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Date: 10-10-2010 8:02 pm (14 years ago) | Author: katrien
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- mydicksweet at 11-10-2010 11:49 AM (14 years ago)
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Where is she from then?
Posted: at 11-10-2010 11:49 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- tyabo at 11-10-2010 11:56 AM (14 years ago)
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so no b only nigerians dey do dz scam ? lemme tell u dat guy doesn't luv ur friend he only got himself attached 2 her 4 d benefits dat follows...i.e he needs his complete papers 2 stay dere nd dat could only b achieved by doin wot he did.. my advice is 4 her 2 get hold of him nd teach him de lessons of his life...i hate hearing ol dz 4kin scams..so disgustin...goshhhh !!!
Posted: at 11-10-2010 11:56 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 11-10-2010 12:00 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 11-10-2010 11:35 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 11-10-2010 08:31 AM
OH,MY GOD!
I'm really getting mad whenI hear these kind of stories!
I suppose she didn't take her time for knowing him better,and also for trying to find more about him,before getting married,right?
Honestly,if I were her,I would have divorced!
Love?What love?There are 5 kids involved!It's too much!His heart is there,in his country!
she took her time dear, they knew themselves 2 years be4 they got married...
And when he confessed tht he had kids, after forgiving him she tought there wudn be more cos he
already had d guts to tell her dis one....

Wht u say there is true, his heart is in Gambia tht i beliv 2! His wife,kids, family...he got everytin there, exept MONEY  Undecided




I'm too angry and disgusted  to say anything again on this! Undecided Angry

Posted: at 11-10-2010 12:00 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 11-10-2010 12:01 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mydicksweet on 11-10-2010 11:49 AM
Where is she from then?
Belgian gal
Posted: at 11-10-2010 12:01 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 11-10-2010 12:03 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: tyabo on 11-10-2010 11:56 AM
so no b only nigerians dey do dz scam ? lemme tell u dat guy doesn't luv ur friend he only got himself attached 2 her 4 d benefits dat follows...i.e he needs his complete papers 2 stay dere nd dat could only b achieved by doin wot he did.. my advice is 4 her 2 get hold of him nd teach him de lessons of his life...i hate hearing ol dz 4kin scams..so disgustin...goshhhh !!!
I hate it too, cos there r so many gals ready to do it as a bizz, u understand?

Why using somebody and hurt her and ur own kids cos of this

Posted: at 11-10-2010 12:03 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 11-10-2010 12:06 PM (14 years ago)
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@BS, i understand dear is not easy,rily...i pitty her
Posted: at 11-10-2010 12:06 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 11-10-2010 12:20 PM (14 years ago)
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How possible is it to trust a guy that is this deceitful?................And when trust is missing, how possible is it to truly love?.........The marriage was contracted with so much deceit..........some churches would grant your request to divorce based on this - DECEIT...........

Posted: at 11-10-2010 12:20 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- mydicksweet at 11-10-2010 12:21 PM (14 years ago)
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Awww i should have known better now i got the full gist dare the truth is the guy used ur friend to get ahead has in  paper level sad right?
Posted: at 11-10-2010 12:21 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 11-10-2010 12:24 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 11-10-2010 12:20 PM
How possible is it to trust a guy that is this deceitful?................And when trust is missing, how possible is it to truly love?.........The marriage was contracted with so much deceit..........some churches would grant your request to divorce based on this - DECEIT...........
Yes the guy is realy deceitful...And what i dont understand is, why did he lie

about his children, why not confess from the first time that u have 5  Huh?

Divorce is such a big step and she is so scared because financialy with 3 children is not
easy, not talking of finding an other man in the future  Sad

Posted: at 11-10-2010 12:24 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- xter at 11-10-2010 12:30 PM (14 years ago)
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Why can't ur friend 4get about d whole thing and move on. dat's wat u get from dating an unknown quantity

Posted: at 11-10-2010 12:30 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 11-10-2010 12:33 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mydicksweet on 11-10-2010 12:21 PM
Awww i should have known better now i got the full gist dare the truth is the guy used ur friend to get ahead has in  paper level sad right?
Tht is how it looks like  Undecided
Posted: at 11-10-2010 12:33 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 11-10-2010 12:35 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: xter on 11-10-2010 12:30 PM
Why can't ur friend 4get about d whole thing and move on. dat's wat u get from dating an unknown quantity
unknown quantity how? She knew the guy be4 they married....

4get d thing and move on? u make it sound easy...

Posted: at 11-10-2010 12:35 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 11-10-2010 12:38 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: xter on 11-10-2010 12:30 PM
Why can't ur friend 4get about d whole thing and move on. dat's wat u get from dating an unknown quantity

Xter pls explain this.................. Cool

Posted: at 11-10-2010 12:38 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 11-10-2010 02:44 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 11-10-2010 11:27 AM
Quote from: Kennee on 10-10-2010 08:24 PM
The Problem is dat White Women Fall in Love too Easily and Too Blindly

Dis is Something dat Happens all the Time. She should Do herself a Favor and get Dat Love Thing Out of Her Head
Sweetie pie tht one not easy wen 3 kids involved ehn and mehn she rily rily luv tht guy

too much! But she also understand she cant continue like dis, cos d guy no respect her at all at all



l Didn't say she should Stop the Relationship oo... The Simple thing is dat She has no Choice but to Stop d Love, unless she is, or wants 2 be, an Idiot

Posted: at 11-10-2010 02:44 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- macgreat at 11-10-2010 03:19 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 11-10-2010 02:44 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 11-10-2010 11:27 AM
Quote from: Kennee on 10-10-2010 08:24 PM
The Problem is dat White Women Fall in Love too Easily and Too Blindly

Dis is Something dat Happens all the Time. She should Do herself a Favor and get Dat Love Thing Out of Her Head
Sweetie pie tht one not easy wen 3 kids involved ehn and mehn she rily rily luv tht guy

too much! But she also understand she cant continue like dis, cos d guy no respect her at all at all



l Didn't say she should Stop the Relationship oo... The Simple thing is dat She has no Choice but to Stop d Love, unless she is, or wants 2 be, an Idiot

You dey [reverse]go back. . . she's already one.
 Grin

Posted: at 11-10-2010 03:19 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Bissyboy at 11-10-2010 04:22 PM (14 years ago)
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THAT'S A VERY SAD ONE...BETRAYAL OF TRUST. SHE SHOULD CALL IT QUIT, THAT GUY IS NOT WORTH IT. TRULY, WHITE CHICS FALL IN LUV SO EASILY BUT THAT SHOULD NOT BE TAKEN FOR GRANTED... @FLYMAMACITA, TELL HER TO FORGET THE GUY, PITCH HER TENT ELSEWHERE... Sad Sad :'(
Posted: at 11-10-2010 04:22 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- xter at 11-10-2010 05:49 PM (14 years ago)
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Pple wont listen to elder's advise

Posted: at 11-10-2010 05:49 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- chik001 at 11-10-2010 05:54 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 10-10-2010 08:02 PM
Pals, i have a friend with a big problem and i need ur advice....

My friend is bin married for 4 years now with a Gambian guy, and at first everything went ok

but after som time she started to see some strange behaviour from him like, transfer a lot of money

home, no answers when she asked to who,...One day he admided to her tht he has 3 kids back in Gambia

she was shocked and hurt but she got over it and forgiv him for d lies...Back then i told her i didn trust d story

cos no kids without a wife, right?? So now d boyfriend of his sister and a friend of his (they grew up togeda)

told my friend he got 5 kids over there, and is still married, and last when he went for holiday he visited them!

Now she dont knw wht to do cos guess wht, she loves him too much  Undecided
Shud she confront him with d story or go find out more? Shud she stay with him or....?

Pls no insults!


Is your friend white or African ?
Posted: at 11-10-2010 05:54 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mydicksweet at 11-10-2010 06:00 PM (14 years ago)
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That's what its i've been outside Naija for the past three years i know everything that's happening u wont understand there are so many dirty stuff going on expecially with we Nigerians living outside the country
Posted: at 11-10-2010 06:00 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 11-10-2010 06:15 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 11-10-2010 02:44 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 11-10-2010 11:27 AM
Quote from: Kennee on 10-10-2010 08:24 PM
The Problem is dat White Women Fall in Love too Easily and Too Blindly

Dis is Something dat Happens all the Time. She should Do herself a Favor and get Dat Love Thing Out of Her Head
Sweetie pie tht one not easy wen 3 kids involved ehn and mehn she rily rily luv tht guy

too much! But she also understand she cant continue like dis, cos d guy no respect her at all at all



l Didn't say she should Stop the Relationship oo... The Simple thing is dat She has no Choice but to Stop d Love, unless she is, or wants 2 be, an Idiot
Stay in a relationship without love ?
Posted: at 11-10-2010 06:15 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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