Aisha Yesufu Under Fire After She Advised Couples To Keep Their Mothers Out Of Their Marriage

Date: 12-12-2020 12:45 pm (2 months ago) | Author: Olusanya Akinrinola
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BringBackOurGirls convener and #EndSARS front-liner, Aisha Yesufu is currently under fire after she advised couples to keep their mothers out of their marriage.
Recall the Nigerian sociopolitical activist had advised married couples to keep their mothers out of their marriage if they want it to work.

According to her, the moment you start sharing what is happening in your marriage with your mother, she will interfere, and that’s the end.

In her words,
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“When you get married, the first person you have to ensure you keep out of your marriage is YOUR MOTHER! Those love and concerns and wanting to find all is okay in the guise of love? It is not healthy! You start sharing what is happening you are done for! They begin to interfere!

As a new couple, learn what works for you. It is unique. Develop it yourself the way you want to. Keep everyone out of it! Do your thing and it is never easy marrying two different lives together. So take your time.
Keep everyone out and do you!”


However, her advice did not seem to go down well with majority of her followers who wasted no time in calling her to other.

While others backed their drags with reasons such as their mom being the Queen in their life and as such, would never place their wife above their mother, others warned her to focus on #EndSARS protest and leave marital issues.

Check out some of their reactions below;









Posted: at 12-12-2020 12:45 PM (2 months ago) | Hero
- nabeng21 at 12-12-2020 02:15 PM (2 months ago)
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Haba! No 3rd party in marriage, simple!
Posted: at 12-12-2020 02:15 PM (2 months ago) | Newbie
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- nabeng21 at 12-12-2020 02:36 PM (2 months ago)
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Haba! No 3rd party in marriage, simple!
Posted: at 12-12-2020 02:36 PM (2 months ago) | Newbie
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- gogoman at 12-12-2020 03:40 PM (2 months ago)
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 12-12-2020 03:40 PM (2 months ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Fedchara at 12-12-2020 04:05 PM (2 months ago)
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People should not be making generalizing statements cus not everyone's character and situation is the same. Yes a man muts remove himself from his mothers apron strings and try to be independent, but that does not mean u cant trust her to meet her on advice on one or 2 issues whether it is family issues or personal. If not for the mother would u have that man to marry? in some situations the men marry wrongly and the wife's are controlling and sending them to early grave, and in some cases it is the mothers advice or intervention that saves the situation, is it only mothers that ruins homes/ dont some bad friends with bad advice ruin marriages/ IT IS UP TO THE MAN TO SEEK ADVIE FROM THE RIGHT PERSON HE TRUSTS INSTAD OF SUFFERING AND DYING IN SILENCE
Posted: at 12-12-2020 04:05 PM (2 months ago) | Upcoming
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- ikpotokin at 13-12-2020 12:27 AM (2 months ago)
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Mothers spoiled their daughters marriages
Posted: at 13-12-2020 12:27 AM (2 months ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Haso112 at 13-12-2020 08:05 AM (2 months ago)
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Quote from: Fedchara on 12-12-2020 04:05 PM
People should not be making generalizing statements cus not everyone's character and situation is the same. Yes a man muts remove himself from his mothers apron strings and try to be independent, but that does not mean u cant trust her to meet her on advice on one or 2 issues whether it is family issues or personal. If not for the mother would u have that man to marry? in some situations the men marry wrongly and the wife's are controlling and sending them to early grave, and in some cases it is the mothers advice or intervention that saves the situation, is it only mothers that ruins homes/ dont some bad friends with bad advice ruin marriages/ IT IS UP TO THE MAN TO SEEK ADVIE FROM THE RIGHT PERSON HE TRUSTS INSTAD OF SUFFERING AND DYING IN SILENCE

BEST COMMENT ON THIS SUBJECT ''EVERYONE'S SITUATION IS DIFFERENT'' FACT...! AYSHA YESUFU SURE SHOULDN'T HAVE GENERALIZED, BUT THERE'S PLENTY TRUTH IN WHAT SHE SAID. MANY OF THOSE MEN & WOMEN SAYING THEY PUT THEIR MOTHERS FIRST & WIFE SECOND REALLY DON'T DESERVE MARRIAGE BECAUSE THEY SIMPLY DON'T UNDERSTAND WHAT IT MEANS....
Posted: at 13-12-2020 08:05 AM (2 months ago) | Gistmaniac
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