Getting Over a Heart Break (Page 3)

Date: 14-09-2010 12:45 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Obiajunwa
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- tyabo at 15-09-2010 08:47 PM (14 years ago)
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begin dey flirt around joor..no time 2 waste..changing of em frequently..ohh 9 no time *accordin 2 MI*
Posted: at 15-09-2010 08:47 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- batos_locos at 15-09-2010 11:13 PM (14 years ago)
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well always let your red wine stay close to you
Posted: at 15-09-2010 11:13 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- mallorca at 15-09-2010 11:33 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: batos_locos on 15-09-2010 11:13 PM
well always let your red wine stay close to you
what of those of us who canot afford red wine?

Posted: at 15-09-2010 11:33 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Makasine at 16-09-2010 03:25 AM (14 years ago)
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IF YOU CAUGHT THAT VAGABOND CHEATING
(ATTACK him if he was your fiance/husband and you are in Nigeria, don't attack the female he is with or you will be a laughing stock), BURN that BASTARD'S things (gifts, pictures, notes, and any things that reminds you of him). (Slash his tires, break his car windows and electronics if he was your fiance/husband). CRY for sometime (tears are the best remedy for wasting your time and resources on a fool that wasn't worth it), eat some CHOCOLATE & ICECREAM, DUST your butt off and move on with life cause it waits for no (wo)man. The IDIOT wasn't worth your time anyways. P.S. DON'T forget to block him out of your life completely.

IF HE TOLD YOU THAT HE DIDN'T WANT YOU ANYMORE
Just pack your bags and leave cause it wasn't meant to be. That's not the man that God has appointed for you and you need to wait for your own man and stop polishing other women's (or men's) men for them.


ANYTHING ELSE
Just forgive and forget cause we are humans and are capable of mistakes.

Posted: at 16-09-2010 03:25 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- esonu at 16-09-2010 07:39 AM (14 years ago)
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lolzzz

Posted: at 16-09-2010 07:39 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- olukayode10 at 16-09-2010 07:53 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: richardisenu on 14-09-2010 01:47 PM
The best way to get over a heart break is solace in the word of GOD. Cheesy

also, stay close to ur friends and family and make new friends.
Posted: at 16-09-2010 07:53 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- Rod10 at 16-09-2010 10:00 AM (14 years ago)
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1) Accept ur disappointment as part of life, 2) Redeem ur losses if possible, if not, 4get it, 3) Get urself ready & look out 4 new luv, new opportunities, new life, 4)
Posted: at 16-09-2010 10:00 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- divineproject at 16-09-2010 10:24 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Makasine on 16-09-2010 03:25 AM
IF YOU CAUGHT THAT VAGABOND CHEATING
(ATTACK him if he was your fiance/husband and you are in Nigeria, don't attack the female he is with or you will be a laughing stock), BURN that BASTARD'S things (gifts, pictures, notes, and any things that reminds you of him). (Slash his tires, break his car windows and electronics if he was your fiance/husband). CRY for sometime (tears are the best remedy for wasting your time and resources on a fool that wasn't worth it), eat some CHOCOLATE & ICECREAM, DUST your butt off and move on with life cause it waits for no (wo)man. The IDIOT wasn't worth your time anyways. P.S. DON'T forget to block him out of your life completely.

IF HE TOLD YOU THAT HE DIDN'T WANT YOU ANYMORE
Just pack your bags and leave cause it wasn't meant to be. That's not the man that God has appointed for you and you need to wait for your own man and stop polishing other women's (or men's) men for them.


ANYTHING ELSE
Just forgive and forget cause we are humans and are capable of mistakes.



That is Extreme............why would you do such simply becos someone who came for a SEASON/REASON has gone?...........

Posted: at 16-09-2010 10:24 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- nellygold at 16-09-2010 10:48 AM (14 years ago)
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Though it may be hard if u really love the person, but taking alone time to think about the events that leads to the break-up/heart-break will help, check if it was ur fault, and try work on them, 'cos chances are that both of u may reconcile, or fall in love with someone that has the same character, if u r done working on yourself (i meant if u where faulty); when next u encounter the same issue it will be of less drama to u:

Having said that; jumping into another relationship wouldn't be way out, 'cos that 'ill easily attract insecurities..., u may keep a casual date to while away time without anything serious, don't even think about bedding..; try and engage yourself in things u love doing, hanging-out with friends', comedy movies will help too; music, browsing etc, but above all, when you find yourself thinking of his/her good qualities, try hard to  stop that; quit thinking about what was good in him/her –-- and instead think of all the negative things he/she has done to u, then tell yourself that he/she doesn't deserve u.

Last but not the least, keep an open communication with him/her (i don't mean u should call), but when he/she does, try as much as possible to be indifferent/neutral while communicating..., that way he/she will be trying to know what's makings u tick overnight.., if u are still interested, u know what to do, if not, back-out, either way still maintain the way of communication for awhile, that way u stand the chance of gaining more respect/attention.

I hope this help.
Posted: at 16-09-2010 10:48 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 16-09-2010 11:26 AM (14 years ago)
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Yea that sure would help......thanks a zillion!

Posted: at 16-09-2010 11:26 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 16-09-2010 11:37 AM (14 years ago)
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Allys remmember tht God loves you more .
Posted: at 16-09-2010 11:37 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- nellygold at 16-09-2010 11:47 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 16-09-2010 11:26 AM
Yea that sure would help......thanks a zillion!

You are welcome D P
Posted: at 16-09-2010 11:47 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ashimole at 16-09-2010 11:53 AM (14 years ago)
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i have been in the position before but the only to get over it is by:
reading your bible very time.
going to church activities.
spend time with friends and disscus important issues.
and take it up as a big challenge and plan big.
Posted: at 16-09-2010 11:53 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kayfem at 16-09-2010 11:57 AM (14 years ago)
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never had one
Posted: at 16-09-2010 11:57 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- divineproject at 16-09-2010 12:05 PM (14 years ago)
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meaning you never loved and lost.............

Posted: at 16-09-2010 12:05 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Eucharia at 16-09-2010 12:26 PM (14 years ago)
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tell me who breaks ur herts frst let me use hammer and 12 inches nail to nail him or her on the cross ok,, so cry no more God loves you more alwys read ur Bible believe God and trust urselve. u can even do 2 weeks dry fasting for him.
Posted: at 16-09-2010 12:26 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- SammyDawn at 16-09-2010 12:27 PM (14 years ago)
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Accepting whatever incident first then taking time beliving whatever is lost or its like or beter can come.
A fiancee of my was just snatched by an Edo Jaman business man, and she promises to cheat on him with me,
God-forbid. you wunt believe how fast I have coped.

Posted: at 16-09-2010 12:27 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- dirtykid at 16-09-2010 12:29 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 14-09-2010 12:45 PM
A lot of us here have been through one heart break or the other.  So I (we) want to know how you got over it.

What are the steps, what are the Dos and Donts?........Let us share ideas, we could be helping someone who might be passing through this issue now.......or rather, what do you advise a heart broken guy/lady to do to get over it?

But hearts don't break, unless you went for surgery..... I never get one surgery at all, My heart is intact.

Maybe you're talking about people who dream dreams and wish that there dreams should come to pass, and along the line, it doesn't, they have to continue dreaming different style and let go the first one. thats all.

Posted: at 16-09-2010 12:29 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Eucharia at 16-09-2010 12:32 PM (14 years ago)
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Sammydawn sory oooo for the heart break i will deal with two of them cry no more
Posted: at 16-09-2010 12:32 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- nenemelody147 at 16-09-2010 12:38 PM (14 years ago)
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heart break it self is a cure to the dieases called love.all you need do is b happy that you have been cured.......
Posted: at 16-09-2010 12:38 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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