Church cancels wedding after Bride tested 1month pregnant. (Page 3)

Date: 23-09-2010 6:43 am (13 years ago) | Author: Ayobamy Olawale
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- moneyinbrakemi at 23-09-2010 05:47 PM (13 years ago)
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phyuk UPS
Posted: at 23-09-2010 05:47 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- esonu at 23-09-2010 05:49 PM (13 years ago)
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Huh?Huh??

Posted: at 23-09-2010 05:49 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- moneyinbrakemi at 23-09-2010 05:52 PM (13 years ago)
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na u sabi?
Posted: at 23-09-2010 05:52 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- solojaro at 23-09-2010 06:06 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 23-09-2010 04:05 PM
Quote from: xter on 23-09-2010 03:50 PM
D.p, i used to think u're a born again xtian but ur comments on dis  topic flattened me big time....i believe u shld know wat GOD said bout dis issue in d Bible

I am a christian..........but let us face reality..........how many couples stay without sampling b4 marriage?..........tell me............To me, what I consider as marriage is consent by both parties, parents consent and blessing and exchange of gift......that is what marriage is............and am sure that couple has done that............no one would tell me that God doesnt recognise what we call traditional marriage........the white wedding is oyinbo own type of marriage and if I decide to do oyinbo marriage just to fulfill all righteousness, you will cancel it just becos am pregnant?.............
They are yet to understand, Pls. let them understand more. They should pls. stop copying oyibo tradition all in the name of chuch welding. if they where to be my relations, I will even luagh at them because they want to practice oyibo tradition, after all the real marriage before her pregnancy has been performed.
Posted: at 23-09-2010 06:06 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- macgreat at 23-09-2010 06:15 PM (13 years ago)
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Read

Posted: at 23-09-2010 06:15 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Ozie267 at 23-09-2010 10:35 PM (13 years ago)
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passing
Posted: at 23-09-2010 10:35 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- silviabells at 24-09-2010 06:40 AM (13 years ago)
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i see
Posted: at 24-09-2010 06:40 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- desiresluv20 at 24-09-2010 09:31 AM (13 years ago)
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Sin is sin no matter how you paint it.

Posted: at 24-09-2010 09:31 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 24-09-2010 12:23 PM (13 years ago)
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well spoken DP
Posted: at 24-09-2010 12:23 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- KINGJHOE at 17-06-2011 02:47 AM (12 years ago)
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nonsense
Posted: at 17-06-2011 02:47 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- eddyjams at 17-06-2011 04:36 PM (12 years ago)
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The most important thing nah the blessings from both parents and the dowry, even the pastor, rev and bishop sef go MUST ask if both families agrees and dowry has been paid before the pastor/rev/bishop go do the church thing.

mak we leave all these form form thing abeg....why church nor do virginity test for dem nah? the pastor/rev/bishop married a virgin? abi he wife nah virgin wen he marry her?

"Warri"
Posted: at 17-06-2011 04:36 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- Kennee at 18-06-2011 01:45 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Ayobamy on 23-09-2010 06:43 AM
If I may ask, why Pregnancy Test why not Virginity Test ? What about the Men how do you test them if they are virgins ?

I attend the "Largest Church in Nigeria "  here in lagos. I was surprised when I heard on friday that my uncle's wedding
has been canceled and has been moved to another church to take place.


It was reported that a pregnancy test was run and that they figured out his wife to be was already 1 month pregnant which
was the main reason for the cancelation of the wedding to take place in the church.


Now thinking about the whole thing, I would say this is totally wrong, because if indeed this issue has to be judged biblically, I would say it is only written in the bible that one must not have intimacy until you are married which automatically means both parties must still be virgins.


So if thats the case, the general test that needs to be run is virginity test, not pregnancy test, because alot of people have gotten married with their virginity lost prior wedding day. I just dont understand what this is all about. I feel the church didnt do well on this, please someone shed a light on this issue and lets see if they did they right thing or not because "What is good for Adam is what Eve got too !"
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Just so yu know, Dat Virginity Test thing is Violation of the Woman... IT MUST STOP!  Angry

As for the Cancellation due to Pregnancy, it is Right

Posted: at 18-06-2011 01:45 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- monday3 at 18-06-2011 03:19 PM (12 years ago)
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MANY CHURCHES DO TEST B4 WEDING.SO NOT A NEW THING
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- whome at 18-06-2011 03:22 PM (12 years ago)
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i have been wondering where it is in the bible that Adam and Eve had a church wedding,what we heard was that God created Eve from the rib of adam and after Eve had created that was when they started living as husband and wife with no traditional or white wedding just God's blessings so i think
Posted: at 18-06-2011 03:22 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- whome at 18-06-2011 03:24 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: monday3 on 18-06-2011 03:19 PM
MANY CHURCHES DO TEST B4 WEDING.SO NOT A NEW THING

Pregnancy test is carried out in my church as well
Posted: at 18-06-2011 03:24 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- proly at 18-06-2011 03:34 PM (12 years ago)
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yes they conduct preg test in my church  preg no wedn
Posted: at 18-06-2011 03:34 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- un9ja-9ja at 18-06-2011 03:47 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 23-09-2010 04:05 PM
Quote from: xter on 23-09-2010 03:50 PM
D.p, i used to think u're a born again xtian but ur comments on dis  topic flattened me big time....i believe u shld know wat GOD said bout dis issue in d Bible

I am a christian..........but let us face reality..........how many couples stay without sampling b4 marriage?..........tell me............To me, what I consider as marriage is consent by both parties, parents consent and blessing and exchange of gift......that is what marriage is............and am sure that couple has done that............no one would tell me that God doesnt recognise what we call traditional marriage........the white wedding is oyinbo own type of marriage and if I decide to do oyinbo marriage just to fulfill all righteousness, you will cancel it just becos am pregnant?.............
Ignorance is indeed a terrible disease! what has been born again got to do with marriage, the whites brought religion and added their culture to it, have you ever imagine whites people doing traditional marriage! it doesn't exist in their culture and if i may ask, what condition makes a man and a woman husband and wife? once the bride-price is paid and duely accepted, they are declared husband and wife by God (see bible reference) and not a pastor, what a pastor does is just to pronounce blessings upon them and stands as a witness together with the congegration. my brother even if you no get money do church wedding, just pay your woman's bride-price and receive blessings from both parents shikena!!
Posted: at 18-06-2011 03:47 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Kennee at 18-06-2011 03:48 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: whome on 18-06-2011 03:22 PM
i have been wondering where it is in the bible that Adam and Eve had a church wedding,what we heard was that God created Eve from the rib of adam and after Eve had created that was when they started living as husband and wife with no traditional or white wedding just God's blessings so i think

Yes, but things Change with Time  Smiley

Posted: at 18-06-2011 03:48 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- just2sexy at 18-06-2011 03:59 PM (12 years ago)
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african tradition permits sex afta the traditional marriage.. Abi u go talk say all our fore fathers wey no do church wedding go hell?Huh? phyuk them.. except the guy neva pay her bride price

Posted: at 18-06-2011 03:59 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- mediaexcell at 18-06-2011 04:02 PM (12 years ago)
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the church did the right thing
Posted: at 18-06-2011 04:02 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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