![-]( "Emmandazie") Emmandazie at 19-10-2010 04:54 PM (13 years ago)  (m) He would've let sleeping dogs lie,who send am 2 cal her ex?
Abeg if d marriage wan crash,make e crash!
If your guy call that you love and take present to ur family receive call from his ex, you warn him, ye no lef'am you come catch him again, you go let him continue?
anyhow I am a man and stigmatisation go go na for her much if de marriage crash sef. All this na for sey make we learn no make the same mistake! | Posted: at 19-10-2010 04:54 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Emmandazie") Emmandazie at 19-10-2010 04:58 PM (13 years ago) (m) One more question 4u......i believe b4 u got married to her u must have gone out with her for some time which is normal.....what i'm trying say is that how long have u known ur wife b4 u got married to her?
We spent over three yrs. She proved very good not only to me but even to people around us. Now those near us are not aware of what I am going through but this forum is neutral that is why I bring it here. Make God bless these contributors well well | Posted: at 19-10-2010 04:58 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Emmandazie") Emmandazie at 19-10-2010 05:08 PM (13 years ago) (m) OK pals, I beg make I close today go that fire house. I go come take more advice 2mrrw bcos this weekend, de palaver must end for good or bad. Thank wanna and God bless. | Posted: at 19-10-2010 05:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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@kenne. You're right and the issue now is how can you like a brother get me out of this mess? I can easily get rid of her but then this is my very first attempt and I will only do that at the last resort
Hmmmm........for now keep divorce out of your dictionary..........your marriage is just too young for all these sha.......call her to a round-table discussion........ask her if she prefers that the marriage crashes..........From my observations, it is the woman who is at a disadvantage when a marriage crashes, becos she has then become SECOND HAND.......and if she sees some other man who wants to marry her, the man's family would want to know why she left her previous marriage..but if a man is divorced, people hardly ask that question.....she better shine her eyes becos real husbands dey scarce..........get someone to tell her that......she doesnt know what she has got until she succeeds in destroying her marriage......COMMUNICATION is one strong pillar of a relationship, if she keeps communicating with her ex, she is still willing to keep that relationship alife.......Take charge!......be the man......bring her back from that cloud 9
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 19-10-2010 05:11 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "macgreat") macgreat at 19-10-2010 05:14 PM (13 years ago) (m) MAc what u up to now?
Hey D, I just dey here Ooo...
My life is BEAUTIFUL! . . don't NEED attentions, Give 'em to those who really NEED 'em. . . No Time | Posted: at 19-10-2010 05:14 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Hmmmm strange u know but i think at this point in time i would have love to say you should seat her down talk to her 1 on 1 let her tell u her mind if she still want to be with u or not.....bcs for me u being the head of the family u have every say in the house a woman that cant abide by ur rules in ur own house is not worth to be called a wife couppled with mess she's into right now......dont think 4 once that ur marriage is too early phyuk that if she cant respect u or abide by ur rules let her go....life is too short ur happiness is what matter's | Posted: at 19-10-2010 05:23 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "diplomatik") diplomatik at 19-10-2010 05:25 PM (13 years ago) (f) MAc what u up to now?
Hey D, I just dey here Ooo... u sound bored..how pepi ?
u've seen me right?  i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either  , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool  | Posted: at 19-10-2010 05:25 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "macgreat") macgreat at 19-10-2010 05:26 PM (13 years ago) (m) MAc what u up to now?
Hey D, I just dey here Ooo... u sound bored..how pepi ? Super Bored. . . Pepi, 'e don tal wey i hear from ham Ooo... I'm sure him dey alright.
My life is BEAUTIFUL! . . don't NEED attentions, Give 'em to those who really NEED 'em. . . No Time | Posted: at 19-10-2010 05:26 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Pepesy") Pepesy at 19-10-2010 06:09 PM (13 years ago) (f) it is so cmplicatd. l tink dis marriage had crack rite 4rm d onset. D lady had had upper hand in dat marriage while d guy been over leanne probably out of luv (too much love) b4 now. Poster,,, l'll advice u find out whether she still wnt 2 continue wit d marriage possbly,,, her ex wnt her for marriage nd she wouldnt mind divorcing. So far so bad,,,, try 2 sort it out wit ur wify afterall,,, we hv nt heard her own side of d story... | Posted: at 19-10-2010 06:09 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 19-10-2010 10:44 PM (13 years ago) (m) @kenne. You're right and the issue now is how can you like a brother get me out of this mess? I can easily get rid of her but then this is my very first attempt and I will only do that at the last resort
Well, get Some1 She Respects to Intervene and let her See dat She's not Helping the Marriage If dat Doesn't Work, it means She's not rally Down with the Marriage
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 19-10-2010 10:44 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 19-10-2010 10:45 PM (13 years ago) (m) it is so cmplicatd. l tink dis marriage had crack rite 4rm d onset. D lady had had upper hand in dat marriage while d guy been over leanne probably out of luv (too much love) b4 now. Poster,,, l'll advice u find out whether she still wnt 2 continue wit d marriage possbly,,, her ex wnt her for marriage nd she wouldnt mind divorcing. So far so bad,,,, try 2 sort it out wit ur wify afterall,,, we hv nt heard her own side of d story...
Yep! She's Been Controlling the Thing from Day 1
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 19-10-2010 10:45 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "mazi") mazi at 19-10-2010 10:54 PM (13 years ago) (m) it's always easier to stay afar nd condemn somebody's action.
i know a lot of guyz will go berserk to know thr wives or gfs are still hving anything to do wit thr exs.
even whr nothing is going on, d mind always play game wit us.
hving said dat...
d man calling d wife's ex shows he doesn't trust d wife a bit nd he is nt in control.
nd d woman hving d impetus to warn his man shows she is in control of d marriage, which is very suspicious!
thr is total lack of communication nd respect in dat marriage. | Posted: at 19-10-2010 10:54 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "xter") xter at 19-10-2010 10:56 PM (13 years ago) (m) hmmm
Here comes d Great King Xtervaganza  | Posted: at 19-10-2010 10:56 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "xena15") xena15 at 19-10-2010 10:58 PM (13 years ago) (f) Abeg bone dis matter.
D devil must b using ur destiny 2 weave his pubic hair if u think imma change all ma colors 4 u! | Posted: at 19-10-2010 10:58 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Emmandazie") Emmandazie at 20-10-2010 12:04 PM (13 years ago) (m) Hi pals, thanks a million 4 contributions. Indeed, this marraige actually lasted 5 months and break off and poster simply used this one episode of a long story to learn and teach aspiring couples. Life is sweet and good to live in happiness so when we get into marriage, we should know that happiness in it depends on ur ability to render ur spouse happy. wish you all good luck! | Posted: at 20-10-2010 12:04 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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So I just waste my time abi?.........you don even broke off self?..............I dey vex......oya give me back all that time I wasted trying to help you patch...........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 20-10-2010 12:11 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Emmandazie") Emmandazie at 20-10-2010 12:35 PM (13 years ago) (m) So I just waste my time abi?.........you don even broke off self?..............I dey vex......oya give me back all that time I wasted trying to help you patch...........
Pls, I enjoyed ur contribution so much and the most important aspect of this forum is help in peacebuilding. Ur time has taught many persons, not only me and even you. I am writing from very far and the effects of ur time is worldwide. Concerning this particular marriage, this is just one little episode of it for at the end, my wife packed by her own self and left. I simply stood watching her and when going, I even cautioned the cab driver to drive gently. Ofcourse, she on her knees to come back but my heart is closed! | Posted: at 20-10-2010 12:35 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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hehehe.....ok......nothing do you.........I was just joking.............am sorry about your crashed marriage......I hope you find the true love you seek.......seems you are a peace loving man......
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 20-10-2010 12:44 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 20-10-2010 12:48 PM (13 years ago) (f) So I just waste my time abi?.........you don even broke off self?..............I dey vex......oya give me back all that time I wasted trying to help you patch...........
Pls, I enjoyed ur contribution so much and the most important aspect of this forum is help in peacebuilding. Ur time has taught many persons, not only me and even you. I am writing from very far and the effects of ur time is worldwide. Concerning this particular marriage, this is just one little episode of it for at the end, my wife packed by her own self and left. I simply stood watching her and when going, I even cautioned the cab driver to drive gently. Ofcourse, she on her knees to come back but my heart is closed! well dont really know what to say but i just pray your heart goets the healing is soo desrves
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 20-10-2010 12:48 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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