 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on  9-09-2010 08:52 AM
Yea well i think Michro is right....

She did sometin very very stupid and she gotta learn her lesson....

U dont sleep unprotected with 2 guys within 24 hours....


Hehe__the babe don FALL her hand already__Why on would she sleep with two guys at all?
well u can b dat type, if u knw wht i mean...but bein so stupid not to protect ursef hissss
Posted: at 23-09-2010 12:25 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dirtykid at 23-09-2010 12:31 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: luther4real on  6-09-2010 07:58 PM

Hi pips, please som1 is in despitrate need of u guys advice.

[center]FULL-STORY[/center

There's a lady that's in serious mess right now...............according to her, she said when she was younger lets say 7 to 8 years back,
she was dating 2 guys at the-same time, but unfortunately for her 1 day she had *** with both of the guys and she took in not knowing the original owner.

She delivered the child which happened to b a boy, but the mistake she did waz dat she gave d boy to the wrong owner( The wrong owner happens to be the one she loves most and would want to get married to)
 Right now she is about to get married to the one she love( the wrong owner) in a couple of months, but her 7years mistake is now very vivid to her in the sense that she now SEES 100% RESEMBLANCE of the ORIGINAL OWNER( but they not 2gether again) in her baby boy of 7yrs living with the wrong dad.

So her question now is " PLEASE SHOULD I STILL GO ON WITH THE MARRIAGE AND DO AN EVERLASTING INJUSTICE TO THE POOR BOY, OR I SHOULD QUIT THE MARRIAGE?''




If she is very sure that the baby belongs to the other guy, then she the mother stands in the best position to let the guys know, if the one currently with the boy refused to understand this, I think a medical check up on both of them all should be done with Court orders. Just to make sure everything is in clear and right way.

Posted: at 23-09-2010 12:31 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- mykelly at 23-09-2010 12:38 PM (14 years ago)
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tell your husband to be the whole truth and if he truely loves you he will go ahead with the wedding
Posted: at 23-09-2010 12:38 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- agabs at 23-09-2010 12:48 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mykelly on 23-09-2010 12:38 PM
tell your husband to be the whole truth and if he truely loves you he will go ahead with the wedding

Correct yarns na music to my ears.

The truth is immutable. The truth is simple. The truth is oxygen.

1. If she gets married, she will not enjoy the marriage. The secret will hold her a prisoner. She will be under constant tension. Always scared that her marriage will break up.

2. One of the fathers will find out the truth. You can't hide it. One of the fathers will find out the truth.

3. She doesn't have anything to loose. She only thinks she does.

She should come out clean with the truth. The guy may hate her temporarily, he will later learn to respect her.  she will have his respect for life. Cause she respected him and told him the truth. There is something classy and timeless about a person that owns up for mistakes, apologizes and corrects wrongs.

Posted: at 23-09-2010 12:48 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- hotguy77 at 23-09-2010 01:08 PM (14 years ago)
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As far as am concern, that will be the end of the planned marriage cos the guy will feel deceived and can never trust her again. Forget about love here, if for seven years his been taking care of another persons child thinking he is own (without his consent) no amount of love will make that marriage to work.
Posted: at 23-09-2010 01:08 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- moneyinbrakemi at 23-09-2010 01:16 PM (14 years ago)
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Who is she that needs advice?
Posted: at 23-09-2010 01:16 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- xter at 23-09-2010 01:45 PM (14 years ago)
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Mrs who

Posted: at 23-09-2010 01:45 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- moneyinbrakemi at 23-09-2010 02:10 PM (14 years ago)
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Na u sabi __My naija Pikin
Posted: at 23-09-2010 02:10 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- xter at 23-09-2010 02:13 PM (14 years ago)
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Oko na gabon boy

Posted: at 23-09-2010 02:13 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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