i dated a girl that got pregnant and had a baby for me, but we had problem in the course of her pregnancy, her family doesn't want her to see me anymore and they have blocked my access to the baby. The girl wants us to be together again but her family militates against it. Now there's a girl i'm dating now that will do anything to keep me. Now i can't take the other girl's call in her presence cos she'll b angry over it. She's already suspected that i have a baby but i denied it. Do i come out open and tell her the truth and let her decide or wait for her to find out.
Posted: at 21-10-2010 05:49 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
bittersweet at 21-10-2010 05:51 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Just tell her the truth ASAP!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 21-10-2010 05:51 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
diplomatik at 21-10-2010 05:51 PM (14 years ago) (f)
why on earth did u deny ur kid?
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 21-10-2010 05:51 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
i dated a girl that got pregnant and had a baby for me, but we had problem in the course of her pregnancy, her family doesn't want her to see me anymore and they have blocked my access to the baby. The girl wants us to be together again but her family militates against it. Now there's a girl i'm dating now that will do anything to keep me. Now i can't take the other girl's call in her presence cos she'll b angry over it. She's already suspected that i have a baby but i denied it. Do i come out open and tell her the truth and let her decide or wait for her to find out.
u are complicating g issues for urself..we all have a past,,it happened when u havnt met her..come to think of it, do u know how many times abortion she has done or do u know if she has a babe somewhere?
CHILDREN ARE BORN BUT MEN ARE MADE;THE GOLD THAT WILL BE REFINED MUST PASS THROUGH THE FURNACE.WORDS
Posted: at 21-10-2010 05:53 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
diplomatik at 21-10-2010 06:05 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: slimromeo on 21-10-2010 05:58 PM
@diplomatik i didn't deny my baby,her bride pize was not paid during that time, she and her family got angry at that.
welll there's no needto deny anything like esonu said she was ur past ..time to move on..start talking
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 21-10-2010 06:05 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
justceetah at 21-10-2010 06:10 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Don't bring trouble to urself,find a way to let her knw dat indeed u have a baby.If she can't cope with it she'll leave u but if she can then she'll stay.Also,hope d mother of ur baby is aware of d new gurl?
Friends determined by distance are no friends at all
Posted: at 21-10-2010 06:10 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
goingwithyou at 21-10-2010 06:16 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Am nt going to lie to u pal d best thing to do just tell her d TRUTH of d story .. as u said she love u and dont even want u picking another girl calls dat means d love still dre .. Give it to her when is hot now okay ... bco when is cold and u tell her she going to dump u with out thinking abt it...
Posted: at 21-10-2010 06:16 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
i dated a girl that got pregnant and had a baby for me, but we had problem in the course of her pregnancy, her family doesn't want her to see me anymore and they have blocked my access to the baby. The girl wants us to be together again but her family militates against it. Now there's a girl i'm dating now that will do anything to keep me. Now i can't take the other girl's call in her presence cos she'll b angry over it. She's already suspected that i have a baby but i denied it. Do i come out open and tell her the truth and let her decide or wait for her to find out.
Ask me Again
Why do Humans Like Stupid Secrets??
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 21-10-2010 09:15 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
oh boy talking from experience your baby mother still loves you and no woman pray to just be a baby mother to a guy. it is all her family faults trying to ruin her life for their own selfish interest
your new girl is kind of desperate to me and i see that you are scared of her or what anyway i don't know if you still love your baby mother if not then move on but try and study your new girl properly before another pregnancy!!! now if you look at it properly your baby mother is the loser just because of her family.. i believe that listening to third party has ruin your relationship and right now this is the time you need to think about your child first
talk to an elderly person in your family okay
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you!
Posted: at 21-10-2010 09:33 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
sixtyhoneyy at 21-10-2010 09:48 PM (14 years ago) (f)
nosense, poster let that innocent girl go cause in this case i belive sooner or later you are still going to make peace with that baby mother of yours,i hv seen alot of cases like this,
Posted: at 21-10-2010 09:48 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Why did you even bring a second girl into the picture when you were not done with the first? And you sound as though you dont love the second as you do the first...like you said she would do anything to keep you...would you do anything to keep her ( i.e. the second girl)?
My candid advice: Tell your new babe the ENTIRE truth and move on with your life...stop complicating issues for yourself.
I Am Different Because I Stand For The Lord Jesus!
Posted: at 21-10-2010 10:43 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
Dude call a spade a spade.If you love the girl you are dating you can forgo the other girl.But It sucks though when you are settling for something some old goons just frustrate peoples path to happiness.
aquila non decapit muscas
Posted: at 21-10-2010 11:00 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
sixtyhoneyy at 21-10-2010 11:04 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: fireman on 21-10-2010 11:00 PM
Dude call a spade a spade.If you love the girl you are dating you can forgo the other girl.But It *****s though when you are settling for something some old goons just frustrate peoples path to happiness.
don't mind him,nosense
Posted: at 21-10-2010 11:04 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
i dated a girl that got pregnant and had a baby for me, but we had problem in the course of her pregnancy, her family doesn't want her to see me anymore and they have blocked my access to the baby. The girl wants us to be together again but her family militates against it. Now there's a girl i'm dating now that will do anything to keep me. Now i can't take the other girl's call in her presence cos she'll b angry over it. She's already suspected that i have a baby but i denied it. Do i come out open and tell her the truth and let her decide or wait for her to find out.
u can never hv peace of mind by being dodgy. d truth shall always set u free.
Posted: at 21-10-2010 11:09 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either 
, i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool 
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