This man is well to do and wants her hand in marriage but she is confused cos of d leg
she needs advice pls
Posted: at 21-10-2010 09:23 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 21-10-2010 09:27 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Now exists the possibility to prosthesis that leg,and he can walk almost normally! If he possesses the qualities of a real man,I don't see any problem!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 21-10-2010 09:27 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 21-10-2010 09:29 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
blessedme at 21-10-2010 09:34 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: bittersweet on 21-10-2010 09:27 AM
Now exists the possibility to prosthesis that leg,and he can walk almost normally! If he possesses the qualities of a real man,I don't see any problem!
he uses cruches the leg is cut off from above the knee
Posted: at 21-10-2010 09:34 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 21-10-2010 09:36 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: blessedme on 21-10-2010 09:34 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 21-10-2010 09:27 AM
Now exists the possibility to prosthesis that leg,and he can walk almost normally! If he possesses the qualities of a real man,I don't see any problem!
he uses cruches the leg is cut off from above the knee
He could prosthesis that leg,and he wouldn't need crutches anymore!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 21-10-2010 09:36 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
Emmandazie at 21-10-2010 10:08 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Cruches, prothesis or not. Is that what makes her happy? If she fells uncomfortable moving with him then let her say a big NO. Marry someone you love for who that person is. If he has said no to prothesis, I think it will be needless for her getting married with hope of changing his mind.
Posted: at 21-10-2010 10:08 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 21-10-2010 11:34 AM (13 years ago) (f)
It would be a mistake for anybody to marry somebody with the hope that they can change that person after marriage! That would be a big stupidity! But I was referring that in this case she should be able to influence him,and not for her,but for easing his life! But if her word means nothing to him...sorry but I don't think that the things will not work well with them!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 21-10-2010 11:34 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
Emmandazie at 21-10-2010 11:46 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: bittersweet on 21-10-2010 11:34 AM
It would be a mistake for anybody to marry somebody with the hope that they can change that person after marriage! That would be a big stupidity! But I was referring that in this case she should be able to influence him,and not for her,but for easing his life! But if her word means nothing to him...sorry but I don't think that the things will not work well with them!
I see ur pnt very well: To ease his life (which I could also do) but if he is adamant, it means she hasn't got the impact in his decision and then should decide if she is willing to marry such a man or not
Posted: at 21-10-2010 11:46 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 21-10-2010 11:51 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Emmandazie on 21-10-2010 11:46 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 21-10-2010 11:34 AM
It would be a mistake for anybody to marry somebody with the hope that they can change that person after marriage! That would be a big stupidity! But I was referring that in this case she should be able to influence him,and not for her,but for easing his life! But if her word means nothing to him...sorry but I don't think that the things will not work well with them!
I see ur pnt very well: To ease his life (which I could also do) but if he is adamant, it means she hasn't got the impact in his decision and then should decide if she is willing to marry such a man or not
Exactly!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 21-10-2010 11:51 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
Cruches, prothesis or not. Is that what makes her happy? If she fells uncomfortable moving with him then let her say a big NO. Marry someone you love for who that person is. If he has said no to prothesis, I think it will be needless for her getting married with hope of changing his mind.
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you!
Posted: at 21-10-2010 11:54 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac