Church cancels wedding after Bride tested 1month pregnant. (Page 4)

Date: 23-09-2010 6:43 am (13 years ago) | Author: Ayobamy Olawale
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- kebella at 18-06-2011 04:13 PM (12 years ago)
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ok

Posted: at 18-06-2011 04:13 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- GOLDENMEDAH at 18-06-2011 04:48 PM (12 years ago)
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Rubbish...
Posted: at 18-06-2011 04:48 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- essy59 at 18-06-2011 05:22 PM (12 years ago)
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If it's a sin for couples to make love before their wedding, then it's on the couple's heads and not the church. Isn't it better for both to know if they are segxwally compatible before marriage? Like one of my sis on this forum said.....kini big deal?!
Posted: at 18-06-2011 05:22 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- serababy at 18-06-2011 06:12 PM (12 years ago)
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na waoooooooooooooo
Posted: at 18-06-2011 06:12 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- lumez at 18-06-2011 06:30 PM (12 years ago)
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let us call a spade a spade and nt shovel. In most our traditional societies, if u r pregnant the bride price MUST NOT BE PAID, HOW MUCH MORE RELIGION... The bible says give to ceaser wot belongs to him n to God his. They kno d rules of d church...no one is perfect bt as it has hapend, they shud hav com out klean den go 4 blesing of mariage. They want to do d ''normal'' one forgetin dt u cant eat ur cake n hav it... It is true dt afta TM u r maried bt u belong to other orgnztns so u kno beta...
Posted: at 18-06-2011 06:30 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- toibeli at 18-06-2011 06:44 PM (12 years ago)
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This is invasion of privacy. I didn't know that churches now practice medicine Angry
Posted: at 18-06-2011 06:44 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- toibeli at 18-06-2011 06:47 PM (12 years ago)
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What next, check the men to see if they have sufficient sperm?
Posted: at 18-06-2011 06:47 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- signshow at 18-06-2011 08:08 PM (12 years ago)
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The truth is this right from the day u b/com born again mean the day u know Christ u already christ like u shouldn't in indulge for any casual intercourse sexy ur body is the temple of God must be holy till after wedding. What this mean right from the day u were born u most remain holy till u married anything short from this is sin.     
Posted: at 18-06-2011 08:08 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- Stancy at 18-06-2011 08:20 PM (12 years ago)
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Just passing
Posted: at 18-06-2011 08:20 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- pacomycin at 18-06-2011 08:38 PM (12 years ago)
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hmmm  i nneva c...dat church...i swear i go close am myself if na me b d girl sha...cuz d guy no get probs,na d gaal get...dat is a public disgrace of all time...so the pastor is gonna tel me dat he married his wife a virgin dat as if he has one...wateva...dats so not fair...i wouldnt go in2 dat so called church eva again(speaking 4 my self)its as good as not even going to ghurch at all
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- feyee at 18-06-2011 08:43 PM (12 years ago)
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if nt b'cos....................... Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed
Posted: at 18-06-2011 08:43 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Innoutt at 18-06-2011 09:18 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Ayobamy on 23-09-2010 06:43 AM
If I may ask, why Pregnancy Test why not Virginity Test ? What about the Men how do you test them if they are virgins ?

I attend the "Largest Church in Nigeria "  here in lagos. I was surprised when I heard on friday that my uncle's wedding
has been canceled and has been moved to another church to take place.


It was reported that a pregnancy test was run and that they figured out his wife to be was already 1 month pregnant which
was the main reason for the cancelation of the wedding to take place in the church.


Now thinking about the whole thing, I would say this is totally wrong, because if indeed this issue has to be judged biblically, I would say it is only written in the bible that one must not have intimacy until you are married which automatically means both parties must still be virgins.


So if thats the case, the general test that needs to be run is virginity test, not pregnancy test, because alot of people have gotten married with their virginity lost prior wedding day. I just dont understand what this is all about. I feel the church didnt do well on this, please someone shed a light on this issue and lets see if they did they right thing or not because "What is good for Adam is what Eve got too !"
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It's unbelievable with pregnant test as the reason for rejecting the wedding. May be it's bcos of intimacy as u said bcos some church stand by their teaching. How can a church be against pregnancy and not against intimacy? Or are they not aware that intimacy comes first?
Posted: at 18-06-2011 09:18 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- HOPEA23 at 18-06-2011 09:32 PM (12 years ago)
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ohhh plz...

Posted: at 18-06-2011 09:32 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Kennee at 18-06-2011 09:55 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Stancy on 18-06-2011 08:20 PM
Just passing

Why?

Posted: at 18-06-2011 09:55 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Innoutt at 18-06-2011 10:01 PM (12 years ago)
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   No matter ur commitment to church, ur worship to God is b/w u and GOD, not b/w u and any other person, neither the servants of GOD. Pastors are but spiritual councilors not bible enforcement agents-not bible police.The increase of hypocrisy in the church is caused by men's unnecessary quest to know the mysterious heart of their fellow men instead of devoting to teach the word of GOD with prayers....on the contrary, forcing double hypocrits to take unnecessary defense while living against their conscience....don't forget that conscience is spiritual.
   Some churches practice unnecessary control which enlightening-Bible-teaching combined with individual decision can take care of. At the end, there is still no guarantee of heaven for those who pass this human test. Very ironical but a church doctrine. Why not apply the simpler and more excellent measure which will make it plain that followers destiny is in their hand?.
   Cool Cool Cool
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- mimibre at 18-06-2011 10:15 PM (12 years ago)
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I don't understand dis o! In my church a male member got married, after a few weeks later d leaders/church discovered dat d lady he married was 2months pregant 4 him, n they/leader/church banned d both of dem in d church! N when i ask people they say is an abomination, i don't know wat is abominable in dis. Pls can guy tel me? Am kinda confused, Pls.
Posted: at 18-06-2011 10:15 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Innoutt at 18-06-2011 10:30 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: mimibre on 18-06-2011 10:15 PM
I don't understand dis o! In my church a male member got married, after a few weeks later d leaders/church discovered dat d lady he married was 2months pregant 4 him, n they/leader/church banned d both of dem in d church! N when i ask people they say is an abomination, i don't know wat is abominable in dis. Pls can guy tel me? Am kinda confused, Pls.

   Some church leaders are becoming Bible-Executive-Police instead of Bible teachers and councilors, taking their whole time to monitor the heart of men despite biblical observation that 'the heart of men is a mystery that only God knows'.
   I cannot give anybody the place of GOD in my heart. Anybody that is tired of letting the light of GOD'S word shine should rest. What i gain from church is sound bible teaching, not quality control. The rest is b/w me and GOD. Cool Cool Cool
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- MilleniumMan at 18-06-2011 11:24 PM (12 years ago)
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The church is correct.
Posted: at 18-06-2011 11:24 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ceejay58 at 19-06-2011 01:23 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 23-09-2010 03:28 PM
The dowry has been paid.......so kini big deal?...........by the way, what is marriage self?.............

Cant believe this is coming from u... i ve always liked some of ur comments here but i beg to disagree with u on this one..
The holy books did not say a man should take two or more people to the alter to be joined in holy matrimony.  it's one man, one woman...  That the Catholics re wedding heavily pregnant women is completely un-biblical. People ve got to respect what marriage stands for. "IF ANYONE DESIRES TO BE WEDDED IN THE CHURCH THEN THEY SHOULD DO SO THE RIGHT WAY." 
But if u discover that ur spouse is already with a child prior to ur wedding then there is an option..... THE REGISTRY.

Any true believer and student of the bible would not follow most of the Catholics doctrines... yes i said so..  and i can give u a full list of some Catholics doctrines that re clearly un-biblical.
Posted: at 19-06-2011 01:23 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- ceejay58 at 19-06-2011 01:26 AM (12 years ago)
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THE LEADERSHIP OF THAT CHURCH RE ON THE RIGHT TRACK.

I'm grateful that we ve still got some ministers who stand for HOLINESS.
Posted: at 19-06-2011 01:26 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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