Pals, i have a friend with a big problem and i need ur advice....
My friend is bin married for 4 years now with a Gambian guy, and at first everything went ok
but after som time she started to see some strange behaviour from him like, transfer a lot of money
home, no answers when she asked to who,...One day he admided to her tht he has 3 kids back in Gambia
she was shocked and hurt but she got over it and forgiv him for d lies...Back then i told her i didn trust d story
cos no kids without a wife, right?? So now d boyfriend of his sister and a friend of his (they grew up togeda)
told my friend he got 5 kids over there, and is still married, and last when he went for holiday he visited them!
Now she dont knw wht to do cos guess wht, she loves him too much Shud she confront him with d story or go find out more? Shud she stay with him or....?
Pls no insults!
Posted: at 10-10-2010 08:02 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
She should tell him to take her home (gambia) for a visit.But befor that, she needs to get a lot of information about gambia.Definitely ,he has a wife back home.Sum Gambia men are like that.
Posted: at 10-10-2010 08:14 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Before she end anything with this gambian man or watever,tell her to frozen his account...get all his papers and kick his ass out. This dude does love your friend،that why he hide about him from her.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 10-10-2010 08:34 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Yeah i am a wicked being if my brother was treated that way..yeah that is what he got..he should have come out clean in the first place and tell this girl all about him....
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 10-10-2010 08:42 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
mydicksweet at 10-10-2010 11:33 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Na wa oo since u said ur friend truely love this dude there's no need for her going extra miles trying to find out more info about the dude the damage has already been done. trying to find out more info about this dude will only hurt her more.....all she needs to do is to bear with him but while doing that she needs to shine her eyes as in she should try save some money from him just incase things got worst bcs u just never can tell and like i said b4 just incase so that she would have something to hold onto for the raining days
Posted: at 10-10-2010 11:33 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 11-10-2010 08:31 AM (14 years ago) (f)
OH,MY GOD! I'm really getting mad whenI hear these kind of stories! I suppose she didn't take her time for knowing him better,and also for trying to find more about him,before getting married,right? Honestly,if I were her,I would have divorced! Love?What love?There are 5 kids involved!It's too much!His heart is there,in his country!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 11-10-2010 08:31 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
FlyMamacita at 11-10-2010 11:23 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: onyin on 10-10-2010 08:14 PM
She should tell him to take her home (gambia) for a visit.But befor that, she needs to get a lot of information about gambia.Definitely ,he has a wife back home.Sum Gambia men are like that.
u see d guy just went home last month, for like 3 weeks... it was even too much for him to
call his kids here, he said 'yea well when am home i also dont call Africa every day' so i dont see a new visit comin rite now.... And trust me she already talk wit his sister,family but of course they cover for him....
Posted: at 11-10-2010 11:23 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
FlyMamacita at 11-10-2010 11:29 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: HOPEA23 on 10-10-2010 08:34 PM
Before she end anything with this gambian man or watever,tell her to frozen his account...get all his papers and kick his ass out. This dude does love your friend،that why he hide about him from her.
U knw wht d tin is, she already wen to c her lawyer and asked whts up, wht r d tins she can do...
of course she can take his papers cos u cant marry twice, but me i no like dat idea ooo
cos if i imagine maself in d situation, tht guy go b ready for mental institution when they bring am back
for Gambia.... and its d father of her kids ehn
Posted: at 11-10-2010 11:29 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
FlyMamacita at 11-10-2010 11:32 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: mydicksweet on 10-10-2010 11:33 PM
Na wa oo since u said ur friend truely love this dude there's no need for her going extra miles trying to find out more info about the dude the damage has already been done. trying to find out more info about this dude will only hurt her more.....all she needs to do is to bear with him but while doing that she needs to shine her eyes as in she should try save some money from him just incase things got worst bcs u just never can tell and like i said b4 just incase so that she would have something to hold onto for the raining days
yea i told her d same tin to save som money for d rough road, but i dont think she can stay
wit a man who lied to her tht badly...
Posted: at 11-10-2010 11:32 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
FlyMamacita at 11-10-2010 11:35 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: bittersweet on 11-10-2010 08:31 AM
OH,MY GOD! I'm really getting mad whenI hear these kind of stories! I suppose she didn't take her time for knowing him better,and also for trying to find more about him,before getting married,right? Honestly,if I were her,I would have divorced! Love?What love?There are 5 kids involved!It's too much!His heart is there,in his country!
she took her time dear, they knew themselves 2 years be4 they got married... And when he confessed tht he had kids, after forgiving him she tought there wudn be more cos he already had d guts to tell her dis one....
Wht u say there is true, his heart is in Gambia tht i beliv 2! His wife,kids, family...he got everytin there, exept MONEY
Posted: at 11-10-2010 11:35 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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