Getting Over a Heart Break (Page 3)

begin dey flirt around joor..no time 2 waste..changing of em frequently..ohh 9 no time *accordin 2 MI*

Posted: at 15-09-2010 08:47 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

what of those of us who canot afford red wine?

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Posted: at 15-09-2010 11:33 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

lolzzz

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Posted: at 16-09-2010 07:39 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

1) Accept ur disappointment as part of life, 2) Redeem ur losses if possible, if not, 4get it, 3) Get urself ready & look out 4 new luv, new opportunities, new life, 4)

Posted: at 16-09-2010 10:00 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Though it may be hard if u really love the person, but taking alone time to think about the events that leads to the break-up/heart-break will help, check if it was ur fault, and try work on them, 'cos chances are that both of u may reconcile, or fall in love with someone that has the same character, if u r done working on yourself (i meant if u where faulty); when next u encounter the same issue it will be of less drama to u:

Having said that; jumping into another relationship wouldn't be way out, 'cos that 'ill easily attract insecurities..., u may keep a casual date to while away time without anything serious, don't even think about bedding..; try and engage yourself in things u love doing, hanging-out with friends', comedy movies will help too; music, browsing etc, but above all, when you find yourself thinking of his/her good qualities, try hard to  stop that; quit thinking about what was good in him/her –-- and instead think of all the negative things he/she has done to u, then tell yourself that he/she doesn't deserve u.

Last but not the least, keep an open communication with him/her (i don't mean u should call), but when he/she does, try as much as possible to be indifferent/neutral while communicating..., that way he/she will be trying to know what's makings u tick overnight.., if u are still interested, u know what to do, if not, back-out, either way still maintain the way of communication for awhile, that way u stand the chance of gaining more respect/attention.

I hope this help.

Posted: at 16-09-2010 10:48 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Allys remmember tht God loves you more .

Posted: at 16-09-2010 11:37 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

i have been in the position before but the only to get over it is by:
reading your bible very time.
going to church activities.
spend time with friends and disscus important issues.
and take it up as a big challenge and plan big.

Posted: at 16-09-2010 11:53 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

meaning you never loved and lost.............

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Posted: at 16-09-2010 12:05 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Accepting whatever incident first then taking time beliving whatever is lost or its like or beter can come.
A fiancee of my was just snatched by an Edo Jaman business man, and she promises to cheat on him with me,
God-forbid. you wunt believe how fast I have coped.

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Posted: at 16-09-2010 12:27 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Sammydawn sory oooo for the heart break i will deal with two of them cry no more

Posted: at 16-09-2010 12:32 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming