What do you truly consider about an individual on this site before adding him or her to your pal's list as a friend? Is it based on beauty/handsome, character/personality, fame, intelligence, humility, controversiality, location, cute profile layout, rich picture gallery or just the numbers (adding at random). ?
For me, i take my time to study an individual based on his or her level of interaction with other members and ofcourse their activities, comments and posts around different sections of this site eg. forums, confessions and blogs. Below is a list of some (can't list all of them) of my pals i hold on high esteem and the reason for adding each one of them as pal;
1. kennee: This young man is so down to earth theres no pretence in him 2. divineproject: She stands for purity, she cares for everyone equally and shes very rich in integrity...If God grants me a next life (Joseph d dreamer), this young lady will definitely be my wife...lol 3. juliet86: Shes got a shipload of humility, she may be beautiful, it doesnt goes to her head 4. Mr-world: This young man has got guts and hes got a good sense of humor. I like this boy. 5. Nattyrag: This brother of zion is a true apostle of what he stands for; brotherliness and equitable justice. He does not discriminates despite his fame in the entertainment world. 6. qunodinga: I love this young lady for her excellent sense of humor, she tries her best to carry everyone along. she does not discriminate 7. vixenx: Shes so down to earth, shes got swagger and she no send anyone...lol. i love that in a woman 8. PreetyInstinct: Very intelligent young lady yet highly unpredictable. She could be misjudged from afar but at close range, shes such a wonderful Angel to have as friend 9. Misty120: My 'fantabulous' non-9ja friend...this lady keeps it real at all times. 10. bittersweet: Come on! ...hehehe. shes straight, intelligent and shes got style 11. Ikoto: hmmm...this guy should have been number one on this list...lol. this guy has the capacity of making a dead man burst into laughter. with ikoto around, theres no dull moment...I love this guy 12. mazi: This guy is full of maturity and wisdom
Ok peeps...set your keyboard talking, list some of your pals you respect a lot and your reasons for adding them as pals.
VeNi ViDi VeSA!!! ----->
Posted: at 19-09-2010 04:52 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
misty120 at 19-09-2010 05:28 PM (14 years ago) (f)
wow, you are not going to believe this...lol this was going to be my first question to post in Forum When someone request to be added to my pals list, if I am not familiar with them...I always go into the profile if possible and read the "about me section". I am not influenced by the profile layout. The music section catches my attention first because i am a lover of music. I notice the footprints left behind because it says much about a person Character. I also look at the level of intelligence/maturity because that tells me if I am going to be able to communicate with my pal. Most important, I try to determine if that person has a sincere heart and a sense of humor. pkingx you have it all, and you are a great Friend. NP has some wonderful people on this site.
Posted: at 19-09-2010 05:28 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
bittersweet at 19-09-2010 05:46 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Oh,King,you don't want me to start listing my pals here,do you? Because I can't list them all,and some will may feel left apart,u know? I have some special ppls here(u're one of them, of course !Really special ppl! To answer to your question, about how I accept ppl's request (I said accept,because I hardly add ppl.I think I didn't do it more than 2 times),so, at beginning, I was just accepting them on simple criterias,because I simply didn't want to offend anybody by rejecting their add,so I was only going to their profile after I was receiving the request ,and if I wasn't seeing weird things there,no problem, they were welcome, but now....I'm thinking a little more before accepting, because there were some problems (u imagine what I'm talking about! ). Anyway,thanks for your words!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 19-09-2010 05:46 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
moneyinbrakemi at 19-09-2010 06:01 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: bittersweet on 19-09-2010 05:46 PM
Oh,King,you don't want me to start listing my pals here,do you? Because I can't list them all,and some will may feel left apart,u know? I have some special ppls here(u're one of them, of course !Really special ppl! To answer to your question, about how I accept ppl's request (I said accept,because I hardly add ppl.I think I didn't do it more than 2 times),so, at beginning, I was just accepting them on simple criterias,because I simply didn't want to offend anybody by rejecting their add,so I was only going to their profile after I was receiving the request ,and if I wasn't seeing weird things there,no problem, they were welcome, but now....I'm thinking a little more before accepting, because there were some problems (u imagine what I'm talking about! ). Anyway,thanks for your words!
So you viewed all this criterias before ADDING ME abi? Come o_Did you actually added me or I added you? So on what basis did you add me__Did you see WEIRD things on my profile!
Posted: at 19-09-2010 06:01 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
This is one of the"sit back & think"post i've come across in recent times. I strongly believe that even the dullest brain has something to teach consciousily or unconsciousily.Show of intellingence,humility and sense of humour always impress me. I like pals that didn't narrow down themselves to only one forum participants.I am not too strict on pals selection but I prioritised them.
Posted: at 19-09-2010 06:02 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 19-09-2010 06:04 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: moneyinbrakemi on 19-09-2010 06:01 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 19-09-2010 05:46 PM
Oh,King,you don't want me to start listing my pals here,do you? Because I can't list them all,and some will may feel left apart,u know? I have some special ppls here(u're one of them, of course !Really special ppl! To answer to your question, about how I accept ppl's request (I said accept,because I hardly add ppl.I think I didn't do it more than 2 times),so, at beginning, I was just accepting them on simple criterias,because I simply didn't want to offend anybody by rejecting their add,so I was only going to their profile after I was receiving the request ,and if I wasn't seeing weird things there,no problem, they were welcome, but now....I'm thinking a little more before accepting, because there were some problems (u imagine what I'm talking about! ). Anyway,thanks for your words!
So you viewed all this criterias before ADDING ME abi? Come o_Did you actually added me or I added you? So on what basis did you add me__Did you see WEIRD things on my profile!
As I said, I hardly add ppl,so...u added me,my friend! Don't you remember? Hmm! So, if I accepted your request ,no weird things there!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 19-09-2010 06:04 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
moneyinbrakemi at 19-09-2010 06:07 PM (14 years ago) (m)
@ poster! MY FRIENDS I cannot list cos the space is not enough. AND I have different bond with each of my friends cos some are closer than others while some are like INTIMATE PALS__We discuss and trash personal issues just like we are in the real WORLD!!! I don't want to make it seem like I love some more than others SO LET ME HANG THE COTTON HERE!!!
I Case My Rest!
Posted: at 19-09-2010 06:07 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
wow, you are not going to believe this...lol this was going to be my first question to post in Forum When someone request to be added to my pals list, if I am not familiar with them...I always go into the profile if possible and read the "about me section". I am not influenced by the profile layout. The music section catches my attention first because i am a lover of music. I notice the footprints left behind because it says much about a person Character. I also look at the level of intelligence/maturity because that tells me if I am going to be able to communicate with my pal. Most important, I try to determine if that person has a sincere heart and a sense of humor. pkingx you have it all, and you are a great Friend. NP has some wonderful people on this site.
Thx misty for thinking that way about me...hmmm i must add to ur lines...the 'about me' section of one's profile isn't just enuff to tell one's true nature or character, to me its a 'make-believe' thing. people tell u wat they want u to believe about them in d about me section but when u get closer, not all of it is actually true about them. then d profile song section, hmmm, to a large extent, i quite agree with you that u culd tell a little bit of one's character by the choice of his or her choice of music.
Thx for ur contribution
VeNi ViDi VeSA!!! ----->
Posted: at 19-09-2010 06:13 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
moneyinbrakemi at 19-09-2010 06:17 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: bittersweet on 19-09-2010 06:04 PM
Quote from: moneyinbrakemi on 19-09-2010 06:01 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 19-09-2010 05:46 PM
Oh,King,you don't want me to start listing my pals here,do you? Because I can't list them all,and some will may feel left apart,u know? I have some special ppls here(u're one of them, of course !Really special ppl! To answer to your question, about how I accept ppl's request (I said accept,because I hardly add ppl.I think I didn't do it more than 2 times),so, at beginning, I was just accepting them on simple criterias,because I simply didn't want to offend anybody by rejecting their add,so I was only going to their profile after I was receiving the request ,and if I wasn't seeing weird things there,no problem, they were welcome, but now....I'm thinking a little more before accepting, because there were some problems (u imagine what I'm talking about! ). Anyway,thanks for your words!
So you viewed all this criterias before ADDING ME abi? Come o_Did you actually added me or I added you? So on what basis did you add me__Did you see WEIRD things on my profile!
As I said, I hardly add ppl,so...u added me,my friend! Don't you remember? Hmm! So, if I accepted your request ,no weird things there!
Hehehe__Really? I case my rest as USUAL!
Posted: at 19-09-2010 06:17 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
FAKE PROFILES DOESN'T BOTHER ME ONE BIT, UNLESS PEOPLE HIDE BEHIND THEM TO SPIT VENOM. SHOW THE BOLDNESS OF A LION NEXT TIME......USE YOUR ORIGINAL PROFILE!!
Posted: at 19-09-2010 06:20 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Oh,King,you don't want me to start listing my pals here,do you? Because I can't list them all,and some will may feel left apart,u know? I have some special ppls here(u're one of them, of course !Really special ppl! To answer to your question, about how I accept ppl's request (I said accept,because I hardly add ppl.I think I didn't do it more than 2 times),so, at beginning, I was just accepting them on simple criterias,because I simply didn't want to offend anybody by rejecting their add,so I was only going to their profile after I was receiving the request ,and if I wasn't seeing weird things there,no problem, they were welcome, but now....I'm thinking a little more before accepting, because there were some problems (u imagine what I'm talking about! ). Anyway,thanks for your words!
So you viewed all this criterias before ADDING ME abi? Come o_Did you actually added me or I added you? So on what basis did you add me__Did you see WEIRD things on my profile!
hehehehehehe
VeNi ViDi VeSA!!! ----->
Posted: at 19-09-2010 06:23 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
This is one of the"sit back & think"post i've come across in recent times. I strongly believe that even the dullest brain has something to teach consciousily or unconsciousily.Show of intellingence,humility and sense of humour always impress me. I like pals that didn't narrow down themselves to only one forum participants.I am not too strict on pals selection but I prioritised them.
hmmm, that was brilliant...thx my friend
VeNi ViDi VeSA!!! ----->
Posted: at 19-09-2010 06:25 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
FlyMamacita at 19-09-2010 06:30 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: bittersweet on 19-09-2010 06:20 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 19-09-2010 06:09 PM
hmmm BS did u add me? i think u did heheeee
Mummyyyy! Don't you know all the ppl from your NP list? I'm not there, my dear! I was waiting for your request na!
aaahahahaha u c, tht is d problem...i rily dont knw all d people on ma friend list, i accept everybody with a picture Not cos i check d looks, but then i knw who am talkin to... if it turns out d person want to hurt me i can still delete am, but everybody can b ma friend
I thought we were friends already LOL Why do i hav to add uuuu??
Posted: at 19-09-2010 06:30 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
FlyMamacita at 19-09-2010 06:32 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: pkingx on 19-09-2010 06:21 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 19-09-2010 05:58 PM
to many i like in dis house ! Am not gonna list them for d same reason as BS did...
Yes sister i quite understand about the listing thing but u didnt tell us what you look out for before adding or accepting a new pal
Well, i just check their profile, check if their is a picture so i knw who am talkin to...But i will add everybody, cos am not here to judge u from small information i c
If afta it turns out u wan hurt me, i can still delete u
Posted: at 19-09-2010 06:32 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
bittersweet at 19-09-2010 06:32 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 19-09-2010 06:30 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 19-09-2010 06:20 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 19-09-2010 06:09 PM
hmmm BS did u add me? i think u did heheeee
Mummyyyy! Don't you know all the ppl from your NP list? I'm not there, my dear! I was waiting for your request na!
aaahahahaha u c, tht is d problem...i rily dont knw all d people on ma friend list, i accept everybody with a picture Not cos i check d looks, but then i knw who am talkin to... if it turns out d person want to hurt me i can still delete am, but everybody can b ma friend
I thought we were friends already LOL Why do i hav to add uuuu??
Because I'm the older one na!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 19-09-2010 06:32 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
!Really special ppl!
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