Marital Rape Exists, I Have Experienced it - Victoria Inyama Replies Anita Joseph

Date: 15-06-2020 4:04 pm (4 years ago) | Author: kacy lee
- at 15-06-2020 04:04 PM (4 years ago)
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Nollywood actress, Victoria Inyama, has stated that marital rape is possible, adding that it is something she has seen happen.

Over the weekend, Anita Joseph, faulted statement made by some married women that their husbands raped them when they weren’t in the mood for s3x.

In a video she made with her hubby, the actress opined that a woman’s body is the food of her husband and should be ready for him whenever he needs to ”feed from it.” She says the only time she would frown at a husband is when he assaults his wife just to have s3x with her.

The actress who got married to her hubby in February this year, believes it is wrong for women to tell their husbands they aren’t in the mood for s3x. According to her, when a wife is not in the mood, she should just open her body and when her husband penetrates her, she will eventually get into the mood for s3x.

Reacting to Anita’s video, Victoria Inyama said there indeed is a thing called Marital rape and that many married women have experienced and are still experiencing it. She said sex even in marriage should be with consent. She argued that forcefully having s3x with a spouse is another act of domestic violence.

She said;

“Can a husband rape? Yes a husband can rape his spouse. It depends. Let me define it. Marital rape or spousal rape is the act of segxwal intercourse with ones spouse without the spouse’s consent. The lack of consent is essential here because it does not need to involve physical violence. Marital rape is a form of domestic violence and segxwal abuse.

Husbands can rape wife. I do not know about wife molesting a husband. The most important thing is consent is needed. A lot of women constantly raped in their marriage. They are so ashamed to even talk about it. I have experienced it and I am learning about it. The trauma and the damage it causes is beyond your understanding.”



Posted: at 15-06-2020 04:04 PM (4 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- dopygenius at 15-06-2020 04:45 PM (4 years ago)
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When a man lives his parents and stick to his wife they become "One flesh"
Now when a man forcefully have sex with his wife maybe his wife tells him she is not the mood,to me that's not rape becos it is his wife and they are one flesh,If he is a wise man,after forcefully having sex with his wife he should pet her and buy her gifts,let her feel she is special and not a sex toy to him,not all men can do this,they just feel once they are married, automatically thier wife is now a sex toy where they can quench their Insatiable urge of segxwal desires....
You must treat your wife with respect,you must heed to her consent expecially when it comes to sex,but if the conji no let u control,just force it on her but with caution and love,am i Makin Sense here?? Huh?
Didn't I pay her bride price?
One thing about sex is most men like most women always want to have sex with their partner, listen to me,both of you must understand how your desires of sex works out,both of you need to study and understand how to satisfy each other,is it once a week,two times in a week or often, that's what both of u need to learn...my own na every two two days,once I don smoke igbó,drink mokite,bros clear Road oh,the next thing na to find who to phyuk...I go come dey for that kind mood my wife go come tell me say she no go open leg for me??
Mbanu it can't work Huh?
Posted: at 15-06-2020 04:45 PM (4 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- delightlove at 15-06-2020 05:56 PM (4 years ago)
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Is a man allowed to have sex with a side chick instead of to rape the wife when she's not in the mood, I think it's no problem
Posted: at 15-06-2020 05:56 PM (4 years ago) | Newbie
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- Baye77 at 15-06-2020 06:13 PM (4 years ago)
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A man should respect his wife,and a woman should honour her husband..a man should not forcefully have sex with his wife, but at the same time, there should be a better reason from the wife than just "I'm not in the mood."
Posted: at 15-06-2020 06:13 PM (4 years ago) | Hero
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- kima77same at 15-06-2020 06:29 PM (4 years ago)
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IF SHE CANNOT SATISFY THE segxwal NEEDS OF THE HUSBAND, THERE SHOULD BE AN AGREEMENT BETWEEN THEM THAT, ANY TIME SHE DOES WANT SEX,  THE HUSBAND SHOULD LOOK TO SOMEWHERE ELSE; AND SHE SHOULDN'T COMPLAIN ANYWAY
Posted: at 15-06-2020 06:29 PM (4 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Bebold at 15-06-2020 09:28 PM (4 years ago)
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That’s why your career crumbled bastard idiotic human she goat
Posted: at 15-06-2020 09:28 PM (4 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- delightlove at 15-06-2020 11:38 PM (4 years ago)
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I think women should  allow their husband to seek for segxwal help elsewhere when they're not in the mood instead of committing marriage rape offence.
Posted: at 15-06-2020 11:38 PM (4 years ago) | Newbie
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- damascus at 16-06-2020 10:25 AM (4 years ago)
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Quote from: dopygenius on 15-06-2020 04:45 PM
When a man lives his parents and stick to his wife they become "One flesh"
Now when a man forcefully have sex with his wife maybe his wife tells him she is not the mood,to me that's not rape becos it is his wife and they are one flesh,If he is a wise man,after forcefully having sex with his wife he should pet her and buy her gifts,let her feel she is special and not a sex toy to him,not all men can do this,they just feel once they are married, automatically thier wife is now a sex toy where they can quench their Insatiable urge of segxwal desires....
You must treat your wife with respect,you must heed to her consent expecially when it comes to sex,but if the conji no let u control,just force it on her but with caution and love,am i Makin Sense here?? Huh?
Didn't I pay her bride price?
One thing about sex is most men like most women always want to have sex with their partner, listen to me,both of you must understand how your desires of sex works out,both of you need to study and understand how to satisfy each other,is it once a week,two times in a week or often, that's what both of u need to learn...my own na every two two days,once I don smoke igbó,drink mokite,bros clear Road oh,the next thing na to find who to phyuk...I go come dey for that kind mood my wife go come tell me say she no go open leg for me??
Mbanu it can't work Huh?

Jesus christ i can't believe i am reading this "when a man forecfully have sex with his wife it is not rape" so what is it sir? Then you advised the man to pet her and buy her gifts just to prove that she is not a sex toy. Wow and what does that action implies, she is not a sex toy but a prostitute?. . Rape is rape, it doesn't matter if the person is your wife your husband, your sister, mother or cousin. I can't even believe people can forcefully have sex with someone who is not interested, i honestly can't understand the fun in it. Please don't be forced into marriage due to societal pressure, make sure you only marry someone who is segxwally and emotionally compatible with you. Marriage is not for monkeys, please stay out of it if you don't know how to be romantic, entice your partner or get her in the mood. Just get yourself a baby mama and lavish your magnificient bride price on a prostitute whenever you are in the mood.
Posted: at 16-06-2020 10:25 AM (4 years ago) | Newbie
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